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Tabitca Started conversation Feb 4, 2007
to say really. I've had flu and had to take a day off work..the result is I'm feeling really tired and tearful....Things are hectic at work.The students are cool though.
Still trying to get the landlord to court to get our deposit back..he keeps coming up with daft letters to the court to delay things....he even forged some which we pointed out to the court(One person who supposedly wrote one of the letters is dead). the result of this is I am now being taken to court for not paying my council tax...which had I got my deposit back I would have had the money to pay.So I am trying to pay as much as I can..the result being I don't know if I will be able to to afford my bus fares to work for the rest of the month....which means I'll have to borrow money again .I am really fed up.
And Jk and I? what can I say...he's coming up to visit again before Easter but I have no idea where things are going.I guess I am just a part time partner.He likes his single life...well he is younger than me.
Oedipus is very frail and I worry each day may be the downward slope but all I can do is love him and make sure when the time comes he is not in any pain. Baggins continues to be plump and in mischief.He is 12 this year but doesn't seem to be any different.
so my not much to say turned into a lot
I miss everyone.I will try and get back as much as I can.
to everyone. Have a good weekend what is left of it.
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Kitish Posted Feb 4, 2007
i'm doing better than you....Just trying to sort myself out for the next few weeks (but am sooo lazy).
The usual really. Lots of stuff going on in my head and trying to figure things out. Getting a bit fraustrated with life. A little depressed about how time flies and how my life right now is nowhere near how I imagined it whilst growing up, and won't be anything like my childish dreams
But oh well. We learn to adapt our dreams I guess. I'm just an impatient creature to be honest. I want things now. I want people to do things now. And its a little fraustrating when I discover that I have to wait a few years for things to happen and not even sure if things will happen...
This is a very cryptic post...Apologies!
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Tabitca Posted Feb 4, 2007
no I know sometimes it's difficult to reconcile RL with what you had hoped.Life has a way of puncturing those little dream balloons. My dreams have all long since gone.Sadly I don't have any new ones to replace them at the moment...but there is still time.
You should decide on what you want and go for it.You may change your mind on the way but that's allowed. You have a brave heart Kit...you'll get there and find what you want
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Tabitca Posted Feb 4, 2007
I miss you too old friend I have to go but will try and get back on hootoo this evening. Take care I often think about you and hope you are ok
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I'm not really here Posted Feb 5, 2007
Being a part time partner must be hard. Especially when you have pets who aren't very well.
We all need someone to love, and to love us, but also we need people who are *there*, to help out when times are hard.
I hope your cat is doing ok.
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Yael Smith Posted Feb 5, 2007
I know a bit of how you feel, Tabs. But part time partner isn't usually a lasting position, unless both sides want it to be so... which can be bad, but also good.
And I know how Kit is feeling, being an impatient creature myself.
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MadSnacker-h2g2 ambassador to Yorkshire and the UK Posted Feb 6, 2007
So sorry to hear about your troubles..you are having a really bad time of things.Hope that you are able to secure your neededand that Oedipus is going to be all right. I also hope that the relationship somehow works wellMy best wishes to you and Nessie.Take care,Tabs
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- 6: pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? | (Feb 4, 2007)
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