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Surigao Started conversation Nov 24, 2002
Well my problem is that im going out with a girl whos 4 yrs younger than me. We'v been going out for 5 months but the thing is that her paretns dont know about me yet and iv been seeing her secretly behind her parents back. My paretns already know about the relationship but her paretns dont know yet. The thing is that i wanna do the right thing by everyone including her parents and i feel im disrespecting them for not telling about the relationship. But my GF wont tell her parents yet because shes affraide of how they'l react. She thinks they might get angry because of the age gap. Im 21 and shes 17, I really love this girl but what should i do about the whole situation with parents. I havent her parents yet but i really want cause i want their approval of the realtionship.
WHAT SHOULD I DO??
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Whoami - iD dislikes punctuation Posted Nov 24, 2002
I honestly can't personally offer you a huge amount of help with this directly, but I can offer you some general advice to help you decide. You need to do whatever you really think is right. It looks to me like you think that you need to tell her parents - so perhaps this is what you need to do.
Meanwhile, welcome to h2g2, and thanks for sharing your worries with us. 
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Whoami - iD dislikes punctuation Posted Nov 24, 2002
You sure do have a lot of relationship worries at the moment - I take it this is the same girl from F7182?thread=224566 - so good luck! 
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Granny Weatherwax - ACE - Hells Belle, Mother-in-Law from the Pit - Haunting near you on Saturday Posted Nov 24, 2002
As a mom myself, I don't think 4 years is a big age gap, OK youu can't visit pubs/bars together yet, but there's plenty of other places to meet or visit. Encourage her to tell her parents, or to let you pick her up from her house so that they can meet you. Good luck.
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Researcher 212756 Posted Dec 27, 2002
As much as i'd like to, I can't tell you to tell them RIGHT AWAY...but, I would encourage her (without being a dick or anything) to tell them... But(t) if they can't deal, maybe wait another year or so. (Just make shure you know where yr towel is...) and hope for the best. Good luck...- Have a good sin (etc) ...*Rhiannon*
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manda1111 Posted Dec 27, 2002
Sorry to butt in on your conversation, but if
"Researcher 212756"
would go back to their own page and then click on the "EDIT PAGE" button and then write a little something about your self ( It don?t have to be a lot ), as this will activate your page and then a ACE can come and welcome you there properly
Sorry for interrupting your conversation 
Manda 
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