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Mrs Zen

Venus, if the mods were here I would yikes that post.


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Effers;England.


I just came online. And thanks so much Mrs Zen. I'm just about at the end of everything I've had so many problems here of late. Thank god for anhaga. He's been such a brilliant friend to me.

There are also other really good supportive people here.

I need to have contact with the new Eds..when that is convenient for them...about a variety of things. I know they will be busy.

Also Magwitch gave me her email addy.

I don't want to be this stupid invalid figure any longer. it just isn't me.


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Effers;England.


That's one of the nastiest posts I've ever seen here.

It's reassuring to me that good people here like to be my friend.


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Mrs Zen

I have to be neutral here.

If anyone has serious problems with another researcher, then the way to handle it is not by posting in their personal spaces, but by raising them with the Community Eds. (I am not one of the Community Eds by the way).

Confidentiality will be maintained, so if someone does see behaviour in another researcher that causes them concern, they should contact the Community Eds. When they do that:

1) the person whose behaviour they have concerns about will not be told details about who has contacted the Community Eds

2) the person contacting the Community Eds will not be told about any correspondence between the Community Eds and the researcher they have concerns about

This may be frustrating, but "taking the law into your own hands" is as unacceptable on h2g2 as it is elsewhere.

In the meantime, I hope you both make the move smoothly, and manage to stay out of each others way in NooHooToo, just as I hope you would avoid difficult people in Real Life.

Ben
*saddened and delayed on what should be an exciting day*


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Mrs Zen

Please see my post just before yours, Venus.


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Effers;England.


Actually I came to realise most of my anger is to do with people involved who were instrumental in causation. To do with the other person is mostly deep sadness.

I expect fair treatment for all concerned. that's the point of neutral people I understand that. That's what makes them safe. I have let off a lot of steam of late. It's to do with my health..which I want back desperately. i deliberately tried to confine it to journals.

I do have fundamental integrity though.

If my terrible conflict and upset can't be sorted here, I will *insist* the local mental health unit take it *seriously* relationships online are no different to real life in my book..and loss the same.


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Effers;England.


Okay I see your post 5 was aimed differently to what I understood. The principle is the same for any conflict situation.

I trust the eds in noohootoo to assess any situation fairly and neutrally and decide what is right for the best.

And I'm getting a good impression of the set-up of them. It makes me feel safe.

Blimey we are all still at the beeb smiley - snork


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Effers;England.


And it was very good of the person to yikes that first post smiley - winkeye it was totally upsetting for me.


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