Riyadh, Saudi Arabia
Created | Updated Jan 28, 2002
You must be aware that Islam, or to be more precise the Saudi's interpretation of it, is THE fundamental fact of life in Saudi Arabia. This leads to what is, for visitors from the secular West, a fascinatingly alien environment. You have to remember that present-day Saudi Arabia contains the two holiest sites in Islam; Mecca and Medina, and the stated raison d'etre of the country is to ensure that these sites are protected against what would be considered to be misuse and made available to any of the world's Moslems who would want to worship there. The official title of the Saudi King is indeed 'Custodian of the Two Mosques'. What makes Saudi society so unique is the way that the duty of protection is applied to restrict what are perceived as immoral or irreligious activites in the area around the two holy mosques, i.e. in the whole country.
Here are what are to me the most important Do's and Don'ts for first-time visitors to Saudi:-
When arriving at the airport, DO be prepared for a long wait. In the Arrivals Hall you will see several different queues of people waiting to pass through immigration. DON'T join any queue which appears to consist mainly of Asian (mainly from the Indian subcontinent or the Philippines) 'guest-workers', even if it the shortest - the Saudis make a point of keeping these unfortunate people waiting for hours on end. Unfortunately, you have to put aside your anti-racist principles and join the queue which appears to have the highest proportion of Westerners. With any luck, you should then be able to get through immigration in an hour or two (if your visa is in order, of course.)
DON'T bring any magazines featuring pictures of partially clothed women into the country. (Porn magazines, obviously, but also magazines about golf, boats, gardening, motor racing, DIY, etc, etc have been confiscated.) Your luggage will be searched on arrival. In fact it's best not to bring any sort of glossy magazine into the country.
THE SAME goes for videos, with the exception that you'll be delayed for even longer as the customs man will insist on watching it. (There is a story, perhaps apocrythal, of a traveller who brought in a video recording of a football match. He, and everyone else, had to wait for two hours as all the customs men went off to watch the game.)
DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT bringing drugs into the country. Saudi Arabia has the death penalty for drug smuggling and, like I said, your luggage will be searched.
THE SAME goes for alcohol - including miniatures collected from stewardess on the 'plane - except that you won't be executed for it. You will get to spend a day or two in jail, however.
DON'T drive if you can possibly avoid it. Taxis are everywhere and very affordable.
If you must drive remember that the traffic in Riyadh is very dangerous - look at the number of wrecks, both at the side of the road and being driven around, and remember that fatality rates here are appallingly high. In an effort to reduce these, the standard penalty for almost any traffic infringement is now a few days in jail. Remember that most of the road signs are in Arabic (although some of the motorways have signs in our alphabet) and that, even if you can read Arabic, the generally secretive Saudi culture means that most roads you might want to find are not signposted. A lot don't even have names. Remember also that the Islamic justice system means that if you injure somebody in an accident, even if it's not your fault, you are expected to compensate him. Do you still want to drive?
DON'T openly display a cross, a Bible, or anything which could be interpreted as Christian proselytising. (A few years ago, the Saudi authorities even tried to prevent Swissair from landing at Riyadh Airport, because of the large Swiss cross painted on the tail of their aircraft.)
DON'T make any disparaging remarks about Islam, even if you think no-one is listening. In fact, it's best not to mention religion at all.
DO go shopping. (In fact, given the fact that there are no theatres or cinemas in the country, shopping is about the only leisure activity all Saudis have in common.) Most Riyadh shoppers tend to gravitate to the swanky 'Al Akarea' shopping centre, which is worth a visit for its spectacular achitecture alone. Be aware that prices here, though cheap by Western standards, are higher than in the rest of Riyadh.
Once away from the Al Akarea, you will find that there are some great bargains to be had. In particular, look out for Gold, computer software, watches and (if you can find a way to get it home) cars. You will be expected to haggle.
DON'T mess with the women. The all-over black veil which Saudi women are obliged to wear makes for some bizarre sights - particularly if the woman in question wears glasses and puts them on OUTSIDE the veil. Under the chadour, I'm told that many of the women are extremely trendily dressed - one of the sights that always tickles me is to see a gleaming white pair of trainers peeping out from what appears to be a big black bag. But seriously, Saudi culture takes a dim view of any women having any sort of contact with men outside of their immediate family. Don't talk to any woman you might bump into in the street, don't stare at them, in fact it's best simply to act like you haven't seen them.
The tragedy of the situation is that many of the women in Saudi now are actually better educated than the men, but have great difficulty finding a way in which they can apply what they've learnt. Some, seeing Westerners, will want to practice their English. If a woman says anything to you, it's best not to respond. The veil means that people can't see her lips moving, but they can see yours.
DO go out into the desert. The desert around Riyadh is rocky, not sandy, and unfortunately has been used as an unofficial rubbish dump for the past thirty years. But if you can get away from the abandoned cars, the oil cans, the broken bottles, the old fridges, etc, the scenary is truly spectacular. If you can, find somebody to go camping with, and spend the night out there. The stars will blow your mind. You should remember, however, that driving in the desert at night is a very bad idea, and also that, at nights, it can get cold in the desert very quickly.
Tbe best way into the desert from Riyadh is along the Mecca road. About 20 km out of town you will come to the escarpment. This will also blow your mind.
When driving out of Riyadh, DO remember to take your passport. There are police road blocks just out of town, with the aim of stopping 'undesirables' (mainly guest workers without a valid prmit who are trying to stay on in the country illegally) from entering the city.
DO go and visit Old Riyadh, about10 km outside the city centre. It's a fascinating city (now uninhabited) built entirely out of dried mud. It looks like the biggest termite colony in the world.
DO remember that the working week in the Islamic world is from Saturday to Wednesday. Their Weekend is Thursday and Friday.
DO go to visit the old fort right in the centre of Riyadh. Besides being an impressive building its own right, it also contains a very good museum explaining the history of the Saudi state. The market stalls in the same area as the fort are fascinating, but not for the faint-hearted. The vendors there are certainly more 'in your face' than the westernised shop assistants in the Al Akarea
Unfortunately, Saudi Arabia is one of the few countries in the world which still thinks it necessary to have capital punishment. To this end, there are frequent public executions in the square in front of the main mosque in Riyadh, usually on a Friday. DON'T go to have a look. I don't care how much you like to watch horror films, or how 'cool' you think death is; these executions are, quite simply, horrible. Also, the locals don't like to see Westerners there.
DON'T go walking around in skimpy clothes (even if you're a man.) Islamic society is very prudish, by European standards, and Saudis will be offended by the sight of men wearing shorts, vests, etc. If you want to go jogging, wear track suit bottoms (or whatever they're called these days) and a T-shirt. IF you walk around not wearing much during the day, the sun will burn you to a crisp anyway.
Despite the above, football is the only mass activity (other than shopping) that people in Riyadh can enjoy. Football matches in Saudi can be quite violent affairs both on and off the pitch, as they're one of the few occasions where Saudi men can really let their hair down. Their ability to 'put the boot in', in the time-honoured English hooligan fashion, is however handicapped by the fact that they're all wearing long flowing robes and sandals. If you get a chance, DO go to a game.
As you will surely know, Saudi Arabia is completely dry. There is however a thriving home-brew culture amongst several of the long-term expat residents. If you are offered any home-brew, my advice would be NOT to drink it, especially if you want to travel somewhere else afterwards. The Saudi police have apparently started breath tests for people involved in road accidents,(even passengers) and, as I said before, road accidents are quite common in Riyadh. Also, the quality of a lot of this home-made stuff is not too good. If you do have a drink, DO be discrete (i.e. don't go staggering across the street singing rugby songs) and DO NOT atttempt to give any booze to a Moslem.
If you are a woman, you should know that Saudi society means that it is very difficult for a woman to move about on her own. CHECK to see which taxi companies are permitted to carry unaccompanied women and USE THEM. Be aware that if a woman is found in a car with a man who isn't her husband, a close relative or a designated chaffeur she will be liable, under Islamic law, to be accused of either adultery (if she is married) or prostitution (if she isn't.)
The rules on dress for Christian women in Saudi are considerably more relaxed than for Saudi nationals, although you WILL be expected to wear a long black robe to cover yourself from the neck down. You can borrow these robes from the hotel where you're staying. These days it's OK to leave your hair uncovered, although if it's blonde, or extremely long, I would recommend you cover it anyway. Many Saudi men consider blonde hair to be the last word in exotic sexual temptation.
I hope all this lot isn't too intimidating, and helpful if you ever have to visit Saudi, or Riyadh in particular. Despite all the 'DON'Ts' I have to say that a visit to Saudi can be a fascinating experience. If nothing else, you will come back questioning the basic ground rules of our own liberal, secular, Western civilisation. In truth, if you are a white male you will be pretty much left on your own in Saudi and, unless you do something extremely stupid (see some of the 'DON'Ts' above) no-one will hassle you. (They're too busy hassling the 'guest workers.') If you are a white woman, you should seriously think twice about visiting Saudi unless you are married to someone already in Saudi, because of the difficulty in travelling I've already mentioned. (And if you are there with your partner, make sure you have a valid marriage certificate.)