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How dare people be spiteful to you. THat's just not on!!!

Better day today?

yeh. tell me about it and the funni thing is he was a friend, humm... funni how u realise who ur real friends are.... and today he was being all nice like nothing had happen'd

Which means one of two things - either he didn't realise he was being spiteful, or he knows and either doesn't care or is hoping that if he ignores it he won't have to apologise.

Guess that's actually thre things...

he knew he was being spiteful, so guess its 1 of the last 2

Hmm, I hate peolpe like that. I had a so-called 'friend' at school who used to love myaking my life a complete misery. Took me a good few years to realise that she was just a cow and a bully, but you should have seen the look on her face when I finally decided to tell her where to go...

bet it was priceless, sorry i had to go back there

*LOL* - That's okay, so did I....

Oh, it was, completely priceless. Then the girl couldn't get the whole 'I'm not your friend anymore' thing for the longest time...

But hey, anyway, like you said, you learn who your friends are....

LOL! yup

Sorry 2 just mix into your conservation, but I think it's very cool and also a bit brave 2 tell your pretend-2-B-friend the trueth!!!

*L* THanks. But it did take me about 5 years to finally realise that letting her put me down every day actually wasn't the kind of thing that a 'friend' did and that I should have enough belief in my own self-worth to not put up with it..

hw cum she was making u misrable ForeverMe?

Hmm, the age old - you're fat (I was definitely not fat - 5'8 and a size 10 was never fat...), you're stupid, you're blonde therefore automatically a bimbo, you're worthless... nice

i hate it when ppl do that, just cus ur blonde then assume ur stuiped, nice friend u had there....

No, really not. She was a bitca and proud of it. Hmm, then we all left school and went on to university. Last I heard she'd made no friends at uni because nobody liked her and then she had a nervous breakdown because she couldn't cope with the strain. Would like to say I feel sorry for her, but I just can't find it in me at the moment...

yeh that was kinda sarcastic but i s'pose it doesnt work through posts. So how d'u here all this after u left?

yeah, you sure did the right thing, and I could understand it took you long, because friendship is a valuable thing!

It's hard 2 realize the difference between a true friend and an pretend 2 be friend! or, actually, it's so hard because you don't wanna realize it @ first, right?

I figured you were being sarcastic!

How did I hear all this? Email is a wonderful thing and we had loads of people from our school go to the same university....

Well, you don't have 2 feel sorry 4 her!
It's her own fault.

Willow - Right

ForeverMe - Ooooohhhh....

Yeah. My problem was that I knew she wasn't a true friend, but I didn't have the confidence in myself. I thought that if I told her where to go then I'd lose all the rest of my friends in that group.

It took me a long time to realise that I didn't think it was worth it and that if I had to get new friends then they weren't friends in the first place.

Funny thing was that when I walked they all slowly begain to walk too - it was as if we'd all been waiting for someone else to make the first move...