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Post 1

kbrtiata

Hello there,
I found that you also wrote about Japan smiley - biggrin
As I found some misunderstandings/wrong phrase, image about Japan, I wrote my journal so that all who are interested in our journal can join and discuss, chat about Japan smiley - laugh

http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/class...ead=3985077&post=46759066#p46759066

Hope you'll peep this jouranl and join this smiley - hug

Taamyu, an old Japanese smiley - witch
smiley - diva


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Post 2

bobstafford

Hello Tammyu

I am realy pleased to hear from you. I do hope you approve of the entries about Japan. I will keep in touch with you and invite others to join us.

I had a big peep at the journal and found it very interesting, thank you.

Bob an old English smiley - wizard

smiley - magic


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Post 3

kbrtiata

Hello Bob,
smiley - ta for your reply smiley - biggrin
I'll do my best.
And please tell me if my Eglish writing is incorrect insteadsmiley - rofl
It's lovley that I've got many friends here smiley - biggrin
smiley - diva


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Post 4

bobstafford

Hi Taamyu

I hope I did not make to many mistakes in the Japan entries I found then lost in the flea market. The subject was to important to be left there so
I rescued it edited it and added some things and split the original into 3 parts.

We suffer from poor research material it seems I hope you can help to put it right.smiley - smiley

If you want tell me a little of your home and life...

Bob.


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Post 5

kbrtiata

Hi Bob smiley - hug

Like we. Japanese have got many wrong views to western people's lives, I understand that you do, too. That is because, as you pointed out, both of us have very poor information through the guide smiley - books smiley - groan It's very difficult for us to understand different countries' real cultures lives.
Believe you me, although I studied English literature at university including your culture/history, but the information was too limited to understand your real life, and I knew that the Mother Day in England is the third Sunday of March instead of May, LAST YEAR through my friends here and BBC local radio smiley - yikes

As I'm very slow to reply, but I'll do my best. I'll read those articles carefully and tell you if there is something wrong in those articles.

My life???? lol it's bit weird, but I may tell you about our life or home... smiley - smiley

Keep in touch,

Taamyu smiley - diva


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Post 6

bobstafford

smiley - cool Taamyu smiley - hug to you.

Thank you for your reply and I look forward to your next reply about the entries.

I will post again soon.


Bob...smiley - smiley


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Post 7

kbrtiata

Hello Bob smiley - hug
How are you?
I'm okay, though I can't wake up because of unbelievable speepiness smiley - zzz lol
That's one reaso why I havn't popped into here smiley - sorry
It is getting warmer and warmer here in Japan. The warm spring has come, at last..... however we had an unusal warm winter this year smiley - laugh

As I'm losing my English ability day by day, as I get old, I'm really worried if I forget English smiley - blue This is another reason why I haven't been here for weeks. hahhahahaah I always am not on confident on myself nor on my English. Surely my English speaking ability is going down and down... smiley - cry

I'll try to come here as much as I can otherwise all friends here forget me as well as I forget ENGLISHsmiley - rofl

Stay in touch

by the way, my first name is Taeko. There is no Japanese name as Taamyu smiley - laugh I named it by myself as my nickname smiley - laugh so you can call me both Taeko and Taamyu smiley - ok

smiley - diva


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Post 8

bobstafford

Hell Taeko

Thank you for the smiley - hug
I am glad to hear from you and I hope you are well. I like that name Taeko nice what dose it mean.
Dont worry about your english you just need practice so we will do your english good as we talk. By the way your english is very good.

The weather is stange here one day warm and the next cold or wet. The cats love the sunny days and the mice are about and they enjoy the hunt.

And yes I will try to stay in touch you to I hope will stay in touch.

Bob...smiley - biggrin


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Post 9

bobstafford

Hello Taeko

Happy Easter smiley - chicksmiley - smiley

Bob...


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Post 10

kbrtiata

Hi bob smiley - hug
Happy Easter Monday smiley - chick Believe you me, I think, most Japanese hasn't got any strict religion (our culture... most of us believe both Buddhism and Shitoism.... lol I'm quite sure, most of us don't know what Buddhism means exactly... When we are born, most parents/family members take their new-born baby to Shrines, then when we die most of us are buried @ Buddhist graves... funeral ceremony also hold in Buddhist style...), then we exchange gifts @ Christmas, recently, Pumpkins @ Halloween and Eggs @ Easter... except for Christians in Japan don't know what they mean... hahahahaha They know Christmas, but most of small children don't know Jesus Christ smiley - rofl And Strange thing is that 8th of April is known as HANA MATSURI (FLWER FESTIVAL/CEREMONY).... Guess what! It's Buddha's birthday, but not only young people but also middle aged (some sinior people too) don't know Hana Matsuri itself smiley - roflsmiley - rofl hahahahaha.

Well, well, like most of us, I don't have any strict religion. But as a Priest who keep our family grave has been helping/supporting me mentally since I got serious mental damage, I often go to his temple and go to our family grave. It's in very cool and sacred place called Koyasan that is one of the biggest Buddhist sectors in Japan.

I'm glad to know that you like my name Taeko. Ta for saying so smiley - blush
I'll tell you how to pronunce it at first.
Ta-E-Ko..... Ta for Ta ta for now's !ta! E for Egg's 'E' and Ko for COcoon's 'CO'
When I was in Exeter, one of university students left a message and in this message she wrote TIEko, instead of Taeko smiley - yikessmiley - rofl for her it sounded like 'Tie'ko lol
Recently we've lots more female names than before, but when I was born, most girls named with the words 'KO' this means Child in Chinese character. and if you see KO in the last letter of Japanese first name, it means female name.
If people named it with Chinese chracters, then it may have any meaning.
And some of people named their children thinking of their name's meaning, but some won't name their children without thinking about any meaning like my case smiley - rofl My great grand father (my paternal granmum's father) named me as Taeko.
My father's name is TAichi, and my gran's name is Emiko, then my great gran used Ta for my father's name and E for my gran's name then add KO smiley - rofl
but afterwards, when I tried to search for each chinese character's meanings and found that 'Ta' means 'many' and 'E' means 'big (huge) river'.... my name in Chinese character may mean 'many big river' smiley - laugh
There are many female whose name is Taeko, but the name's meaning is defferent depending on their Chinese Characters. If they don't use Chinese characters, and use Japanese Hiragana characters only it's difficult for find what it means except the meaning is very clear even if we name it in Japanese hiragana only.smiley - geek
Sorry that this is a bit complicated for you to understand.

Now most of cherry blossoms is fully bloomngss here in Osaka smiley - biggrin the warm sleepy Spring has come here smiley - sleepy
http://blog.tamakara.sub.jp/images/i-7f-osakajyo-u.jpg
http://dorachan.moe-nifty.com/blog/DSC04841-thumb.JPG
http://xoox.cocolog-nifty.com/photos/kama/dan065.jpg
Hope you can see those images of Japanese Cherry Blossoms (Sakura in Japanese) smiley - biggrin

How are you? I hope you enjoyed lovely Easter smiley - love

Take Care and Enjoy Yourself,

smiley - teasmiley - cakesmiley - cappuccino

Taeko smiley - diva


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Post 11

bobstafford

Hi Taeko

Thank you for your wonderful long letter I hope you have had a good Easter. I am fine thank you I hope you are good.

I am glad you get support from your family priest I hope you are better and he helps you. If I can help ask, it sounds like you need to talk some times. smiley - hug

I am glad I know how to say your name, it is very nice so is your mothers name. I wont pretend to understand Chinese characters or Japanese Hiragana characters, but I understand the principal.smiley - biggrin


Look what I found she has your name.
http://www.maths.lancs.ac.uk/~rowlings/Photographs/Japan/koyasan.html

This looks a wonderful place you are very lucky to have a temple like this to visit. Your family are in a nice place it dose not happen here.

What did you study at Exeter, I hope you enjoyed your stay as Exeter is a nice city. You do like our culture such as it is a mixture of all European groups, Japan has much more stable history and culture that I like.

Thank you for the pctures of the blossom it is vary buitiful smiley - smiley and it was nice of you to take the trouble to find it for me. I hope you enjoyed HANA MATSURI I wish I could see it, please tell me about it if you took part.

Please take Care and Enjoy Yourself too,


Bob...

smiley - bubblysmiley - chocsmiley - magic


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Post 12

kbrtiata

Hi Bobsmiley - hug
Thank YOU for reading my looooooooooong message smiley - smiley

Yup, the priest is such a wonderful person. His philosophy is acceptable to me who hate too much religious theory. As you may know, not only Buddhist priests but also all priests, monks, archbishops, popes..... may have universal philosophy and more or less great/wonderful/good ones's philosopies are more or less the same smiley - biggrin
Luckily, not only my priest but also my ex-charge doctor(female) who also has helped/been supporting me mentally since I went into hospital. She's such a wonderful woman as well as wonderful psychiatrist... and a few of my freinds (esp. my overseas friends... lol) as well. and now you!!! I'm such a happy person who has got wonderful friends even though the number is not so many. smiley - love

.... I do correct one thing on your message....
It's my GRANDMOTHER'S NAME that my great grandfather used for my name, not my Mother smiley - yikes. hahahhaha strange conbination... My father's name and my GRANDMOTHER'S name were used for my name smiley - laugh
I'm veeerrrryyyy bad relationship with my mother smiley - monster.... My Granmother was like my mother. Sadly she was gone 2 years ago smiley - cry My father died a few years ago...
My grandfather whom I respect died 20 years ago smiley - cry... Though my mother smiley - monster lives, I haven't seen her since my Grandmother's funeral smiley - laugh My brother looks after her... thanks god! if I were with smiley - monster, I would die smiley - blue... We've got very complicated relationship... Dont misunderstand me because I speak ill of my mother.


Wow smiley - yikes Indeed, the woman on the photo is the same name with me smiley - yikes
http://www.maths.lancs.ac.uk/~rowlings/Photographs/Japan/koyasan/7.htmlsmiley - laugh
But I am surprised that YOU found this page smiley - laugh

>Look what I found she has your name.
>http://www.maths.lancs.ac.uk/~rowlings/Photographs/Japan/koyasan.html

If you're interested in Koyasan, just pop into this site, please smiley - winkeye
http://www.shukubo.jp/eng/index.html
Here are some more images of Koyasan smiley - smiley
http://www.st.rim.or.jp/~success/okunoin_1.JPG
http://inoues.net/club/kohya3_014.jpg
http://naruto.blog.mo-hawaii.com/image/page/26.jpg


(Believe you me, I've got MA in English Literature (@ Japanese University) I got it with unbelievably easy way... lazy way, I can say cos most of my thesis were corrected by my supervisor smiley - rofl ) After I graduate postgraduate corse in Japan, I realised that I couldn't speak nor listen nor wrote nor read English properly, (still now, though) I've not been on any confident on my English. And going to England was one of my dreams, I really wanted to go to England and feel the atomosphere what English life is like, what culture is like, blah blah blah.
And I studied English (functional English) @ the Language Centre of the University of Exeter only for 3 months then I stayed there 3 more months cos my grandmother who was my 'patron' asked me of coming back to Japan though I wanted to go to the postgraduate course of that university and kept studying.... but it's toooooo expensive for my gran to support me financially, so I had to go back to Jpaan smiley - cry It was in 1989.... soon after I've got pancriatitis because of stressful life in Japan smiley - laugh had got many unbelievable hysterical symptoms smiley - groan That's why I haven't been able to go back to England for ages..... Fortunately I get better and better year by year, so I do hope that I can visit there and can meet all my friends there soon smiley - biggrin

So, you can easily find why I haven't got any confident on my English and I worry so much if I forget English, cos I haven't spoken to English people for ages (except for telephone calling with my friends (but it costs too much so I can't it so often)
This is one reason why I registered on h2g2. I found that there were not many Japanese here and most of you use living English that I didn't know.
Through here Ive got some English friends like you, too, that's good, isn't it?
And now I can chat by messenger if both of my friend and I wake up at the same time... (there is 8-hours time difference (during BST), 9-hours time difference (GMT) betweem the UK and Japan) We are 8 hours go forward to you....
for example:
12.00 pm Tuesday, 10th April in Japan, 4.00 am Tuesday, 10th April in the UK.

*********
I slept the whole days on 8th of April (hana Maturi) lol. So I missed it smiley - rofl

Which part of england do you live, Bob? Hope the place/city "name" that I know smiley - laugh

It was very fine and warm today, and I was very very sleepy AS WELLsmiley - sleepysmiley - laugh

I hope you do enjoy English lovely Spring smiley - musicalnote

Take Care and Enjoy yourself smiley - teasmiley - donutsmiley - coffeesmiley - strawberries

Taeko smiley - diva

PS SO SORRY FOR THIS LOOONG MESSAGE. I FOUND THAT AFTER I WROTE THIS MESSAGEsmiley - sorry


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Post 13

kbrtiata

smiley - doh You are MAN OF KENTsmiley - biggrin It's very famous city smiley - laugh
I think there is a very very famous Canterbury Catherdral in Kent, isn't it ? smiley - winkeye
To my regret, I haven't been to Kent smiley - cry
I think there are so many Japanese in Kent, because it's one of the very famous cities in England.
smiley - hug
Taeko smiley - diva


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Post 14

bobstafford

Hi Taeko
You write a very good Letter.smiley - smiley
I am glad your Priest is good to you, ask him if he thinks as I think, that there are many faiths and practices, but possably only one religion.
Kent is a county in England a province in Japan I think (like Tosa is a region) I cone from Sittingbourne on the coast. Do you like the sea. Kent is a farming county and called the garden of Enfland. Canterbury is a famous city and Canterbury Catherdralvery is very famous as well look at this,
http://www.canterbury.co.uk/cgi-bin/buildpage.pl?mysql=296

I live near Stafford now in the middle of England. Look at this
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stafford

By the way I have an entry on the front page today
'The Peasants' Revolt: The Shadow Of 1381'

I hope you are better hysterical symptoms dont sound nice and its been nearly 20 years since you came home, you must visit here soon where are all your friends living. Cant you get an internet phone I have one and all my calls ar freeI use the Tesco phone it is very inexpensive and I call New Zealand free smiley - biggrin

Dont worry about the time differance we can still talk long letters are good. It was very fine and warm day here today and sleepy is good. The English Spring lovely and the plants ar growing now it is the best time of the year.

I am not sorry for your long message it is good you take the time and trouble smiley - hug


Now you musk take care and enjoy yourself I look forward to your reply.


Bob...smiley - hug


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Post 15

kbrtiata

Hi Bob,
Glad to know you enjoy my long message smiley - biggrin
Thank you for your telling me those site of kent and Stafford. It looks very interested.
Is Stafford near Wales, too? I heard that Wales is very beautiful place, too smiley - smiley

To tel the truth, I prefer mountains to see.... the thing is that I love smiley - skismiley - skismiley - ski and Im good at smiley - ski. I like see if I just only go to the sea and enjoy the scenaries smiley - laugh... cos I'm very bad at swimming smiley - rofl and because I'm very short-sighted, so it's bit boring when I go to the sea (only bathing or swimming) cos I can't see anything without glasses (I have't got contact lenzes at the mo smiley - blue) So I can say, I like walking along the sea smiley - laugh.. not only the sea, but also I like beautiful, quiet/calm nature seanaries smiley - biggrin they relaxed me a lot.

I installed skype before, but I rarely used it. Recently we can do voice chat by messagner, I don't use any internet telephone smiley - laugh
I'm surprised to know that TESCO provide its original phone smiley - yikes Is the TESCO the same company with the TESCO which I know as a supermarket smiley - rofl I loved TESCO'S APPRICOTT TEAsmiley - teasmiley - drool

It's really warm today, too. My sleepness never ever gone smiley - laugh
How about you Bob? hope you are fine and enjoy yourself smiley - love
Take care and Enjoy English Spring smiley - smiley I miss English cherry blossoms and sheepsmiley - sheep lol

I wonder if you were here so that you could teach me English speaking smiley - laugh and so i can tell a bit about Japanese language as well as its culturesmiley - laugh

See you soon smiley - hug
Taeko smiley - diva


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Post 16

bobstafford

Hi Taeko

Thank you for your letter.

Stafford is near Wales and is beautiful. I had a go at skiing but I was not very good smiley - erm. It is good you like it. I like the sea and walking in the country and take a camera when I can


Yes TESCO is the TESCO which you know as a supermarket, the one that sells the wonderful APPRICOTT TEA smiley - magicsmiley - tea

It's really warm here today too. My sleepness never ever gone either we must like the warm springs, I am not keen on the hot summers though.smiley - sadface If I was there I could teach you English speaking it would be fun but your English is better than my Japanese smiley - laughsmiley - laugh
I would like to study the culture and history though smiley - smiley

You enjoy the spring too and say Hi to your priest I rather like the sound of him and you can tell him so please.

What are you planing to do with yourself this week keeping busy smiley - biggrin are you or sleepingsmiley - laugh

What do you do are you a lady of leasure you are lucky if you are or do you have a nice interesting job you live in a wonderful place and have the opportunity to do lots of interesting things.

See you soon smiley - hug


Bob...


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Post 17

kbrtiata

Hi Bob,
I'm so happy that we can 'chat' here smiley - biggrin
I really miss Tesco's apricott tea. To me. Fortnma, I prefer Tesco's Apricott Teat to Fortnum Maison, Wedgwood or M&S smiley - love

I should visit Statfford, Wales next time when I go there smiley - musicalnote
As I studied Wuthering heights by Emily Brontë, I did go to Haworth twice, (that is really WONDERFUL PLACE if no Japanese are there smiley - rofl) because of 'poor staying in the UK', I had to save money and tried to go places where I first wanted to go. So, I couldn't go even Lake Discrtc smiley - cry Yup I love Peter rabbit and Beatrice Potter!

To my regret, I haven't visit my temple/grave since January, so I think it's tiem for me to visit there sooner or later smiley - laugh
The priest told me 'you shouldn't come here regularly. the thing is that you wo'nt forget people who love you and if you think of them even only second, at home, that's FINE!! We can pray anywhere even we remember those people. That's the point..' You know, when I lisetned to him, I found his a kind of universal philosopy (not narrow person) that's why i can trust him. So my doctor smiley - doctor, too smiley - biggrin

Iby the way,Bob, have you ever done internet MESSENGERS???? LIKE YAHOO MESSENGER, MSN MESSENGERS, AIM.... If you have got one account of them, then we cna live chat by messenger smiley - biggrin
Last months, i've got Power mac Cube by auction smiley - biggrin and found it's really practical and enjoyable computer smiley - smiley

well if you do messenger when we have the same spare time, we can chat on live smiley - love

I do hope you have a super lovely weekend smiley - cracker

doh, it's bit impolite question, but will you tell me how old are you? or what generation you've grown up... Me,... 444 my young time (as a school girl till University student lol), I can say I'm in '70s
very old story, isn't it?

Well, Enjoy yourself, Bob.

Chat soon smiley - hug

Taeko smiley - musicalnote

I LOVE being alone at home without doing anything lol. I'm not social person.
But I like British rock, noverls, chat with trustworthy friends. films. I still lean French once a week, and Japanese Calligraphy, too. If I have enough energy left, I may go skiing every single year smiley - laugh but not now. I love tennis, but I can't as my friends play tennis smiley - groan
at the momet, im absorbed with Korean films as well as UK TV cmedies like Little Britain, ABFAB and Cahtrene Tate show smiley - laugh

How about you>????
smiley - diva


Hello from Tammyu

Post 18

bobstafford

Hi Taeko

YAHOO MESSENGER
What now how do you establish contact

smiley - smiley


Hello from Tammyu

Post 19

kbrtiata

Hi Bob smiley - hug
I use Yahoo messenger, too... (MSN, ichat (Mac) smiley - rofl) the thiing is that if we can voice chat, then I can learn speaking English..... lol slight joking smiley - lurk
So, if you don't mind, and if you want to, add me into your friends list of Yahoo messenger.
If the chat here is fine, then we keep our thread only smiley - ok
Even if we do yahoo chat, our time to chat limit because of time difference, so it's better to keep our thread, too smiley - winkeye what do you think of it?

My Yahoo ID is
taamyu smiley - laugh

Take Care and Enjoy Sunday afternoon smiley - teasmiley - cake


Hello from Tammyu

Post 20

bobstafford

Hi
Yahoo message sentsmiley - biggrin


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