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Grumpy Mort

Post 21

Mort - a middle aged Girl Interrupted

I don't mind pulling out all the stops etc to hel;p the site through a difficult time with the changeover but i am not going to make myself feel ill because of it. It is not worth it.

Trouble with me is that i don't say anything until i get really narked off. I was the same at work, do my job and my managers job cos she was crap, and waited until i was so pissed off before saying something instead of saying 'no' before.


Grumpy Mort

Post 22

Andy

I have welcomed another onesmiley - smiley

I dont mind helping through this hard
time but like you said not going to make my self ill/over tierd staying up late becouse there 30 newbies to welcome

Well you know me by now im a speek as i find sort of person if i dont like something or some one ill tell them smiley - smiley


Grumpy Mort

Post 23

Mort - a middle aged Girl Interrupted

i think i am also extra grumpy as my back has been bad, when i get stressed i toss and turn at night and it sets of my spinal problems, yesterday my legs were a bit numb and i couldn't balance properley. I only have to cough or sneeze and legs my buckle. A bit embarassing in the middle of the street!!

Think i need a washer put inbetween my vertebrae to seperate them and stop them crushing my nerves - but hey, i am only the patient and apparently not supposed to know anything!!!

My hormones are giving me jip too smiley - laugh It doesn't rain but it pours eh?!


Grumpy Mort

Post 24

Andy

Washer smiley - smiley

mort dose acein guruing washing toumble dryngsmiley - laugh

seriously tho...

smiley - hugsmiley - hugsmiley - hug

My back isn`t to cracking had a dodgy
matress once had groves in it id wake
up with pains in my back i still do but now its more to do with me body building useing more waight theese days

its amazeing what doctors can do you will be fine


Don't mention the benefits system

Post 25

Mort - a middle aged Girl Interrupted

Warning - spontaneously about to combust Mort onsite smiley - steam

After phoning the housing benefit helpline, the nice lady said just send in your letter from the landlord about the rent increase.

Ha!! I thought, i will do more than that. I photocopied everything and then sent them a covering letter saying what i included and why i was sending them the stuff.

**The letter from my landlord.
**A letter saying what dissablility living allowance i am receiving (including dates of entitlement)
**A letter about my incappacity benefet (including dates of entitlement)
**My last housing benefit award letter - just to make sure they knew who i was.

I wrote my HB benefit reference number on all the letters aswell, and made sure that all had a reference to me via national insurance number and name or name and address actually typed as part of the originals, to prove they referred to me.

I thought i had all bases covered, and felt proud of the fact that i had the foresight to add all this info in with the letter from my landlord.

Well the jolly postie has delivered me a letter this morning saying - "please send us proof of income/benefits" If you wish to discuss this, contact Mr H at *** ****. So i phoned the number, only to be transfered to a general enquiries line who have never heard of him. I phoned the council switchboard who gave me another number which redirected me to the same centre, after 20 minutes of listening to a recorded message saying "sorry for the delay, this is due to the high volume of calls, if it is not urgent please call back later" smiley - grr So that ended up being a waste of time.

I give up. I will have to write to them and send the same stuff again (just aswell i photocopied and never sent the originals) and will no doubt receive the same letter again. At which point i won't actually need any Housing Benefit as i will have jumped off the Forth Road bridge.

I am now so wound up, *counts to 100 waiting for the valium to kick in* that i could seriously go down to the office and scream at them. However i would no doubt have to wait for 6 hours for the pleasure in a queue of other cross claimants. smiley - steamsmiley - crosssmiley - grr

I wonder if i could sue them for causing me mental distress smiley - winkeye

So, lavender oils, self soothing techniques, mindfulness will be required to calm me down. However first, I am off to the shop to buy a couple of bottles of wine for later (and not the cheap stuff either, just to rebell!)

Deep sigh.

I fell asleep on the sofa and i dreamt about h2g2 - Natalie and Mina were working in my old vet hospital!! They were in the office, and i kept trying to explain to them that everytime you hovered the mouse over someones name it gave all their log in details smiley - ermsmiley - weird

Think I should go to bed for a bit smiley - winkeyesmiley - laugh


Don't mention the benefits system

Post 26

Mort - a middle aged Girl Interrupted

oh i forgot to add, the silly woman at the call centre said to "just ignore the letter if i had sent the stuff in"

Very helpful - NOT, the only way they knew to send me any correspondance was because of the stuff i had sent them, so ignoring it was hardly a constructive piece of advice.


Don't mention the benefits system

Post 27

Mort - a middle aged Girl Interrupted

Revenge...

I have just dug out alot of the s**t they have sent me and i am now going to go and get them photocopied and send them the whole smiley - bleeping lot. They want proof - they can have it in triplicate. (they always send the same thing several times - about 2 days apart)

It is worth the £3 it will cost me to get it all copied smiley - evilgrin


Don't mention the benefits system

Post 28

Mort - a middle aged Girl Interrupted

14 photocopied pages later...


Don't mention the benefits system

Post 29

Andy

go mortsmiley - smiley

smiley - hugsmiley - hug

There is no point argueing over the phone best is like you revenge send them loads and loads of smiley - bleepto dig through they will be sick of it before you

i had the same problem with my car..
it had a fault wih it and they wasn`t
realy interested with it i phoned and phoned shouted ant threatern`d them with all sorts then when i told them that i am in the prosses of stoping my finance with them
They told me i couldn`t do it this was a brand new car and it had fault from the manufacture`s that i wasn`t aware of further more you havent done any thing about it you solve it a day later its on again you kept my car for a week no look with it you give my a smiley - bleepheep to drive im not a happy bunny here
Im stoping my finance
im going to sue renault
im going to inform all the papers of this feasco so we will see what custom you get after shall we....

I got another clo same age different color
And they replaced my tape player to a cd player as well and vouchers as wellsmiley - smiley


Don't mention the benefits system

Post 30

pheloxi | is it time to wear a hat? |

every time I see this thread on my space it make think of 7 dwarves

smiley - silly I now


Don't mention the benefits system

Post 31

Andy

smiley - laughi would have to be sleepy im always tierd smiley - biggrin


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