h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

I am determined not to let JK's bad behaviour drive me from hootoo. Since I left a message on his page demanding an apology for what he said about me on the Archers board, he's not appeared

Still busy morning vacuumed all bottom floor of house,cleaned bathroom, did 3 loads of washing(last one in now) made a fruit flan and some bread buns and washed up.Will have some time to myself once washing is finished. I decided against hanging it out....looks like it might pour down any minute
Cats.. have been quite well behaved..but that is because they don't like the new hoover It sucks up anything in it's path including cat's tails.
So all quiet again and ship shape as the saying goes. I have to go back to work next week...not looking forward to it.Still it keeps me busy
to all. Have a good day.

let your hootoo friends bond be stronger!

to jk do not do jeffrey archer...

hello Pheloxi

thought it would make you

some man can be so childish...lets send him ahead hurricane Dean he can learn something from Superman (D Cain).

One thing you can depend on Tabs, HooToo will always be here and is always a true reliable friend. Stick with it.

I shall refrain from any comment Pheloxi...there are so many replies but all uncomplimentary.
I have to go sort out the last load of washing..will try and catch you later for a chat

clean clothes is good!

Hi ST.Well i think my friends here know what i am really like and know what he has said can't possibly be true..but it's still hurtful. Got to go -will catch you all later

OK here's the apology http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/mbarchers/F2693943?thread=4464596&post=52347064#p52347064 Allthough you *did* say a purpose of my visit, and I quote, "to show me what I'd be missing"...

You can't even apologise for something nasty you have done with out trying to put the blame onto me can you? You thought this, you wrote it on a a public website..no one made you.When are you going to stop making excuses or blaming other people and take some responsibility for your own actions? No doubt you wrote it in such a way as to elicit lots of sympathy from fellow posters..i wonder how sympathetic they would be if they knew how badly you had behaved.But unlike you I have more dignity than to tell everyone.I treated you with nothing but kindness and compassion and gave you lots of chances and the result is this.
Stay out of my PS and and away from me.

I apologies to my fellow hootooers who have had to read the message above. This has caused me so much distress, I had to for once, hit back.
to all and thankyou for your support.

I'm SORRY - I said these were irrational feelings, and had nothing to do with the reality of our breakup - You have treated me with pretty much nothing but generosity and kindness despite my, at times, appalling behaviour towards you. And upon cold reflection I shouldn't have added that last comment as you made it in jest, I believe.

I would like to talk and sort this horrible mess out, and I'm sorry that all this is causing you so much hurt in this already stressful time.

Please leave me alone JK . I want nothing more to do with you.There are no more chances...publicly humiliating me and saying horrible things about me was the last straw.
I hope you find happiness somewhere and with someone.Please leave me alone so I can find some peace.

ignore the anti karma he might feed on it...

I'm sorry Tabitca, I'd no idea your ex was also online here. Having had a very public split from someone here I know how hard it can be - especially when years later things I would have thought would be done and dusted five years ago are still being used against me in various ways.

I hope things calm down soon.

Thanks. I tried to keep things on good terms but what can you do?
Life is trying some times

hands Tabitca rose bushes to make prickly fence...

I think I need to develop a prickly personality as I'm too soft and get taken advantage of

nah...be as you are...able!

assertiveness training might be an idea, though...

I used to teach assertiveness training Pheloxi I am quite capable of saying no. It's because I am good natured and don't anger easily as my boss puts it"full of grace" ....so people think they can take advantage. All that happens is that I say get out of my life and they are the losers.I don't need people like that.I will do anything to help anyone..I don't see the point in not helping someone if you can,but some see that as a sign of weakness.... it's apparently a sign of strength our college chaplain at work tells me(she's as mad as a coot though)
Men especially seem to think if you have a caring nature that they will always be forgiven...not so...there comes a point when enough is enough.
some people are life's takers .some life's givers..I just have to learn to take more and give less