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Post 1

The Asbury Park Ranger

how are you today?smiley - smileygood i hope.me not so good,i did something silly over easter....smiley - sadface


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Post 2

kittykat

Uh oh smiley - sadface, It doesn't involve pregnancy does it? smiley - magicsmiley - fullmoon KAT


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Post 3

The Asbury Park Ranger

id love to have kids but sadly there is no mrs.jaye.....the silly thing i did was going to see an ex~girlfriend.the thing is i really enjoyed seeing her but at the same time wanted to scream & shout at her for breaking my heart.there is alot of history between us,now i cant stop thinking about hersmiley - cry


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Post 4

kittykat

Ah, been there, done that smiley - cry. Care to discuss it in the anonymity of the cyber? smiley - hugsmiley - blue Sometimes it helps to unload! smiley - ok KK


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Post 5

The Asbury Park Ranger

why is it the simplist things in life,bring with it such complications.seeing her brought back all the good times we sharedsmiley - cry


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Post 6

kittykat

What broke you two up? smiley - cry KK


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Post 7

The Asbury Park Ranger

her so called best friend was jealous of our happiness.she made up stories saying id made on her.of course mrs.jaye beleived all the bulls**t then that was the end of mr&mrs.jayesmiley - cryoh boy we were so so happy.


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Post 8

kittykat

What a strange thing. smiley - sadface How long were you together? And why wouldn't she believe you? smiley - cross?


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Post 9

The Asbury Park Ranger

we would've been together a year the month we split up,she wouldnt listen to a word i had to say,thanks to her mate(or THAT BITCH as she became known as)all this happened 9years ago before christmas.i normally dont tell people these things,but typing it on a screen to a complete stranger feels absolutly normal........thank you so very much for letting me bore you for so long spread LOVE X.x.X


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Post 10

kittykat

Hi, I've just returned. smiley - smiley I've been surfing for telephone numbers in the state of South Dakota trying to track down a friend from the Welcome Lounge. A really nice retired professor who is also an American Indian and a fabulous raconteur. smiley - biggrin He was in the middle of a story when the mods suddenly shut down that part of the site smiley - grr. And we want to know the ending! smiley - wah Nine years ago seems like a rather long time - what have you and she been doing in the interim? smiley - hug KAT


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Post 11

CrystalLass

Hi if you don't mind me jumping in and you are wanting any advise I may be able to help if no you can just ignore me.

If you feel you really like this girl and want to renew the relationship I suggest you tell her so. Go to her and tell her that you liked her back then and when you saw her again that you realise that you still like her a lot. You realise that there has been some time but there has never been anyone who you feel was as good as her, and if she is feeling the same then would she like to start up your relationship again realises that you are both older and more mature and that it would be good to leave the past and any past mistakes behind, if she would trust you and believe in you then you can start again as adults and see where it can go from there.

Never mention THE BITCH or blame her leave that for her to do and if necessary take the blame your self that is the best way to get her to defend you.

smiley - smiley well that is my suggestion she may be feeling that same about you


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Post 12

The Asbury Park Ranger

seeing as though she lives round the corner from me,we still saw each other to say hi,and when her dad got really ill with cancer she turned to me for a shoulder to cry on.but over the years we saw&got hurt by other peoplesmiley - cryand from wot she told me recently back on the singles scene


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Post 13

THE KID (Romancer of the Realm of the Rediculous)

Hmm cryptic Very indeed.


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Post 14

THE KID (Romancer of the Realm of the Rediculous)

Never mind last post. opps wrong thread.


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Post 15

The Asbury Park Ranger

hey???


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Post 16

The Asbury Park Ranger

crystalLass you need to write an introduction on your space,before anyone can start posting yousmiley - smiley


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Post 17

kittykat

Hi Jaye! I think Crystal had some good advice smiley - smiley. When you saw your friend over the weekend was it a date or by accident? KAT


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Post 18

CrystalLass

Thank you I have written the introduction I think


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Post 19

kittykat

Hi CrystalLass - just thought I'd say hello smiley - smiley. Hpe you're having fun smiley - biggrinsmiley - magicsmiley - fullmoon KAT


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Post 20

U190482

I found myself in a very, very similar situation recently.
The girl only lived around the corner from me too, which does make it harder.
To cut a long story short we got back together again, I thought it was great. We ended up going with each other for a year, That was just over a year ago, and we have since parted ways. (things got s**tty)
She has moved off to Austrailia (to get away from me? The other side of the planet) And I have now meet a great girl!!! infact the best girl!!!!!!!!!

My point is that you may really like her, and she may really like you (why didn't she believe you then?)but I know now that the reason I went out with her again was because it was handy. She lives around the corner, I know her really well, we got on well and all that.
I also hadn't had a steady girl for the four years we where apart!

Somebody once said to me "dont spend your life looking back at the past, or you wont see where you are going"

I say go for it!
That way if it works out great, if it doesnt, at least you tried and can get on with your life + over her.

Lord Smooth


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