h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Midnight Angel

I am sorry but it appears that I have been accused of being a stalker. How I don't know...Yes I joined in the rabbit hole. I thought it was just meant to be a bit of fun.

I was invited into other threads and also began enjoying them too. I then found at least 2 people were playing 1 character, I laughed and took it as the joke intended and joked around on their PS. Unfortunately everything turned sour on Saturday when my daughter VV entered the thread and called me Mum. Apparently I'm the deemed to be deceitful.

Sorry to burden you. Just wanted to set the record straight.

Regards,

lil

Hiya Midnight.

I've just read 347 in the hole. I didn't realise Liquid Warrior was also Aknight from etc etc...

I've read one of the Archangels PS and they've been trying to stop sh*t like that happening. It's one thing when done in jest but this looked quite malicious. I guess I'll just have to check out every new contributors PS to make sure who they are before biting.

The annoying thing is...we pay their wages....they all appear to work for the BBC - I hope MA isn't too annoyed at us using her space. Evidently she was asked the e-mail him personally.

Hello,I am sorry if you thought I was being malicious, but what started out as a joke, you appeared to be taking very seriously. Not only I felt this but others did as well. If anyone came to my defence it was not because I asked them, not because they were made to, but they too felt the same as me and as friends came to my support. If you feel wronged or hurt in anyway, then you have an unreserved apoligy from me. But there were times when you appeared to be pocessive. As to thinking you were deceitful because of your daughter, no that is not the case. That was part of the joke, which you started and I continued with. As to contacting Angel, that was so that I could ask for help, and to aid you in what I thought was an embaressing situation.Of course, I may be wrong in my deduction, interpretation of the situation. If that is the case, then I'm sorry. Stalker was the wrong word, and I retracted it immediately. But you gave me cause for alarm and for worry. You made me feel as if the fun was being extracted and you were becoming very very serious.That is the image I and others got. If this is the wrong image, then, again, sorry. No we all don't work for the BBC. These people are scattered all other the country. I explained gthe true reason for leaving the Rabbit hole, it was going no where and was getting boring.Nothing was happening.
You have my kind thoughts and good regards

It's a bit bl**dy late when my mum phones me up crying her eyes out to me and I'm stuck at my house and have no way to help her out or even to dissolve a possible situation.

You saw true and well that I was an ACE, yet you found you couldn't approach me about my mum......that's what I'm here for is it not?

The Rabbit Hole thread was pure jest - I could see that, and so could the people I sent to the thread too......

Your apology is to my mum and I'm sure she will accept it with the full sentiments you give to her.

As for me - I'm ill.....I have spent nearly a week in hospital and am still under the doctor for medication to ease the pain I am suffering. Yet your actions have caused me more discomfort and pain.

All I ask next time is to perhaps seek out the person with whom you may or may not have a problem with and sort it out directly.

I have no wish to see my mum go through something like that again and I certainly have no wish to be set back in my recovery by person/persons who have not the thought or decency as to their own actions.

Rant over.....

Sorry - just saw something quite rude.

Someone not subscribed to their own conversation!

Yes you are right, your are an ACE, but one that is very much, obvioulsy, too emotionally involved and therefore could not have been able to distance yourself nor have given an objective deduction. I attempted to contact an ACE uninvolved, so we could have given the aid and assistance that may have been required, without broadcasting it openly on the thread.I did this, obviously, with protecting your mother's feelings very much in mind. Of course, you only have her side of the story. This of course raises several questions. As for the rabbit hole, did you not progress further outside of this thread to others? And I left rabbit as it was going in circles and going no where. If other people were alert that some thing was not quite right, other than myself, then something must have been wrong. Your mother admitted as much to me when she said Quote; "I have had problems" unquote. I was quite prepared to go along, but felt as she was fixating and this frightened me. Maybe I dealt with it incorrectly, but I did try to contact Angel an Ace with the intention, not of getting Lil removed, but with the intention of helping, that must be very blatently obvious. I think that trying to help some one I saw has having a problem is to have shown decency in the extreme. Perhaps, also, it was her actions that sparked the whole thing off.You must ask yourself is she entirely blameless? Some of the others, one of whom she contacted, felt she was more than a little worrying, that is why they all came to my defence, unrequested, unasked for, but with the honest intention of protecting me. As for unsubscribed conversations...How did Lil Old me know what I was saying without going into my postings, reading them and then passing them on? As for causing you pain, I am sorry, but think of the mental stress my friends and I have been put through during this situation and the actions of others not our selves.Politely respectfully with the greatest respect in the world, perhaps you'd better take your mother to one side and speak to her.
I am sorry to hear of your illness and wish you a speedy recovery, and a return to a happy life. You have my best wishes and regards. All the very best for a healthy recovery and for the future.

Hello all.

Let me do a bit of reading and then will get back to you all.

Firsly i would like to say.
Any one of you are more than welcome to post on my personal space any time..

BUT: I dont want it used for anyone to use to settle disagreements,Its not what my personal space is for.

However ive just gone through the rabbit thread and a few other threads.
This is what i have found to be and my advice.

I have not found any evidence of and stalking going on in any threads.
To me the rabbit thread i myself as being a part of myself have found it all to be just in fun and humour and nothing unto ward going on it.

The next thing i Honestly dont think that Lil old me or VV have been malicious in hidding the fact they are mother and daughter.
I personally believe holding personal details back like that is wise.

You all seemed to have got on well untill the last few days.
Talk it over and try sort out the differences you have.

LW and lil old me should have a talk and LW explain why you think shes stalked you and took things to far.
As i see it i cant see that evidence.But if there is any evidence then please point me to the right direction.

If you genarally feel you have a complaint about another user and that goes for all of you then [email protected]

Thats all i can think of right now.
I do have to go but be back later.
In the mean time please dont use my thread for settling your differences please do it else where but please continue to chat here if you wish.

M~A Ace

Midnight you really are an .

Thank you for being the voice of reasoning. And I must apologise to you for invading you space, I had not intended this. I just wanted you to know what seemed to have happened yesterday.

Yes, I was upset and yes, VV did jump to my defense...not just because she is my daughter, but because she and other family members have sat with me or read threads because they were funny!

I am sorry things turned out as they did and I extend an invitation to Liquid Warrior to go to my PS so that we might discuss this at ground level.

Regards,

lil

Hi Lil.
I hope you manage to sort things out.

Hi MA

Only time will tell, I will attempt to sort this out. Thank you for taking the time and patience to trudge through the threads and I am very sorry this happened.

I hope to come across you again sometime....at the moment I have unsubscribed from a lot of threads and may need to do close more, just to keep away from any further upset.

I will be on my guard in future with any strangers, until I am sure they are aware of my intent - and quirky sense of humour.

Regards,


lil.

Midnight, my . As always your words are filled with wisdom beyond the reach of (almost) newbies such as myself.

This will be my last comment on this thread.

I apologise for utilising your PS, but I did not want to go to any extremes without being sure all parties were clear in what was being said. I think I posted such to Lil old me.

I didn't want to go formal, since the aim of Hootooers (in my view) is to make friends and integrate, whether in formal debates about God or sillyness like rabbit holes.
Informal solutions are generally the best in cases of dispute.

But I am left with one concern, and that is changing identities when trying to address a serious issue.

I shall copy this to LW as a matter of courtesy.

to a happier hootoo future for us all!

Hi All.

With the attitude you all seem to have i am sure everything will be resolved.
You have all apologised for invading my space which i apreciate.
Any of you are more than welcome to invade my space as long as its not for argueing.

I wish each and every one of you all the best and hope you have many happy occastions spent on hootoo which i am.

Just in case you have all unsubscribed to this now i will message you all individually,Just to stay in touch.