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my longest was with having Josh.. he had to have iv antibiotics cos id had an infection theyd failed to pick up.

Ahh so you do have kids then..they grown up n left?


Is cin 3 the highest? i dont remember the number for mine.. (the result was nearly 2 years ago) but i know it was the higest level of cell changes before stage 0 cancer ..is scary isnt it

CIN III is hightest, just before full cerv cancer

got 2 kids.. Tyler 13 and Dona 10, they both live with their father in Adelaide ( about 3200kms away) not seen them for 4 years now, but have a fair bit of telelphone and net communication

I gave them up to him about 7 years ago now, I cracked up ( literally) and couldn't cope with em, I'm not really maternal and Tyler was on a campaign to get back with his dad when we split, I was lucky, as much as a dead beat their dad was (still is), he always was a good mum , his current mrs is a great mum to my two along with her two ( a real brady bunch), her and I is good friends too, much to the ex's disgust

Im sure they'll grow up to appreciate your decision
I think we have it drumed into us that women are maternal and if youre not cut out for it youre some sort of failure n thats just not true.
Men can make great mums! My little bro is as maternal as hell..prolly more than half my girlfriends put together

I've always told the kids why they live with their dad and Ty remembers when I threw him 4 feet across a room into a solid brick wall , I would rather them happy, than hating me and bein messed up adults, like I said I was lucky, don't know what would have happened, if ex wasn't there tyo take em

some people react strangely when I tell em. Also had me tubes tied when I give em up, didn't want to go through that again, had really bad post natal depression, was undiagosed for a long time which probly didn't help

took me about 3 years to get back to meself and then I met Gray me hubby

It sounds to me like you just did the right thing..n what any 'good mother' would do..the best for her kids ..take no notice of any negatives you get

Now that's a lot of sugar

Which reminds me, I forgot to buy any . Now what am I going to put on my porridge?


Anyway, great to see you back Helly