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torontonianeh Started conversation Mar 13, 2005
I've been checking out the pages on death looking for the answer to a particular question but I couldn't see it. I wonder if anyone can help me. My father recently died in a nursing home. We were called by the staff to say that he was near death and of course we went to the home immediately. When I arrived, he had a slightly waxy appearance, his eyes were open and I honestly couldn't tell if he was breathing or not. My brother was there and told me a personal care worker was just in the room and said Dad's breathing was shallow but he was still alive. About 30 minutes later, she returned and said, "He's gone" but I couldn't see any difference except he was slightly more waxy in appearance. I cannot stop wondering if he was already dead when I got there. The PCW just touched him and pronounced him "gone" so what was the difference? I had spoken to him and touched him and I honestly couldn't say whether he was dead or not.
My question is, how soon after death does the body assume this waxy look? Or, does it begin before death?
Sorry, told you it was morbid. It's Sunday morning in Toronto, cool, bright and we still have snow.
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Andy Posted Mar 13, 2005
you might be better served asking here A148907 its the ask h2g2 there are a lot more people go there and im sure some one can answer your question good look
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torontonianeh Posted Mar 13, 2005
This whole phenomenon of reading instructions is quite interesting. Sorry about that! Now perhaps I can stop the damn VCR from flashing 12:00. :[
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fords - number 1 all over heaven Posted Mar 13, 2005
Hello and welcome to h2g2!
If you have a look at your Message Centre on your User Space (about a third of the way down) you'll find I've left you your official welcome to h2g2 I'm an <./>ACE</.> (Assistant Community Editor) and I'm here to help new researchers get on their feet so if I can help you with anything at all just give me a shout
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Andy Posted Mar 15, 2005
thats it its now official you cant escape fords wont let you go (she is ruthless like that)im only kidding shes
hope to see you about h2g2
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fords - number 1 all over heaven Posted Mar 15, 2005
Grangemouth. I'm just confused that you're going to bed now - do you work night shift?
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Andy Posted Mar 15, 2005
hey you and me both
yeh i do i like the idea of yorkshire in a different time zone the bermuda shires
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