h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

I drifted past the "What do you men look for in a woman then" page and saw that people tend to value most in others, what they most value in themselves. I had thought that the great flame wars of the internet had ended in the early 90's: apparently not.

For me, a woman who is attractive is one who is loved, who knows she is loved and lets that knowledge express itself in her words, thoughts and actions - through her very being. It doesn't matter is she is rollypolly, tall, dumb or intelligent, because she will be good fun.

Mind you if I were looking for a long term intimate relationship with a woman, it wouid be essential to be able to talk about something other than the most recent footy game in which their favourite team played.

Women, perhaps more so than men, act as prisms for their emotional environment. A glimering of love can shine in a way which can be quite startling and very attractive. Similarly, a woman who disguises, rejects or simply does not allow love to show itself can appear closed, arragant and aggressively unpleasant.

What a lovely way to look at it, although I would argue that that can be true for both sexes (men can hide it a little better under bravado though, which is why bravado isn't something that I value).

A prism for an emotional environment. I must radiate a whole spectrum of loves!