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I agree stongley with your statement, from personal experience of multiple marriages, the best relationship I have ever had, is with my present partner, we have been together 5yrs now, which has been wonderful with no arguements or breaking up, or any of the usual domestic and sometimes violent dramas one can have in a marriage. I believe we have found the perfect recipe and this has taken a long time for me to analyze, the secret is not to rush into a marriage, or not marry at all, and both have their own apartments, with their own space and complete trust and faith in each other, it can be much better than a marriage, as I have found out from experience. If young passionately in love, wanting children, then wait at least 2 yrs to marry, when the real person you are in lust with shows his or hers true self. Rushing into marriage can mean, in a year or two, you might not even like the person you have chosen, because you were blinded by the sudden rush of love and passion, which is truley blinding.

I agree with you. Thanks for responding with profound ideas on 'Multiple Marriages' pertaining similar meaning to that of mine 'Marriages more than once'.

Well, I know fellow in the practice of polygamy who married to four different women out of whom he succeeded to produce more two dozen offspring of whom one was happened to heard angrily, "My father kept on marrying and enjoying life himself and as a result we came into being (although he shouldn't have said like that)."

Further to that, he added saying, "On his sudden death five years before his all those wives became widows. What he left for his wives and descendants for survival is not enough. Life becomes pathetic and peculiar for such fellows folly in life."

We have heard that fellow was always in tension and lived a pitiable life until death.

What's your opinion about the case briefed on the context?

Hope you would join us soon here to share your experience on 'Multiple marriages'.

Thanks!

Thank you for your reply, your question is a difficult one, but in simple terms, men who go on having children in multiple marriages must put their money where their pleasure is, if they insist on having children in different marriages, then they should be held accountable to their wives and offsprings, and make sure they can pay for them all and provide a decent standard of living for their wives to bring up their children. If this is not possible then they should be responsible enough to have the snip.

Hi Ray, when it comes to multiple marriages and relationships, I feel I have had enough experience to discuss the matter, thank you for your invitation, and it will be my pleasure to join your discussion on this matter. I have posted a message on my personal experience, albeit I am not against marriage, but from my mistakes in the past, it is better to have one good marriage, than six failed marriages, and the way to avoid multiple marriages, is not to rush into a marriage too soon with the wrong person, the wait would be well worth it, when you meet the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with, and it is better all round, especially for children of the marriage, because when a marriage fails they suffer as much as anyone.