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It's more than a missing, he broke up with her yesterday

oh, no, that's terrible

what a rotter to do that when she is away

poor Opti

Oh dear, that's not good.

4 Opti

*leaves and for when she comes back*

I think I will just have to put this down to experience and move on yes I loved him and yes I still do but people are telling me to move on and thats what I must do... the guy wants to be friends with me again but I don`t think that is at all possible I`d rather leg it from this mess

maybe a break would be for the best for a while, once you're back there things might be better

how can things be better once i am back at uni?

You will be able to get stuck into a new phase of your life

Are you back from canada then?

nope i am still In Canada and I am not at all happy with myself that this has happened. I wonder if avoiding the guy is the best thing to do I feel like it is... otherwise I know I will boil up inside and go mad at him if i saw him

Then it maybe a good thing you are not back yet, it will give you a chance to work through your feelings and be a bit calmer when you do see him

I think it is very poor of him to do this while you are away,perhaps he is missing you, but doesn't know how to cope, or is scared of his feeling and thought to break it off, rather than think about how he feels

then again I could be completely wrong, and bopping him in the nose,might make you feel better

not up to talking much, I have a possibly fractured ankle at the mo, and am flying rather high on painkillers

I`m sorry to hear about your injury

as for why our relationship broke up ... well thats more a matter of the fact that he felt he could no longer trust me over what i have done to him.... hence I feel to blame... and I am in love

I`m sorry to hear about your injury

as for why our relationship broke up ... well thats more a matter of the fact that he felt he could no longer trust me over what i have done to him.... hence I feel to blame... and I am in love

I`m sorry to hear about your injury

as for why our relationship broke up ... well thats more a matter of the fact that he felt he could no longer trust me over what i have done to him.... hence I feel to blame... and I am in love

You are never to blame yourself, for someone elses feelings

Here's a and some , hope it helps

first true love is never easy

Yes but I cheated on the guy towards the beginning of our relationship. Then I kissed a load of other guys at clubs. FFurthermore, DoctorMO showed up and I was annoyed with my mum as she said that perhaps I`d meet someone in Canada and fall for them (this somehow slipped into my ex`s ears) .... so that is why i hate myself i have every right to. Everyday I beat myself up over what I did and now I have lost him and he just wants to be friends and we are still both in love!!!

well, be friends for a while and the trust might come back
You are only young yet, and have much growing and learning to do, this is all part of growing up, and is probably the worst bit,and the most painful emotionally

I'm going to hobble back to bed and try to get some more sleep, as it is about 2.00 am here

try to be kind to yourself

wish I could have be more help Opt, and the Dr MO, thing, was not your fault, you could not have known he was going to do what he did

I don`t think being friends is possible

Ankle still bad?

for Opt, you'll just have to leave it a few days I suppose , sorry but there's not much I can suggest.

Hi Opt! After lurking like a sick voyeur for the past twenty-odd postings I thought I'd better at least offer my sympathies, for what they're worth. Won't presume to offer too much advice except to say, if you don't think you can carry on a friendship with him, don't. It's tricky enough dealing with a break-up without that added into the mix.

Oh, and I'll also mention the following h2g2 article, one of last year's collaborative topics which offers a moderate amount of sound advice:
A695388 - Dealing with Being Dumped

Thanks for offering me the article to read I will do anything to have my heart intact again and to go back to being friends with my ex