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Just For Today!
Posted Dec 5, 1999
Today I'll take some time to play, and let myself be naturally me. I'll also choose to be kind whenever I'm tempted to react in anger.
If others choose to do the same, that would be wonderful, but I can still do all of these things wether they do or not. I can't change them but I can change what I give to them, and to myself. I have more power to have happiness in my life than I realized.
No act of kindness however small, is ever wasted.
Aesops Fables
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Just For Today!
Posted Dec 5, 1999
I only have so many precious seconds in my life, and those that I share with my friends wether they are physically with me or not needn't be filled with anxiety, or thoughts of what I don't have yet in those relationships.
Today, even is just for a little while, I'll try and get the most out of each moment, no matter what I have or don't have. When I do that, I can see whatever problems I have in a new light, not clouded by darkness.
It's a pitty that we can't forget our troubles the same way we forget our blessings. -AA
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Full Blooded Aries
Posted Nov 27, 1999
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The following is my new found hobby, I found that I enjoy watching the signs and trying to find out if each individual I meet is really anything like what the astrologers say they are. So far it has been very interesting. Would you like to know your Sun Sign? It would amaze you and intrigue you to find out what it is that is really going on in that other persons head. Well, here is what I am all about. What are you all about?
Full Blooded Aries
Quality: Cardinal-As an Aries I am active, energetic, excitable and impulsive, optimistic, open to change and new experiences.
Ruling Planet Mars-Ancient god of war, agression and conflict. Mars's influence fosters tension and accidents; it rules over fire and danger.
Dominent Keyword: I AM
Polarity or Opposite: Libra-Aries is a me first sign. People with Aries tendencies strongly project their own personalities and can be quite selfish. Libra, which is Aries opposite sign, is the sign of partnership. Natives of Libra feel incomplete without a partner or lover, and strive for happiness as a pair.
Body Part Ruled by Aries: The head. Aries people are prone to headaches, and subject to minor injuries around the head and face.
Lucky Day: Tuesday
Lucky Numbers: 1 and 9
Birthstone: Diamond-Attracts love, financial success and brings luck in new ventures. The diamond is particularly lucky for Aries people when worn on the left side of the body.
Color: Red-The color of fire and excitement.
Danger: Aries people are susceptible to harm from fire and sharp instruments. They are also prone to accidents involving high speeds and tend to get into violent and dangerous situations.
Most Likeable Trait: Courage.
Aries is the first sign of the zodiac, the sign that symbolizes a new beginning. There is a dynamic restlessness to the Aries character. With the sun in this sign, I am an activist and doer. If I have a new plan or idea-if an enterprise strikes my fancy-I can't wait to plunge right in. The amusing little prayer, "Grant me patience now!" is typical of the Arien attitude.
When othesr first meet me thier instant impression is of someone exciting, vibrant and talkative. Others will be lucky if they can get a word in edgewise. If someone brings up a topic, I will be delighted to tell in great detail exactly what I think about it.
As an Aries person I gravitate toward the center of action. I am a natural leader who exudes self-confidence. From an early age I felt I was headed for success and I treat opposition as an annoyance to be brushed out of the way.
There is nothing faint-hearted about an Arien. I am willing to take a gamble, follow a dream, set my mind on a goal and pursue it with irresistible enthusiasm. My supreme quality of optimism attracts others. Underneath there may lurk insecurity, but no one will ever know it.
This is not to say I don't get depressed or moody. But the winter of despair doesn't last a week with Aries. I have an uncrackable optimism. It is true, however, that Aries people are notorious for taking offense at fancied slights and injuries. Hot tempers and childish tantrums abound, and my threshold of boredom is extremely low. If success is not immediate, I may lose interest and go in search of other excitement. As a result, patient, plodding types often get to the head of the class before I do.
Ariens have a well-deserved reputation for not finishing what they have begun. I sometimes spend my energy in too many different ways, like the Ring Lardner hero who mounted a horse and rode off in all directions at once.
Independence is a keyword. I can turn sulky and peevish if I have to take orders. I would much rather be the world's largest lizard than the world's smallest dragon. I want to run the whole show. If I can't I pull up stakes and look for a situation in which I can show off my style and brilliance.
Should I come up against a superior force, I will bend but never break. My aggressive and combative spirit cannot be broken by anyone, except myself.
Though generally sincere and honest, I will tell a white lie if it seems advantageous. I am not a very adept liar, however, others see right through me. Sometimes I lack tact and diplomacy-but no malice is intended. Sagittarians also lack this quality of tact because they don't know how to oblique or roundabout. With me, tactlessness is an impulsive act-a careless expression of my innate force. Too often I speak without thinking and say whatever pops into my mouth, and usually regret my impulsiveness later.
Aries is lucky with money, but can't hold on to it. I tend to run up big bills, live extravagantly and soar over budget. However, I usually find a way to pay off what I owe. I have too much pride to be in anyone's debt.
In friendships I give magnanimously if someone is in need-but I want credit for my good deed. In the garden of Aries, there are no shrinking violets.
I am creative, open hearted, high spirited, pioneering, also vain, feisty and impatient. Those who deal with me on an intimate basis will have one chief problem: How are they going to keep up with me.
You and Aries Woman
If you fall in love with an Aries woman, you'll never lack for excitement. But are you the kind of man who can handle a full-blooded independent, forceful female? Because that's what an Aries woman is.
This passionate, intense creature can't give a tepid response. I am a fully stocked fireplace, with logs, kindling and paper, waiting for the touch of a match to set me on fire.
In my relations with men I am domineering. You can either accept it or leave. If you stay, you've made the first concession on a long road. At the end, you're likely to find you've been molded and shaped to fit my image of what my love should be.
What an Aries woman wants, she gets. When a man meets an irresistible force like me, he tends to become a highly movable object.
I need love and get more than my share, but no man becomes my lord and master. I meet a man on equal terms. If he offers loyalty, I repay him in kind. If he is untrustworthy, I also repay him in kind.
In love I will be faithfull, but I expect total fidelity in return. My jealousy is rooted in possessiveness. I do not want a lover who has too many other interests. I want all of him-or nothing at all.
There is an important distinction to make about my jealousy that may be useful in helping to understand my fundamental character. I am not jealous because of a feeling of insecurity (the root cause of most jealousy), but because I have to be number one.
The Aries woman finds happiness in a long-term relationship. I enjoy sharing everything with a lover and I am highly affectionate, even sentimental. I will be your staunchest ally, fight side by side with you, believe in you, and encourage you. I am a marvelous companion for a man on the way up or fighting to stay at the top because I'll give him all the strength and determination I have. I am definitely ambitious.
When I do not feel I am loved I can become shrill and demanding. Above all, I won't tolerate being ignored or neglected. The straight road to perdition is a relationship with an unhappy Aries woman.
I want to be understood and appreciated for my unique qualities. If you handle me with tact and give me the admiration I need, this vivacious, active, mischievous, sensual, fascinating woman will do anything you ask.
How to Attract Aries
Don't be timid. Faint heart never won Aries, male or female. Let Aries people know how much you admire them right at the beginning. Aries people will never think you brash if you are paying them a compliment. They feel they deserve it. Be a bit careful, though, about laying it on too thick. They can always spot insincerity.
Aries people think of themselves as intellectuals, so don't appeal to them purely on a physical plane. They will enjoy a lively discussion of theater, music, politics, or even more esoteric subjects such as history, art or philosophy.
A good suggestion for a date early in the relationship is a sporting event. (With Aries, it can never be more than a suggestion.) They are enthusiastic sports fans. If you don't know much about the game you're watching, let them explain it to you. They'll do so in a way that will make it interesting and exciting.
Before an important date, take a nice long nap. Aries is no clock-watcher, and the fun may go on and on into the wee hours. Aries people pick up steam while everyone else is running out of gas.
By all means, bring your problems to Aries. There is nothing they like better than to be asked for advice. They are generous with their time, counsel, money and sympathy. And there's an additional advantage. No Aries is in doubt as to what should be done in any given situation. You'll get a forthright, black and white, no quibbles or evasions answer.
Important: Never try to dictate to an Aries. They don't know how to take orders. If you want to put an idea into her head, do it so that Aries thinks the idea originated there.
Decantes
First Decanate: March 21 through March 31
Keyword: Inspiration
Constellation: Andromeda, the Chained Woman. She was freed of her chains by Perseus, the Rescurer. The constellation symbolizes the power of love.
Planetary Subruler: Mars
Mars is both my ruler and Subruler, giving my personality extra force and impact. I am a dominant person, and can sometimes be too aggressive. In an argument of clash of will, I ride right over the opposition. I am impetuous, energetic, and tend to throw myself into activities with all my heart. A person of conviction, I will never take an action that I think is wrong. I am a clear, incisive thinker and can carry a plan to conclusion. My best quality is my ability to inspire confidence in others. At times I tire myself out because I don't know when to stop. I also tend to monopolize conversations.
Cusp of Aries
Born March 21 through March 25 I am Aries with Pisces tendencies. I am headstrong and impulsive, but there is a part of me that longs for peace and solitude. I resent it when others intrude on or interfere with my plans. My intellectual powers are keen, and I enjoy probing into new areas and coming up with different ideas. I am clearly an individual. Warmth and sympathy come easily to me. Generally I am fond of entertaining and get along well with people. My lovemaking tends to be passionate.
Health
Part of the body Ruled by Aries, Aries rules the head and face. You can often spot an Aries by her fine facial bone structure and a shinning, healty head of hair. Sometimes there is a birthmark or mole on the face. The head is associated with thinking and perception, and natives of Aries tend to be sharp, shrewd thinkers who use common sense.
Aries people are subject to headaches, including migraine, head congestion, and sinus conditions. They are also prone toward minor injuries around the head and face, and should use protective headgear if taking part in strenuous sports. They have a tendency to overwork themselves and overtax their energy. They are prey to eyestrain and to having problems with their teeth.
When excited or frustrated, an Aries person will often get red in the face. If she has fever, it tends to reach high degrees in a short peroid of time. However, Aries have strong recuperative powers and can fight off illness very rapidly.
The glands that Aries rules are the subrenals. These are the glands, which pump adrenalin into the bloodstream during times of stress and emergency. The Aries personality is known for its excitability and impetuosity, and one reason may be that Mars, the Planet associated with Aries, rules the muscular system and the sex glands. Aries people are active, have excellent muscle coordination, and are noted for their energetic sexuality.
Erogenous Zones
Our bodies are very sensitive to the touch of another human being. The special language of touching is understood on a level more basic than speech. For each sign in the zodiac, there are certain zones and areas of the body that are especially receptive and can receive sexual messages through touch. You can use astrology to become a better, more sensitive lover.
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