h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Jedi Girl

I heard you feeling a bit low. I am sending you some positive thoughts to feel better.



being forty will bring you new adventures and new opertunities. remember that.



WOW-greetings,
pheloxi for United Friends positive thoughts office
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Thank you for very kind thoughts and concern shown to me.

kat

that is why I started united friends
...for every one who needs shoulder or some fun!

It works too!

Pheloxi and Abi






kat

Are you turning 40 Kat?..... I can't wait 'til I'm forty ( a couple of years to go) - women are meant to have a much better time in their 40s than their 30s. I'm counting on this at least .


So and and in case I missed yours, and wishing for you all the best


Yaay to pheloxi* and Abbi for being kind souls too

p.s. I've added you to my friends list so you are easy to find

Thanks Kea, except I have not had a life so far. I have always lived with my parents being their unoffical and then offical carer. I have only been aware from home twice, once when I was 16 at boarding school and the other time when I eloped and was married for a year.


Thank you Kea for adding me to your friends list.


kat

I am glad it works ...

every one is wheel of life on

that sounds very pheloxiosophy

fair enough Kat. I feel like I've lost my life in the last 10 years, but I did have a life before then, kind of, and the one I have now involves being a carer only for myself. I don't know what to say, because I know what its like to feel trapped in an intolerable situation. Still wishing you blessings

Thank you for your kind concern. I have very low esteem at the moment and my self confidence is zero. It is very hard to confince other researcher's when I say I am depressed, have very low self-esteem and confidence that I am just making excuses for my behaviour. I am not, I am under the Doctors for both Chronic Depression and Epilepsy. I find that some researchers are not being very understanding when I tell them that I have exteme low confidence and very depressed and they just tell me to stop whingeing and feeling sorry for myself. In other words I am exgarrating my problems and they have worse problems than me. I fell that some researchers are totally unsympathetic and can be quite down right rude to me. If there are any misunderstandings they are down with me a ton of bricks. No matter how much I apologise to them they do not except it and seem to hold a grudge against me.



kat

Quite a few researchers do not believe me when I tell them that my self confidence is very low they think I am just making it all up.

kat

I believe you ... I give you big and

Thank you Pheloxi



kat

you need a little A847019

Pheloxi for the link.


kat

Aw Kat. Depression is real and varied. Goodness sakes you deserve to be believed!
You are the only person that CAN know it!

Misunderstandings happen. I bet you are not singled out if that's the case, even though I do not know what happened. You are making new friends.
That's one good thing!

It will not always feel this bad
Meantime, we are here, whether you are happy or sad

Thank you Abi for your very kind encouraging advice.


Kat

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Teehee... Here are few more positive sIgns 4 U !

I`m here(although about to fall asleep) too Kat-I have the lovely genetic makeup to be bi-polar.Although I`ve only gone manic 5x`s in my life it`s 5x`s too many & the crushing depression that inevitably follows leaves me taking zoloft for the rest of my days...nevertheless 40 is only a 'trip' in western cultures where being young & ignorant is elevated above being mature & wise...N