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Hi from abbi

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Hi there. I have seen you around a lotsmiley - smiley

smiley - cryI was reading about Kaz and writing. I followed the links ,posted by Amy for Kaz , to your chilhood story. smiley - sadface

I have an odd pulverized (as opposed to broken) family history. Lots has happened. I know I will be having the pain again at some time, over not being notified of a death. However, it will NOT be those I am the closest too, as with your Grandparent. smiley - cry That really s*cks!Unbelievable cr*p. Sorry to hear it happened to you.

Glad U have that spunky spirit and humor I have noticed in threads.smiley - biggrin
smiley - disco



Hi from abbi

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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

Have I? smiley - biggrin

I just thought I was completely 1001% Xentric (you'll have to see one of my threads for that "Oh yes I am". Or have you been there already!! smiley - laugh

The story happened a long time ago now (well it feels like it). Thinking about it, it only happened last year and we must be coming up to the first anniversary of my grandma's death. But hey, it's not worth getting het up about it now. What has happened has happened.

It was nice that you came across it though. I didn't expect anyone else to read it since I wrote it some months ago. It just shows you doesn't it!!

Well nice to meet you Abbi. smiley - hug Call in any time you like.smiley - cheerup


Hi from abbi

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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

Abbi

I popped over to your space to have a little look around.

I am so sorry about your Auntie Rose. smiley - cuddle If you need someone to talk to (but I'm not here on weekends or Mondays or Thursdays), just call.


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Thanks. That is really nice. I am OK with Auntie passing, she was ready to go so it was kind of a good thing, in some ways.

I'll see you around soon *wave*! smiley - smiley
smiley - disco


Hi from abbi

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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

I'm bored....and your not on hootoo. smiley - sadface


Hi from abbi

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*waves*
smiley - disco


Hi from abbi

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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

I'm really bored now. smiley - sadface Got any jokes? smiley - grovel


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abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

Well dang...I see I missed U again!
Short on jokes at the moment too.
Need to get off smiley - online2longnow.
I'll be baaack.smiley - smiley

smiley - disco


Hi from abbi

Post 9

Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

smiley - bigeyes Oh, did I blink and miss you, smiley - winkeye Ah well, never mind, just have a look at a few jokes before you come back to me.smiley - biggrin


Hi from abbi

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abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

Good News ~~ Bad News

Good news smiley - laugh I posted some laughs under jokes at De Myelin Nation U889194 ~~ My offering for entrance to your den!

Bad News is really bad smiley - cry My brother died..... Cannot sleep ...He has been fighting cancer so it was not a shock. I cried then I sat and stared ,thought. Trying to do something *normal* to feel a bit more normal for a moment smiley - erm this half of the world is sleeping.

smiley - disco


Hi from abbi

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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

smiley - cry

It is smiley - sadface when someone you love dies....smiley - cuddle Even though it was not a shock, it is still something you will have to deal with whether you want to or not.

The grieving process has not started yet I would think. That happens at the funeral in my experience, although everyone copes with death in different ways.

I feel for you and your family and if I can say anything that would help, just call. I will reply as soon as I can.

smiley - peacedove

I will say a prayer for your brother smiley - rose


Hi from abbi

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abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

Thank you.

Today was worse for me.
I have noticed,having gone through many losses....
It seems to take me 3 days to absorb the shock and reality of the situation.
smiley - rosesmiley - lovesmiley - rose
smiley - disco


Hi from abbi

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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

I know it's not quite the same thing, but 10 years ago, we had our dog put to sleep. I still think of her, and still sometimes smiley - cry

It is good that you grieve. It is nature's way of coping. smiley - hug

I am thinking of you. smiley - rose


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thank yousmiley - rose
smiley - disco


Hi from abbi

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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

How are things today?

It must be getting near to, well, you know........


.......I've been round your personal space and from the looks of it, you are getting a great deal of support.......lean on us. We will help.


Hi from abbi

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abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

It does help.
Thanks, and come by anytime!
I am feeling more like myself, present, accounted for and acountable.
Still a bit slow,foggy and misty in addition to my usual spacinesssmiley - biggrin
smiley - disco


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Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

Glad to hear things are bigginning to get a little more normal smiley - yikes normal. What is normal?????????

OK. good you are going back to your old way!! smiley - biggrin

Ah, well. Of on my hols I go.. smiley - biggrin

Be good and if you can't be good, be careful. smiley - winkeye


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