This is a Journal entry by Fish's Freak

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Post 21

Fish's Freak

smiley - biggrin Well, a couple of friends of mine were in weight-watchers type groups - one was excited becasue she was still allowed to eat eggs, and the other hadn't changed noticably in around two years, so I decided to go it alone. In the past year, I've lost around 40 kilos (so imagine what I looked like before!) and this has ellicited three reactions - people either tell me I look great and are proud of or happy for me, or that they think I must be anorexic smiley - erm and are worried, or they resent me for being able to do it. Most people are really supportive of me though - in fact, the only person who reacted negatively was a friend who has struggled to lose weight, and I hate to say this but I think she was jealous. smiley - sadface

But I get what you say about the 'screw it' - Thursday - Sunday were 'oh, stuff healthy eating' days for me, just because I was feeling down both mentally and physically and needed sugar boosts and comfort food. But I don't do it often, and I know my limits, and whatever - if I eat junk food I always aim to work it off by doing extra excercise.

A thing was, though, that when I visited my family recently they all said how great I was looking and that I should stop losing weight. But it's like you said, I'm not happy, and more to the point, I'm still overweight. But I don't worry about it as much as I used to. No-one seems to care that much nowadays. smiley - smiley


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Post 22

Lady Pennywhistle - Back with a vengeance! [for a certain, limited value of Vengeance; actual amounts of Vengeance may vary]

smiley - ok
I'm now within the range of my 'target weight', and am usually alright at keeping it.

I think as long as you find something that is good for you and stick to it, that's all you need.


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Post 23

Fish's Freak

The thing I was worried about was maintaining a weight - I know how to lose weight, and how to gain weight, but not sure how to keep it the same. smiley - erm


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Post 24

GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

If you lower it enough it will reach a point where it can't go any lower. I've been there for years. smiley - smiley


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Post 25

Fish's Freak

Yes. I know. *poke* smiley - smiley


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Post 26

GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

What? It's quite nice.

Although it's very noticable when your bladder is full. smiley - erm


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Post 27

Fish's Freak

You're a bit boney, though. Not very cuddlesome.

But very smiley - smoochable. smiley - biggrin


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GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

smiley - bigeyes

*cough*


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Post 29

Fish's Freak

smiley - erm What?


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Post 30

GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

Oh, I was just thinking about smiley - smooching you.


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Post 31

Fish's Freak

*giggle* smiley - smooch I love you. smiley - smooch


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Post 32

GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

I love you more than I love all the sheep in the ocean.

Technically true, that. smiley - erm


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Post 33

Fish's Freak

smiley - erm And it makes me feel so special.


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Post 34

GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

I'm not good at that sort of talk. smiley - erm


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Fish's Freak

Oh yes you are. smiley - smooch


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Post 36

GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

Yeah, but it feels silly. smiley - erm


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Post 37

Fish's Freak

But it's so very very nice. smiley - smooch


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Post 38

GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

Nice, but still silly. smiley - erm


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Post 39

Fish's Freak

Nice outweighs silly. smiley - smooch


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Post 40

GodBen (The Magical Astronomer) - 00000011

Then why do you laugh at some of the cheesy things that I say?


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