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Seems some people on this site think they know me from lurking the odd thing i write here. A person in particular has taken it upon themselves to start saying things about me behind my back online and off . Aopparently all my health troubles are the result of me sitting on my butt all day, eating smoking and drinking, without a care for myself or my son.

right..what a load of ing

For one, apart from the odd social occasion like a meet, im bloody tee total! , i actuaslly dont eat a terrible great deal either. i gained a lot of weight when i had a 10lb ovarian cyst , 6 stones in fact a nd that hasproved difficult to to remove with limited mobilty cause by a back problem. recently ive had a bad spelll with my asthma meaning i needed steroid treatment. this has resulted in further weight gain as a side effect and also early signs of kidbey trouble. I care about my weight and steps are being taken with my doctor. yes i smoke, its a problem im fully awatre of and di care about , unfortunately it is strongly linked with OCD behaviour and borderline personality disorder in my case n we are hasving difficulty getting the right help, trying though.!

I've been through a hell of a lot in the past 10 years and even before that and no doubt ill go through a hell of a lot more yet

i do not need self righteous assoles making wrong judgements about me , and no one on the earthhas the rightto say i dont care for my son

'very very upset'

People like that aren't worth your time

Maybe not but im bloody cross!

I believe in you!

sadly there some misfits who need make others feel bad to think they are better. I know it is hard, but try ignore them instead of fueling them.

believe in yourself!

I'm sorry this kind of bad talking should go on. It's very low.

Keep up your good work Serephina, I know you will succeed eventually!

people like that are just sad who have nothing better to do with their time. They're trying to give meaning to their own sad existence and the only way they seem to be able to do that is by picking on others misfortunes.

You don't need to explain yourself to them. They're not worth it.

I'm sure we've all been in similar situations. I personally had a nervous break down some 9 years ago now, which took almost 3 years to get over. I didn't work, was homeless and taking drugs to dull the pain.

Now I have a home, a great job earning good money and a wonderful girl friend.

You're a strong person and they are weak. Don't let them get you down.

Hey Sis

We can all work through this and get you better with your chest. Don't worry about the other stuff, your chest is what's causing the main concern.

We all worry about you, but what happened was uncalled for, and yes, I did get an e-mail from said person.

Mobility can cause problems if you can't do as much as you want to do. I know you do as much as you can and I also know how painful back pain can be

You know where I am if you want to talk, and if you do want my new home number, ask mum to e-mail it to you.

One step at a time sweetheart. Lets get your chest sorted because things like what has happened on and offline this past day or so can set it off and you'll be back in hospital before you realise it.

try to rise above it honey You are better than that and you know that eventually your health problems will improve.People who behave like this usually have problems them selves so project their own feelings on to others. The person that did this only made them self unpopular. We are all here for you Don't get stressed by this and keep calm and you'll start to get well again. My daughter's asthma is always worse when she is stressed.
Here have some and bugger the lurkers.