h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

wow... i guess you're going to have to wait for jerms to come back i'm not sure i can give any good advise...

i've never gone out wiht anyone... but i do know that if i'm the second girl and i really like you then i'd be pretty sad if you left me for the second girl... that probably doesnt help at all... but if you dont even know if you have a chance wiht the other girl i suppose it comes down to wether you want to take a risk... but like i said, perhaps you should wait for jerms to come back, and totally egnore my advise... as i dont think its all that heplful...

come on tanzen... tell us where you work...

Suddenly I'm the expert?!

lol. Unfortunately I actually /have/ been in that position...
and because I don't /know/ any of the personalities involved, or how you'd all react to each other, I have to be vague... but the main thing is to be honest. With both of them. And yourself. If you don't know how you feel about someone, say so. If you /do/ know how you feel, tell them how you feel.
If you're honest then they'll respect you. If they respect you, they're more likely to hang around while you figure out what's going on. And if they hang around, then you have more time to figure it all out, and to get to know them better, and have more opportunities to er... hook up with them. That's not the right way to say that, but I hope you get what I mean.
Also if they respect you for being honest then even if you break up with girl #2, then you might still be friends, so it won't be a complete loss.
Hey, if you're /really/ lucky you might end up with all three of you being inverted-comma-friends-inverted-comma!

Hmmm...from personal experience it's not the most pleasant of experiences to be involved in...but then I always end up getting myself in some bizarre kind of trouble

(*used to*...I'm a good girl now ..if I say it often enough it might actually start being true )

Ps - you don't want to know...it involves teachers...and priests

Your /job/ involves teachers and priests, or your used-to-not-be-a-good-girl-ness involves teachers and priests?

well tanzen... now i'm really curious....

my cousins a nun.... and i'll never see her again

It's not exciting at all I'm afraid....

Let's just say that I went to a Catholic primary school...and a Catholic Secondary school...and I haven't moved very far away from it at my w**k...

Anything else is really just giving it away

I thought about becoming a nun...you know, it sounds very romantic...but I was told I didn't have the discipline to be a nun...by my mother

(Anyways, off to lunch go I...shall return!)

being a nun is not romantic! well at least i dont think so... and thats mostly beccause i dont want to be one and because i miss my cousin...

Why can't you see your cousin, now? I have nuns in my family, too (distant family, though, so I almost never see them) but they don't have to be hermits or anything... maybe it's the particular religion?

yeah.. its the particular religon....
shes a cloistered nun, and she is now in newyork... and thats kinda far for me to travel..... at least right now...and i'm not sure thersa point seeing her, i dont think i'd have a lot to say to her... and anyways the idea of hugging her over a fence kinda irritates me...

There is something romantic about dedicating your life to God though, don't you think?

I mean, I suppose the main thing stopping me is my undetermined relationship with "God"...in a Catholic sense anyway...

hmmm yes i suppose it is a nice thought...
but in my cousins case i dont see how it helps.. i mean cant you dedicate yourself to god better through service to humanity? better than sitting in a cloistered convent praying?

Good point.

I suppose we all "worship" in our own way?

Maybe she felt she could only properly express her devotion without the clamour of daily life?

(I don't know??)

actually tanzen i never thought of that...
thanks....

even if it isnt i'll pertend it is, because its the only thing i can remotely understand...

Well, I'm glad to help when I can

i jsut burnt my tongue on some tappioca pudding... and its got raisn's in....

*wrinkles her nose in a disgusted mannor*

no i have to try and eat around them...

Ouch

Not a big fan of raisins then ??

I think dried fruit as a general rule is a bad idea...but then that could just be me

yeah.... i dont realy like rasins... unless i'm eating them wiht lighty salted cashews... but thats the only exception...
i especially hate the way they sort of try and re expand...

and i dont really like deird fruit either...

Sultanas/raisins I can eat only if they're *juicy*...and maybe in bread and butter pudding...

mmmPudding!
I hate raisins... I used to like them but I had a bad experience with them once.

I also hate burning my tongue... it always takes so long for it to feel better again... hmm perhaps I should add that to my intro...

Hope you can find someone to kiss yours better!