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Sol

... to pop over and apologise. I suspect I was trying to move the car thread on too fast, when, in fact, you had every right to wish to take Twiglet to task. I am a little touchy about the fights that drag on and on here at the moment, although I totally understand that a) that wasn't your doing and b) he shouldn't be able to be so harsh without comment.

Anyway. That's it. Please don't feel you have to respond to me if you'd rather not.


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Effers;England.


well i'm still in a state of shock. No-one in real life has ever come close to saying what he did.

So taking him to task as you put it, is not something I'm interested in.

I've seen the hurt he causes people over the years here and its tolerated. I hurt people but there's usually an element of hurt on my part as to reason.

He attacks viciously out of the blue for what reason I have no idea.

Sorry if you're touchy about fights though..but I won't ever keep quiet about it here..if it comes up again that he is nasty to people. recently he was incredibly to kea out of the blue.


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Effers;England.


There won't be a fight. He no longer exists as a human being for me so there can't be.

But he was never a human being in the first place.


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Sol

Well, my touchiness about fights doesn't mean that it's not right to go wtf when someone has been genuinely out of order.

smiley - hug


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Effers;England.


You're really not getting it. he no longer exists.

But if I see this non person hurting others I will address them about what this 'it' has done to me.


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Sol

Who? smiley - winkeye

Good oh!


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Effers;England.


Btw has anyone ever hoped for your death in a certain sort of car crash?


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Sol

Was I too flippant? smiley - sadface Sorry again.

I do seem to be getting it wrong today.


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Effers;England.


Don't worry I can barely think straight.


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Effers;England.


I'm away for a bit now..to the garden


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Sol

It's a nice day. Must take advantage myself.


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Sol

I'm sorry the September sun didn't help. smiley - sadface


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Effers;England.




Best leave discussing it for now..because yes I do need to start feeling good things again. I said the same to kuzichi on the rugby message thread he started here.

I want to get rational again.


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Sol

Absolutely understand. I'll leave now.


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Effers;England.


Thanks Sol. it was good of you to start this message thread.


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Effers;England.


post 12 has been disappeared though for some reason.


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Effers;England.


And I've decided to move on for now and not talk about it anymore.

But we can always chat here about other stuff.


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Sol

I am rather jealous of your garden. I've just bought some bulbs and plan on letting my son attempt to bury them in containers on the balocny, but it's not quite the same. Are you a flower person or a veg person? Or, indeed, a grass person?


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Effers;England.


I'm an everything person. Vegetables, herbs, traditional English hedgrow trees in small areas, English wild floer meadow, tiny alpine area, pond. It sounds big..its not that big..but well thought out.


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