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Heya

Post 1

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hiya we haven't spoken in ages
I am wondering what happen to our "fellow lover of cake" thread
and erm you know you and PRC are sisters,how come you don't have eachother on your friends list


Heya

Post 2

Hmm

ello, ello fancy meeting you here.smiley - winkeye

Hmm I think out cake thread may have gotten lost in my rather magnificet collection of backlog I seme to have acquired...but I haven't really been on much recently to read any, so I might not have replied anyway.smiley - erm

We-el when she joined I was slightly unconfortable because hootoo was my place to get away from real life. For me, real life was...shall we say... pretty un-fun most of the time at that point. Anyway we eventually agreed that we could manage to share hootoo, but we'd give each other some space, and not put each other on our friends lists so as not to end up reading journal entries that we didn't really want each other to read. Make sense?

Nice to talk to you by the way!smiley - biggrin


Heya

Post 3

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Aww i see

And it was nice talking to you aswell


Heya

Post 4

Hmm

Why thank you!smiley - biggrin So how are things with you?


Heya

Post 5

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Fine thanks:/
Well at home mainly

school stuff not going so well


Heya

Post 6

Hmm

Oh dear, Anything you want to talk about?


Heya

Post 7

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Well it is in my journal"The good the bad and the ugly"

But earlier,My kinda friend Nazish came up to me after maths and said
"me,simram,Sophie,alliyah and Aamina aren't your friends so please don't talk to us"


Heya

Post 8

Hmm

*has just read the journal entry*
Uh oh, I rember this sort of thing happening with my friends too...smiley - hug

Try to bear in mind that just because Nazish *said* that the others don't want to be friends with you, doesn't mean that's true. Maybe they said that, maybe they didn't.Maybe they meant it at the time, and maybe they didn't...

Many an argument between friends has been fueled by misunderstanding.


Heya

Post 9

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But when i asked her why they didn't wanna be my friends she just shrugged.
Plus,I am gonna tell the teacher even thought i promiced that i wouldn't because once i say that i am gonna say that ever scince Alliyah,Nazish and Aamina started playing,They stopped being my friends.


Heya

Post 10

Hmm

"But when i asked her why they didn't wanna be my friends she just shrugged."

Yes it's so frustrating, isn't it? Sometimes there doesn't even seem to be a reason. It's usually just based on silly rumors and people being moody.

Sometimes they're jealous of something (I seem to remeber quite a few arguments in my friendship groups turned out to be because somone was jealous of somebody else's friends, and wanted to steal them or something.smiley - rolleyes)

"Plus,I am gonna tell the teacher even thought i promiced that i wouldn't because once i say that i am gonna say that ever scince Alliyah,Nazish and Aamina started playing,They stopped being my friends."

D'you mean ever since they strated playing together?

Hmm well perhaps your teacher might be able to give you some advice? He/she's probably seen this type of thing before.

Despite what people say at the time, these things usually pass with everyone being friends again in the end...although at the time it feels as though it'll never work out ok...

..My friends once had a feud that lasted for about three months and to this day I'm still not sure what it was about...they're all friends now though.smiley - smiley


Heya

Post 11

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Well i am hoping that once i tell the teacher
She will split Nazish,Alliyah and aamina from us


Heya

Post 12

Hmm

You mean put them in differnt groups for lessons?


Heya

Post 13

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NO like stop them interacting with us at school,stop playing with us.


Heya

Post 14

Hmm

Hmm...I'm not sure teachers can do that. They CAN punish them for being rude/mean/bullying but if your friends want to play with them, nobody's really gota right to stop them unless they're doing something wrong...smiley - erm

Have you tried talking to your friends abouthow you're getting/feeling seperated from them by the others?


Heya

Post 15

Hmm

- by the way, RRC's had problems like this before, and she usually gets fed up with me because my advice is annoying, so if I'm not helping, just tell me to shut up!smiley - winkeye


Heya

Post 16

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Your more a help than anyone
And they just talk about me,and what i do,and stuff
They talk about me behind my back
They makeup stuff like i am making faces at them when i am not
It is prbally because i am having fun with other friends


Heya

Post 17

Hmm

Hey you're offline. Sorry I dissappeared without telling you- I got called away but I didnt think it'd take this long. smiley - sorry

"And they just talk about me,and what i do,and stuff
They talk about me behind my back
They makeup stuff like i am making faces at them when i am not
It is prbally because i am having fun with other friends"

Yeah the stuff people say can be really frustrating, especially if they keep making things up;then even if you argue they just carry on.smiley - erm It's always silly little things that don't matter much but somehow really get to you,I find.

So you do you have some other friends in school you can go play with? If the group you're with gets too frustrating?




Heya

Post 18

Hmm

"- by the way, RRC's had problems like this before"

Sorry, typo, I meant PRC. ONly just noticed that!


Heya

Post 19

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i read it as PRC

And yes i do
My teacher said that she was gonna do a circle time about it


Heya

Post 20

Hmm

That sounds like a good idea.

And it's good that you canplay with someone else...at least then you don't have to put up with what's going on *all the time.*


How're things today by the way?smiley - smiley


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