h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Love what you say about sex, pornography and the rest.
Its so sad that society has taken against bdsm without understanding the first thing about it.
The idea of your submissiveness is a real turn on and doubtless you will find the perfect situation before long to explore that side of your nature - good luck.
There is a saying though - sometimes it is better to travel than to arrive.
Your feelings are wonderful, all the passion you can put into them - says a lot about you, who you are and what you can do; however you may find the reality as represented by todays face of bdsm bitterly dissapointing and sordid, it would be a shame to spoil your passion by this exposure.
Meanwhile there is a whole lot you can do all on your lonesome as you no doubt have discovered.
All the best
B

Thanks so much for your comments.

I'm perfectly fine staying away from the "real world" at present, really. You're right, there's a lot you can do on your own.

Thanks too, all the best
B

Thanks too.
What books have you found most enjoyable?
b

In this particular field? I do a lot of scholarly research about erotica, so I'm reasonably well-read. There's Story of O of course (probably the best example of the genre), and I've read the bare rudiments of de Sade and Sacher-Masoch. I'm trying to get a good basis with the classics, but as a kid without a credit card, though, I don't get my hands on as much as I'd like.

Trouble with those two is that they are rather obsessive, and so unless you are in tune with their predelictions they can be very hard going.
De sade is however interesting because of his ferocious intellect.
A much more interesting period is from the 60s to the 80s with guys like campbell - could give you a bit of a run down if you like as i have a fairly extensive library.
Pat Califa is rather interesting.
B

https://3v.ie - Is there an American equivalent?

I don't know of one - I find that Canada and Europe tend to be ahead of us on most new financial schemes, though.