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Post 21

Baconlefeets

smiley - ta Roymondo, I'm heading out in 46 minutes 12 seconds.

smiley - erm


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Post 22

Primeval Mudd (formerly Roymondo)

Aaarrgg!

Best get your shoes on then...


smiley - dontpanic


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Post 23

A Super Furry Animal

What are you still doing here then? smiley - goodluck

RFsmiley - evilgrin


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Post 24

fords - number 1 all over heaven

Have a good 'un! smiley - biggrin


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Post 25

Baconlefeets

Well, that was quite nicesmiley - biggrin

Even though it did end sooner thanI expectedsmiley - erm


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Post 26

Primeval Mudd (formerly Roymondo)

It's not even 11 yet! Have you arranged round 2?


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Post 27

Baconlefeets

I know,smiley - sadface

"Around 2"?

Apparently, he'd arranged with his mates a couple of weeks ago to meet them and go out. So he got a tect about 10 and apologised many, many times, then went to meet them. smiley - sadface

I was just starting to get into it as wellsmiley - erm


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Post 28

Baconlefeets

Oh! "round 2"smiley - doh

I said I'd speak to him on manday, then he said "No, before that" Sohopefully, I'll get a text or call from him tomorrow.

He is pretty lovely thoughsmiley - bigeyes


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Post 29

A Super Furry Animal

Ditch him. If he can't tell what's important now, then he'll never learn.

Trust me, it'll save you time in the long run.

RFsmiley - evilgrin


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Post 30

Baconlefeets

But I was pretty shy, not as bad as I can be, but still...

smiley - ermI don't know! He asked to go out again sometime next week after work, but I don;t know whether he was just being nice or whatsmiley - erm


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Post 31

A Super Furry Animal

Yeah, but someone who arranges to meet his mates on the same night as he's going out on a date? I mean, he can see them any time of the day or night. If he's worth seeing, he should give you his *undivided attention* for at least the length of his *first date* with you! If he can't even be bothered with that, then he ain't worth it, IMO.

RFsmiley - evilgrin


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Post 32

Primeval Mudd (formerly Roymondo)

I hope you get the call or text tomorrow. He might have been genuine. I've left similar situations for a pre-arranged meet with mates, but my mates mean a lot more to me than anyone else. Probably says more about me than it should.

Anyway, if you liked him I hope he gets in touch.


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Post 33

Baconlefeets

But we only arranged to meet yesterday and his meet with his mates was arranged a couple of weeks agosmiley - erm Apparently.

smiley - wah

I know what you're saying, but he seemed so damned nice and sweet when we were talking.

I dunno!


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Post 34

A Super Furry Animal

Well, there you are. 2 differing opinions about dating. I personally would only arrange one in an evening.

RFsmiley - evilgrin


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Post 35

Wile E Quixote

Did he ask you if you wanted to join him with his mates, or was it too much of a lads thing?

I agree with RF, it’s bad behaviour for a 1st date, but if he calls you for another soon, I think it’s worth a 2nd chance. Don’t put up with that behaviour twice though.smiley - erm

I think it’s perfectly normal to be a bit shy on a 1st date. He’s the one with the problem, not you!smiley - hug


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Post 36

Baconlefeets

Me too, but if he genuinely forgot...

smiley - erm

But then again, maybe he just did it as an excuse to run away.

smiley - erm


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Post 37

Baconlefeets

It was a very laddish thing. It was bad behavious and he said that he wouldn't normally do that sort of thing then apologised lots.


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Post 38

Primeval Mudd (formerly Roymondo)

You weren't the only nervous person tonight so maybe he arranged a time to meet his mates then got obsessed by it. It happens.

He'll either call you or he won't. Give him a chance, but not 2 chances. See what happens over the next few days.


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Post 39

A Super Furry Animal

Friends will forgive you not going out and getting pissed with them. It ain't the end of the world. Sorry to harp on about this, but he sounds like a bit of a twit to me. Certainly has no manners.

RFsmiley - evilgrin


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Post 40

fords - number 1 all over heaven

It is a bit rude of him to do that, first date or not smiley - erm


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