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Post 1

Serephina

..for the smiley - cuddlesmiley - smiley i reallly do need them at the mo..

how are you now?


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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

Oh hun, I am so sorry... smiley - cuddle

You know I'm here for you any time (well, when I'm online that is)

What on earth happened?


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Post 3

Serephina

well after a couple of weeks of being distant nbut telling me it was ok, it wasnt me, i called him last night, n after still pretending all was fine for a bit n he just needed space it came out! i had to ask though! i sai how id been feeling so guilty n selfish cos id just wanted to fel wanted! do you feel badly about me for that? no he said..then my neighbour knocked..n when i called back..i said but cant tell me i am can you? n he said he didnt know..n it ent from thee..me asking quesions n him ansering! said he doesnt love me..hed been trying to sirt thorough how he felt before n convince himself he still did..but he doesnt..and he doesnt want to work it out etc..i cried n said lots asked lots, i think he felt bad about how he treated me ,but you cant be sure can you..he may have been crying too..we taled like thiss for ages, he couldnt give me a reason other than 'i dont know'..in the end i got a little angr, he said he was jus gonna go n put the phone dowbn, so iididnt even get to say bye properly or hear it from him..



even yourmum thought he just needed space n wed be fine!


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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

It's shit isn't it.

One thing I would suggest though is this. Do not attempt to ring him back. It's hard to accept, but it's over now San. smiley - cuddle



*bites tongue and tries not to say anything out of turn*


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Post 5

Serephina

I havent tried to ring him back..though ive told him in mail..and here a bit more reasonably i think, that i just dont want to end things angrily and need a proper goodbye. He said he wanted me as a frend, so hopefuly he cares enough to do that for me!


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Post 6

Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

It's ever so dangerous to turn a relationship back into a friendship, hun. It can have consequences.

I mean, how would you feel if he started dating another person? you will feel "put out" by it, I'm sure.

I would get my "good bye" if I were you, then severe contact with him. Mind you, I am not you am I.


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Post 7

Serephina

Oh i would severe contact..for a good while at least..but i need that goodbye forst..i really do..


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