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Post 1

*Princess*of*Hearts*

Can you Please Help me I'm being Hounded By a researcher 23662 He won't leave me alone His other H2g2 name is HOT-ROD he is putting Lie's up about me in his journal's i HAVE never met him Plus he is accusesing All my friend's on here of being me wich Is another Pack of Lie's and he won't go, away he has his friend's mesg me and he but's in my personal convos to my friend's He just won't go I've sent in email's of complaint's about him But still not 1 reply off any of you And not a thing Has been done about him He is realy Upsetting me I don't like being nasty Toward's anyone but he is Putting my real name on all his journal pages about me And i have tried to sort it all out with a friendly manner And i just Cud not take it any longer So i got angrysmiley - grrI didn't mean to use bad word's but he just won't leave me alone He also Put a journal up on his page with my h2g2 username on it and he Just dosn't know when to leave woman alone He has tried realy hard to Cause Trouble for me on here and he log's in as women's name's and also he got about 13 other research Number's on here I don't know what his Problem is at all This site used to be a great place a way for me escape my own Problem's of family life and I made load's of new friend's But now It's a horrible place he even mesg my ex bf and Told him lie's and he split me and him up I have got a good friend Hleping me He ha a PC and has pressed the alert mod on each mesg he send's me but it's No good he still Come's back in other name's I can't take it much more Can some1 please help me I've had enough he LEFT a MESSAGE on my page like this ???????????? I have tried to Talk with him Tell him I'm not Intrested in his Mesg about my Friend's what they do with there lives in there Time is them And who and who they talk with is No concern of mine either and i try be nice and ask how he is But no that's not Good enough he Has come back to Cause more trouble
I just want him to leave me alone this Time for good Can you please please help me i don't know what ealse To do I just want to be left alone to talk with my friend's and get on with Haven a nice TIME on here.
Is that so little to ask for I've tried to be nice and try and It's still got me no where I want him to leave me alone now This time For good Can you please Tell HOT-ROD researcher 23662 to stop. Please help me.


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Little Miss- Get well soon Kylie.XXX

Hilary-Marie
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I know I may have jumped on your back about some of your msgs on here, but differences aside, I agree with you about this Phil person!
I think he is very desperate for messaging all the times that he has, & I think what he is doing is wrong!
I think all you can do to REALLY get away from him is re-register & don't tell any1 who you are, I know u shouldn't have to do this, but i think it is the only way, & also, just don't reply to ANY of his messages & don't talk ABOUT him, although I know it must be difficult as u want to defend yourself, but just bite ur tongue!

Some of the H2G2 editors ARE aware of some of the threads he is posting to you, so if u must post to him, be stern but not abusive & then when he messages you back in his usual overbearing way, the Editors will see for themselves wot he is like & they can deal with him!

I hope you sort it out soon!smiley - smiley


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lynsey


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Post 3

Rho

If you see any postings by this, or any other researcher, that break the <./>HouseRules</.>, you should complain about ('yikes') them. smiley - smiley

If you're using a digibox, and so are unable to use the complaints button yourself, there's an unofficial yikesing group that can help - see A1108018. smiley - ok

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Post 4

SEF

Hello P-of-H,

I can't help you directly but I do have some general advice. The points about retaining your own dignity and yikesing anything which actually breaks the HouseRules (for which giving out your personal information should qualify) are valid. However, there is no point in being upset beyond what you can do about it immediately and it will be bad for your health in the long run. So take some time to do something else you enjoy for a while, eg gardening, swimming, reading a good book, watching a funny film, listening to music. Ideally it should be an activity which is a physical or emotional release, eg makes you laugh instead of being cross.


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Post 5

*Princess*of*Hearts*

Thank's lynsey For the advice I will do that I will just Ignore him From now on I'll talk with my other Friend's on here and Try get some house work done.
I've changed my phone number so I won't get any more nasty call's
I just can't understand why he started on me in the first place.

Thanks ppl for the advice
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smiley - smiley
I feel much better now that you know about It thou It's taken a weight Off my shoulder's now I didn't wanna Snitch BUT i had to as it was maken me unhappy and nasty with my friend's and I'm not like that with my Real friend's most them I know in real life OFF here and I do have a laugh with them.

Any way The season has started I be watching thesmiley - footballI'm a everton fan we play Tomorrow I going the game.
Thanks again for the help.


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Post 6

h2g2Support

If there are any Postings that break the House Rules, please use the complaints button (in any way you can) to draw them to our attention. We take harassment very seriously, but we need to know that it is happening so that we can take appropriate action.


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Post 7

GrifterGal

Hiya smiley - smileysmiley - smiley can anyone please tell me how to find th picture gallery on here? i,m smiley - sadface and i,m cos i,ve been there before but i stumbled on it accidently then

please help

smiley - love
grifter gal

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Post 8

Mina

Here you go. <./>GuideML-PictureLibrary</.> smiley - ok


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Post 9

GrifterGal


Hiya hun smiley - smiley i,m smiley - sorry but i dont understand your instructions to get to the picture library! could you simplfy it for me plz
thanks
smiley - love
GRIFTER GAL
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Post 10

Little Miss- Get well soon Kylie.XXX

just click on the blue words that say GuideMl-Picture Gallery!


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Researcher 236692

I WOULD LIKE 2 POINT OUT I HAVE NOT GOT ANOTHER 13 USERNAMES ON HERE AT ALL,SO I REALLY DONT KNOW WHERE U GOT THAT FROM,ALSO IM TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT LUSHYLIPS SHE HAS PHONED ME TWICE SAYING SHE IS NOT ON HERE AT ALL,SO THE PERSON THAT IS MAKING OUT 2 BE HERE IS AN IMPOSTER,ALSO SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE HAS SOMEONE ON HERE THAT TEXTED HER AND SAW SOMEONE SAYING THAT THEY WERE HER,WHICH IS NOT TRUE,IVE TOLD LUSHYLIPS ON THE PHONE THE RESEARCH NUMBERS OF PPL WHO HAVE SENT MESSAGES 2 THAT PERSON WHO IS PRETENDINGG 2 BE MICHELLE LUSHYLIPS,THATS ALL IM GOING 2 SAY ON THE SUBJECT,SO YOU THINK ITS RIGHT SOMEONE SHE COME ON HERE AND PRETEND 2 BE SOMEONE WHEN ITS NOT THEM.I DO NOT HAVE 13 NAMES ON HERE AT ALL SO THAT PERSON THE PRINCESS-OF -HEARTS IS TALKING RUBBISH,CHECK SOLCUERDA PAGE AND U WILL FIND THAT HE SENT THAT LUSHLIPS A MESSAGE AND ASLO agelicaheavenxxlwill take the stuart to be mt husband for eternityxx,AND ALSO I SNET A MESSAGE 2 THAT LUSHYLIPS ASK ING HER HOW MANY KIDS HAS SHE GOT AND WHAT R THE SEXES AND HOW OLD R THEY AND WHAT IS THEIR NAMES,BUT THAT LUSHYLIPS DOES NOT REPLY,COS I KNOW THE REAL LUSHYLIPS IS NOT ON HERE AND AS I SAID SHE HAS PHONED ME TWICE AND ASKED ME WHAT IS GOING ON.


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Post 12

Researcher 236692

HILARY IVE NEVER HAD YOUR PHONE NUMBER SO WHY TELL PEOPLE I HAVE,THE ONLY NUMBER IVE HAD IS NATS,SO THEN U MUST BE NAT AS WELL,SO WHY TELL PEOPLE LIES ABOUT ME,SO HOW COULD I PHONE YOU WHEN IVE NEVER HAD YOUR NUMBER.


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Researcher 236692

HILARY IVE NEVER HAD YOUR PHONE NUMBER SO WHY TELL PEOPLE I HAVE,THE ONLY NUMBER IVE HAD IS NATS,SO THEN U MUST BE NAT AS WELL,SO WHY TELL PEOPLE LIES ABOUT ME,SO HOW COULD I PHONE YOU WHEN IVE NEVER HAD YOUR NUMBER.


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Researcher 236692

HILARY IVE NEVER HAD YOUR PHONE NUMBER SO WHY TELL PEOPLE I HAVE,THE ONLY NUMBER IVE HAD IS NATS,SO THEN U MUST BE NAT AS WELL,SO WHY TELL PEOPLE LIES ABOUT ME,SO HOW COULD I PHONE YOU WHEN IVE NEVER HAD YOUR NUMBER.


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Researcher 236692

IM GOING 2 MAKE IT VERY CLEAR 2 U,IM NOT LOGGED ON THIS SITE IN A WOMANS NAME,SO THE PRINCESS-OF -HEARTS IS LYING 2 YOU,AS I SAID I HAVE NOT GOT 13 NAMES ON HERE,ALL IM GOING 2 SAY 2 YOU,IS THAT YOU BELIEVE WHAT YOU WANT,AS IM NOT GOING 2 BE ACCUSED OF BEING LOGGED IN ON THIE SITE IN A WOMANS NAME,AND WHEN I SAY THAT MICHELLE LUSHYLIPS HAS PHONED ME TWICE IM TELLING THE TRUTH,AS IVE ALSO TOLD HER WHO HAS BEEN SENDING MESSAGES 2 THAT PERSON PRETENDING 2 BE HERE,AND ALSO MICHELLE TOLD ME THAT SOMEONE THAT COMES ON HERE IS INFORMING HER WHAT IS GOING ON,THATS WHY SHE PHONED ME 2 SEE IF IT WAS TRRUE,ALSO HOW CAN I PHONE THE PRINCESS-OF-HEARTS WHEN IVE NEVER HAD HER PHONE NUMBER,THE JOURNALS ON MY PAGE ARE KNOW LONGER THERE,AND IM NOT LYING 2 YOU AT ALL,WHY SHOULD I HAVE TO LIE,IT IS SOMEONE ELSE WHO IS DOING THE LYING.,AND ALSO WHY SHOULD PEOPLE BE TALKING BEHIND MY BACK SENDING MESSAGES 2 PEOPLE SAYING IM A PERVERT,LIKE angelicaheavenxxlwill take the stuart to be my husband for eternityxx HAS,GO AND CHECK HER PAGE AND MESSAGES 4 YOURSELF AND FIND OUT.


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*Princess*of*Hearts*

Help me some1 he still Won't leave me alone He accuses me Of being Other user's on here I have only This name and No other and Abi can check that out And set this straight For i am realy Get fed up with Him Now He won't but out my convos with my friend's Can someone tell him To leave me alone please He has just posted a Message here as well He accuses me of Being Nat and I am Not I Hate this All i want To do is To be left alone.

Please help me


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Researcher 236692

HILARY IM ONLY SAYING I DO NOT HAVE 13 NAMES ON HERE LIKE YOU SAID I HAVE,AND I AM NOT MICHELLE LUSHYLIPS EITHER SO WHY ACCUSE ME OF THINGS I AINT,I WILL WAIT UNTIL I HEAR FROM THE PERSON I SENT THE MESSAGE 2,SURELY I CAN RESPOND 2 SOMETHING WHICH IM BEING ACCUSED OF,DO YOU HONESTLY THINK I WANT 2 ARGUE WITH PEOPLE ON HERE COS IF YOU DO THEN YOU ARE WRONG,SO ITS OK 4 YOU 2 ACCUSE ME OF HAVING 13 NAMES ON HERE WHEN I HAVENT IS IT,COS I DONT THINK IT IS,AND I WILL SAY AGAIN IM NOT LUSHYLIPS AT ALL.


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SEF

This may all be some ridiculous misunderstanding over identity. Whatever the truth is (and I can't possibly know) it seems from your messages that neither of you particularly wants to talk to the other but just for the postings to stop. So I have a suggestion:

Researcher 236692, please don't reply to or post on Princess-of-Hearts' space any more.

Princess-of-Hearts, please don't reply to or post on Researcher 236692's space (I forgot to check whether you ever had).

Please, both of you ask whichever people are your personal friends not to involve you with each other in conversations any more either. This ought to include journal entries and pages giving names, addresses or phone numbers. Note that I am not saying either of you have necessarily done this at any time, but that it would obviously be better not to do it in the future.


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Post 19

Pastey

I agree with SEF here. You obviously seem to not want to talk, so don't. Just stop. It's not that difficult.

Fair enough you're both likely to read what the other person is writing, and who wouldn't, but leave each other alone?

I'm sure as SEF says, there's more to it than we'll ever know, or want to, but h2h2 has always managed to maintain a relaxed and friendly atmosphere amongst it's users and I for one would like to keep that.

Some of the postings relating to this matter are in breach of the House Rules, especially the parts regarding harrassment and flooding, but we only tend to fall back on the 'Rules when things get out of hand. I can only hope that things are not that bad yet.

On a side note though, why block capitals? The internet equivilant of shouting.

smiley - rose


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Researcher 236692

WELL I DONT WANT 2 COME ON HERE AND FIND OUT THAT PEOPLE HAVE BEEN TALKING BEHIND MT BACK LIKE THAT HAVE,AND I DO KNOW 4 A FACT THAT THE PERSON PRENTDING 2 BE LUSHYLIPS IS AN IMPOSTER,AS THE TRUE LUSHLIPS HAD PHONED ME TWICE,AND AKED ME WHAT IS GOING ON AS I ASID SHE TOLD ME THAT SOMEONE WHO COMES ON HERE KEEPS HER INFORMED AND SHE PHONED ME 2 ASK IF ITS TRUE THHAT SOMEONE ON HERE IS PRETENDING 2 BE HER AND I DONT HINK THAT IS RIGHT,YOU SEE MICHELLE DOSENT LIVE VERY FAR FROM ME,AND KNOW DOUBT SHE WILL PHONE ME AGAIN AND I WILL TELL HER WHAT IS GOING ON,IVE ALREADY GAVE HER 2 PEOPLES RESEARCH NUMBERS ON HERE WHO HAVE SENT THAT IMPOSTER MESSAGES ,THATS ALL IM GOING 2 SAY.


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