A Conversation for Tomorrow is too long

being bereaved

Post 1

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I cried. I still cry, and it's been nearly ten tears. For a man, that's probably unusual.

Loss is harder to bear than anything I know of, and I've borne a lot.

Halfway down the stairs......


being bereaved

Post 2

Boots

I am so sorry and, yes it is hard, and lonely, and alone, but I have thirty years of wonderful memories and he is free so always with me. There is a book by Paul somebody or other...American I think....called 'In my soul I am free'. He always wanted a copy but we could never track it down. I have a quest now and a huge pile of books 'You'll really like this one' to wade through. I am now truly a hitch hiker. He will hold my hand and take care of me on my journey...he always did and bad habits are hard to break. Try and enjoy your journey. Cry together and laugh together...she wouldn't want you to be sad.
take care
boots (having a bit of a wail but that's cool!)
PS half way down the stairs?


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Post 3

Normal

Thanks for the words.

Halfway down? A.A. Milne said many a wise thing, largely via his friends Pooh and Eeyore, of course. This one was a poem read by Christopher Robin.

Take care

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Post 4

Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

smiley - rose


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Post 5

Boots

Haven't read Pooh for while...will add it to the pile.
take care
boots


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Post 6

Boots

Whoops. Thanks Vicky. look after that man and take care on the bike!
boots


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Post 7

Vicki Virago - Proud Mother

smiley - smiley


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Post 8

abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

Hi hound .
I was going to visit you then I saw your news a while back, about the death of your husband. I had been enjoying your work in the postsmiley - biggrinand wanted to tell you so.

Nice to see you back here. smiley - rose I hope h2g2 can help you through your difficult transition.
smiley - peacedove
smiley - disco


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Post 9

Boots

You all do so much. RL friends do too but this site is my night salvation. Thank you.
take care
boots


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Post 10

abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

Just a smiley - hug cause it's 3 days latersmiley - smiley
I see you were talking about the old stars somewhere I ran across. I love the old movies. The costumes and sets. The ballrooms and big band music.

Some Like it Hot" is really wonderful. The Jimmy Stewart one with the Harvey! smiley - laugh
smiley - disco


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Post 11

Boots

Hi Abbi thanks for hug. Up and down week but many good friends. Off to find an old movie for one of them who has birthday tomorrow. Some like it hot eh?..great!
'Witness for the prosecution' also Ace, as 'On the waterfront' 'Our man Reuter' (my favourite Edward G Robinson classic)...oh dear this golden oldie could ramble for hours! Must go and do a bit of day job before I sneak off for retail therapy.
take care
boots


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Post 12

abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

smiley - rosesmiley - smiley Shop till you Drop!
smiley - disco


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Post 13

abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

Poping up againsmiley - smiley
smiley - teaor smiley - coffee?
smiley - disco


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Post 14

Boots

Mmmm? tea sounds good. Many thanks. Urgh!!!! Screams loudly. 'oh good' I hear, the anger button has been triggered...patiant moves on apace.)Paperwork weekend...pretty grim. No time to write even...maybe this evening. It would be nice. Thanks Abbi
take care
boots


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Post 15

abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

*leaves treats suitable for munching around paperwork. Changes the music to suit doing paperwork..... tiptoes out*
smiley - disco


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Post 16

Boots

Hehe wise move.
take care
boots (trashing the office)


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Post 17

abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

*Cleans office while she is out,but does not touch the desk*
smiley - smileyleaves some smiley - choc
I mean stawberries and cream!smiley - laugh
smiley - disco


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Post 18

Boots

Office looks delightful! many thanks. Strawbeeryscream worked a treat and the strawberries and cream were the perfect compilment/complement?!
Have cleared the desk for this week and made a couple of decisions. Where I should keep the cat food in future seemed most important, ditto the tea towels. However amidst this confusion of mental acrobatics decided that education was a good starting point and am enrolling at Uni for september. keeping the day job but filling the winter nights. Probably too old to be returning to the classroom and I shall have to give up smoking...students so can't afford to smoke, however it has to beat the interminable social whirl that beckons with almost as much allure as a visit to the dentist.
take care
boots (who thinks that might be some kind of rubicon crossing!)


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Post 19

abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

smiley - wow Great goals!
Good Luck to you smiley - cheers
smiley - peacedove
smiley - disco


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Post 20

abbi normal "Putting on the Ritz" with Dr Frankenstein

Although I know it's (grief) far from overbut I will start a new thread so you do not have to continue this title unless you want to. I'll just say hello for nowsmiley - smiley
smiley - disco


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