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i really dont want to consider myself as a mistress, although they said, i am.....but for me, I AM NOT!!!
i just dont want, thats all.. we love each other and i strongly beleive on it.. but am i really stupid? what do you think? i dont understand myself, im happy but im sad... i was deeply in love, its been a year, what am i gonna do to make this feeling disappear? how can this be wrong, when i feel so right?
being a third party doesn't mean you always ruin a relationship, you also helping those two people realized that they're not meant for each other..am i right? somebody there????? give me an advice or opinion pls.. im really depressed...

hey, i also have the same problem.. i met this guy when he was still single, but then he got married with his girlfriend.. i really suffered so much then.because of the fact that the guy and i are so in love, and wouldnt want our relationship to end. till now, we still see each other.. but i cant help not to get hurt very often.i love him and i dont wanna loose him. he told me he loves me and cant let go of me, but they now have a son,a family, and the situation got more complicated. i still keep on waiting, and sacrificing for him.. This situation really kills me.im so depressed.Each time i attempt to end our relationship,i feel worse. i dont wanna loose him. we cherish our relationship so much but how? what should we do. I need your help guys..

get out of the relationship when you can. it's all lies. he will and does lie to you and his wife. if he loved you that mudh he'd be with you. you cannot trust a man who has done this to his wife and you. Think about her too. would you like it done to you?
I know becasuse I have just been through it and it was the most horrific experience of my life. I have been to hell and back and nearly ended my life over this stupid man. You will look back and wonder what the hell you were thinking when you started this and carried it on.
please save your sanity. save youself for someone who really loves you.

this man is a pig!!! he had you then got married AND then had a son??? You will never get him now he has a child. Ever. He doesn't respect you or his wife. He's just thinking of himself not you or his wife. GET OUT NOW!!!

read 'lessons in heartbreak' by Cathy Kelly. It says it all. He will not end it. You will have to. Find the strength from somewhere. Don't take his crap.

hope problem has been solved. if not,perhaps you should ask yourself:what you are looking for from that guy then