h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Hello,
i posted to your old space,i couldn't remember this one,until i done a search,i hope things are well.
best wishes
Carino

As well as can be expected under the circumstances, I remain unemployed after many interviews, I had a "not that great Christmas" and my family is separated by 1500 miles. Other than that I'm great couldn't be better.

What's the latest with you? I hope your Christmas was better than mine, and that your family is well.

I haven't heard from you in awhile... just getting updates on all the friends here at hootoo?

Any New Years Resolutions?

I am sorry to hear your still out of work and that your separated from your family,what can i say,except,i hope things can only get better.(bit rich coming from someone who gave up on the word eh?)
I haven't got a paid job,more a rewarding and fulfilling job,working for Womens Aid,its something i have always been interested in.
I never make resolutions,especially january the first,i make mistakes and i always live to regret them don't you?
Anyway this is adios, i'm going offline on the 4th of january,i bought a freeview box,its a one off payment,as opposed to renting.

PS.I do wish you luck and happiness,in whatever you do,
Bye
Carino

I don't blame it on God, although it seems like He is the only one who could have arraigned it.

My Joy of life is not based upon circumstances anyway, its based on my relationship with God and what He has planned for me. So I dont worry as much as some other people might in the same circumstances.

Glad to hear that you've gotten situated and good luck with everything.

adieu
P.S. Give me a line every now and then to let me know you still alivce and kicking, I'll still be here.

I don't believe god has all the answers and decide what we do,sometimes we have to make our own choices.I'll try and keep in touch,i'm looking out for a cheap PC,i may get one in the sales.

It is not that I dont have to make choices but what is the basis for the choice.

Hope you find your PC

Whatever!,i'm not in the mood to discuss,i've just had words with my family,why do i feel its my fault?

Somewhere along the way you have believed a Lie (that it is your fault) and this experience is triggered each time you talk with them, resulting in a re-experiencing of that lie. The only way out is to expose the lie for what it is and recognize it as a lie.

Email [email protected] and tell him this story and he has the ability to get to this issue and deal with it so that it will be over completely. Tis technique is called Theophostic he is trained in it and it worked for me wonderfully(of course I met and used a different person but the technique is the same), I'm sure that it will work for you also.

Let me know how it turns out.

Thanks for the info,i can't think how a lie,from way back,can trigger an argument,so i am interested to find out,i have emailed him,but i don't know if i'll hear in time,my digital box is being returned on the 4th of this month,everything is ok now.Nice talking to you,take care.
Best wishes
Carino
ps i did make a new year resolution,i quit smoking on new years day,its hard but i'm determined,this time
did you make any?

These lies are part of our experience and are very tough to extricate from our memories. If we are being abused as a child, we could easily believe that we are at fault and the lie would instill a false guilt into our consciousness. The lie, "the guilt", would lead us to feelings of worthlessness or even ruin relationships with other adults in our lives, preventing us from having fully mature relationships.

The problem is that as an intellectual idea, "the guilt" is inaccessible. It is not in our intellect but in our experiences and until we have another experience that changes our feelings about what happened so long ago that "trigger" will remain ready to cause us pain in the world of today. Sometimes it takes only a little to re-trigger the same feelings a smell, a sound or even movies/television can cause re-triggering. It will be as though our feelings are still back there experiencing it all over again.

The typical person is full of these major and minor triggers from our past. But the instant we can overcome each of the triggers we are free of its influence. But remember it is not an intellectual exercise and some memories are quite painful to re-experience that is why it is best done with the help of someone trained in the techniques.

When one is free from the effects of a trigger, one can examine the memory without experiencing any emotional pain at that point it cannot hurt you anymore, the trigger is gone. I can probably get a phone number for you if you are interested in pursueing it further. I have no idea how close this person is to you (it might be long distance for you). Check it out over the internet it is called Theophostic ministry

That is the simplest explanation I can offer for you without actually doing it for you and it cannot be done over the phone nor over the internet.

Good luck with everything. Keep in touch, wil you?
Tom Kent
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