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Post 41

Lash LeRue

I had to wear a dicky bow to mine and I had to do a reading and sing a solo.

I was 7,*groans* the embarresment.


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Post 42

nicki

ah ok. It is pretty much the same. I got a book about first communion when i was confirmed. confirmation is when we get our first communion. The difference really is we dont do the dress thing. but its still a special service with the bishop and stuff. its a good experience.

How old is alex?


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Post 43

Reefgirl (Brunel Baby)

10, she only started going to church last year, First Communion is a BIG thing, Alex has to where a white dress and veil, all her family will be there and there's going to be a BBQ in the afternoon, it's a huge event, All the boys are getting special ties made with the date and chalice embroidered on it


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Post 44

Lash LeRue

Will she do the "rounds".That is the best part of the day,I made 750 punt on my rounds.Thats not including the brocken statues and Holy communion cards.


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Post 45

nicki

I was 12 when I got confirmed. february 1998. I think the big difference between the c of e and the catholic is the formality. with c of e we dont have to get outfits and we just have a meal after words. we can go in jeans and a t sirts if we really want to! most people do tend to get a bit dressed up though. I remember getting a new pair of trousers and this arran jumper which i loved!


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Post 46

Lash LeRue

For my confirmation I wore a hoody and a paite of cream jeans,one person wore a Metalica jumper.


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Post 47

Reefgirl (Brunel Baby)

I think Alex will get presants from the people in the church and from the family too


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Post 48

nicki

yeah thats what i got.

my mum bought me a porcelen dol (which i collected at the time) which is kneeling praying and a book about first mass(which is catholic not c of e!).

we never did the "rounds" but i have heard of it from reading autobiographys from ireland (a fascination cant explain it!)


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Post 49

Reefgirl (Brunel Baby)

I really have no idea what all this entails as I've never been through it


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Post 50

nicki

doing the rounds, according to the autobiographies, is where they knock on doors near to where they live telling them its their first communion and hope to get money from them. its really just a form of begging.


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Post 51

Reefgirl (Brunel Baby)

I guessed that bit, it was the first communion/confermation thing I'm not sure of


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Post 52

nicki

oh smiley - blush
its just about confirming your belief. when you are baptised (at childhood) your parents say you are a christian. when you are confrimed you make that decision your self and you confirm your belief in Jesus and the rest of the christian faith.

you also take your first communion at the ceremony which is just bread and wine which represents the body and blood of Jesus.

the servise it self is just a question answer sesion between all the people getting confirmed and the bishop. you then go individually up to the bishop and hell lay your hands on you and say something and may then have a chat with you while your kneeled on the floor in front of him.

its really nice


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Post 53

Reefgirl (Brunel Baby)

Ah ha


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Post 54

nicki

smiley - biggrin


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Post 55

Lash LeRue

For mine the Bishop lightly slaps your cheek,and says some mumbo jumbo.

Confirmation is just an excuse to have a 2 hour mass,for the alter boys to make alot of money,and to have a huge party.....Bascically the mass itself is Mystic Nonsense.....but who dosen't like a bit of mystic nonsense every now and then.


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Post 56

Reefgirl (Brunel Baby)

I have no idea at all as I'm not of the Catholic faith


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Post 57

Lash LeRue

Come into Cork airport and close your eyes and the first person will say he/her is a catholic,but most people don't go to mass.


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Post 58

Reefgirl (Brunel Baby)

My mum took the Catholic faith 2 years ago after a lifetime of the Church of England


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Post 59

Lash LeRue

Well it is the fastest growing christian religion.


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Post 60

Reefgirl (Brunel Baby)

Mum says it's not so dogmatic as the Protestant


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