A Conversation for How Best to Cope with Bereavement
My Partner Died
eileen Started conversation Sep 26, 2010
I lost my lovely partner 8weeks ago after 18yrs,
I feel lost,lonely,full of fear, hurt,angry,take it
out on people i love.what am i to do without my man.
I moved home thinking that would help but it has'nt
i know its early days and so raw i hope an pray who ever
may be suffering like i am right now...gets the help an advice
and comfort to get them through this most terrible time.
All i feel is Lost 
My Partner Died
Galaxy Babe - eclectic editor Posted Sep 27, 2010
Eileen I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dear father to cancer 4 years ago and so I know how it feels to lose someone, I'm not just saying the words. You don't ever stop missing them, you just learn to live without them.
I'm not sure what to suggest for you, maybe in the future you could find a women's group like a widows association (my mother joined one) they go out for lunch, have bingo sessions and day trips out. It doesn't make up for a partner but can ease the lonliness you must feel.
In the meantime please do look after yourself. It's easy to forget to eat and not take care while out and about. Please don't make yourself ill. Have you other family/friends around, or even a pet to focus on?
I do hope you find something to ease your pain, much 
and a 
and 
from Ann aka Galaxy Babe
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