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Or, is "the friendship" that you and he have, is this, kind of, important to him too?
Changes variables, opening and shutting of doors, on how to read into THat, a bit _, now-doesn't it? Long term omensa and signs, as opposed to short-term ones... sorta.
Important not to rush things.
Hmm...

Well...
*Taps his foot (only somewhat impatiently)*
Thinks: Is she gonna thank me for trying to analyze it, for her_ or not?

Whoa. Sorry I didn't respond sooner...

Heh. This friendship between me and this guy... well.. yeah I suppose it's important to him. As far as keeping it "just friends" with him, well that seems to be the best idea. I really don't want to ruin anything between us because he's a good guy and I like having him as a friend.

But enough about that... I'm really I got into all my personal problems and aired my dirty laundry all over this thread... Heh.. other subscribers will be utterly confused by the massive amounts of posts.

It's .
I just got rejected by "my dear friend" today.
Turned out that beneath that veneer,_ & those dark, understanding looking eyes, she was just as much a flagrant social climber as the rest. The very fact that associating with someone, like me, who-is-pretty much a loner (though not necessarily by choice, mind you!), seemed to make her practically writhe. She's afraid that liking me back would draw away, her other friends, even though the two who showed up, started to kind of disagree.

It_hurt.
, *Thusly Thorn tries his best,_ not to lose complete faith in that of humanity* /
She's-afraid of me-now.
/

Somehow, I just can't manage to get enough of the hang of, pretending to be a slimeball, down okay enough, to be able to attract women.



Supposing the trick to it, is to behave as though you do not give a d@*n about them, hardly at all, if the objective is to get others to start crawling all o'er ye? I-just wanted, was a date. Someone to take to have or dance with, maybe. , it's always the same. The jerklike guys, seem to wind up, "scoring" easier/more often.

Jes, you wouldn't happen to be, somewhat of a non-self imposed loner now, yerself, too? Tip: Watch out for social climbers, they're like vipers, when they perceive themselves as being "cornered."
, but-she'd seemed so nice, and we were already friends for 3-4 years first, too. }Sigh!{

Awww!! That's horrible!!

Yeah.. I'm not a social climber... I hate them! >.<

Ugh.. I'm so sorry she did that to you.. *s*

But I am a bit of a social outcast.. Grr.. you should really get some sort of IM so I can talk to you easier.. This whole posting on threads thing is a bit rough. >.<

I've one last ditch trick to pull off, for a riany day.
"Not popular enough" was why. Thought she might lose her other friends through associating w/me?
Don't worry. The rest of the , it-really does not give a G*dd@*n about what it is, that two regular everyday & otherwise average individuals, that are young people (to boot!) might have to say!


Y'kn ow she said "I was kinda scaring her... bet'cha if I basically practically ignore her on Wednesday, don't try to be affectionate or kind or anything, or even talk, except when absoluting otherwise highly unlikely (ex: "Please pass the..."), maybe she'll get the point. I know.
It sounds mean.
Then, I'll arrange something with other people, maybe, so that it'll appear to her, that I do have a ton of friends? I don't have alot, but I do know quite a few people, in the city where I live, both suburbs, and the schools and the Uni, and even stores and ,blah-blahbla...
She told me to stop e-mailing her about stuff outside of school-work stuff though. Whatta 180-degree turn, sheesh!

She tried, talking me into using an IM too, back when she sorta liked me. Insteada now, that-she's assumed me to be some sorta loser, just for not being afraid to be honest, and admit, that hey,_ I'm not "perfect" and have some problems/am having some, thank you-very much. , wtf?!

Sheesh!!!

That sheila sounds like a piece of work!!!

*s again*

It's the exact opposite of last week.
She was inviting me to go and meet her at places_ and now she's upset that I'm asking her to go with me places, to go see stuff.

*Just how many flaming hoops, does a guy (or girl) have to go through, to be able to make the same point, that they've made in the first place, already? & why do people keep finding themselves falling all over selfish & oblivious jerks??* <- perhaps this is what makes the world go 'round?

I think, she'd like me to flake out_ on her, and that's why she turned shrew. Except, I'm not gonna buy it, by trying to act like I'm already o'er it, first??
Why's she keep going back & forth_ like that? It made me late for class... That's not nice_ anymore.

I think, she must be having some sorta other problem_ at work, elstwise, why the 180?

She-did seem to sorta like me; perhaps it was on my appearing to have also, have figured it out?!
, That's kinda /freaky.


...

Awww. I'm sorry she's such a piece..

That's really odd for her to do that... I'm sorry!

It's
'cuz I bet'cha, somethings up, maybe she does want me, to act as though I don't like her (anymore),- the question (the probably unanswerable question), is why.


*Skulking about*

She got all on me...
It got baqd, when- I'd tried apologizing for "perhaps not being a better friend," in that somehow allowed me to wind up "liking her a little too." Then she getws upset, tells me that I need to have better friends, and then_ while I'm in the midst of arguing that no, & yes- she is , she gets upset that I'm liking her, bnut that () "No, I'm not mad at you. Sort of." , wtf?!
*I'm laughing, & then crying_ in turns*

Aww!! I'm sorry!!

Right. Then there's the whole "& you know what, quit saying that" aspect to her. No longer seeing it as friendly. I thinks it's gotta be some sort of defensive backlash, due to intamacyphobia or something. Perhaps I was sitting a bit too close, to be draping my arm over the cubicle. Why then, did she flirt a bit, and poke my hand, while laughing a little and saying that,_ then?!

*Way to make a guy like Thorn, Uber_confused*

<- Before our "argument" then, that is.

I think that the reason she'd got mad, was that_ we'd been running into eachother so often, that we'd run out of other things to talk about, other than eachother. and,_ That this was pushing things just a little too fast, out_of_boredom?

Told me I watched to much drama (for worrying what she thought
). Um, what-ever. Maybe if I leave her alone for awhile, she'll come back (maybe)?