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Invalidation...

Post 1

Martin Harper

I was speaking to my sister about stuff, and she mentioned something she remembered when she was 2 1/2, and I said that there aren't any real memories from before 3 (4 in some people) cause of infantile amnesia, and she got somewhat defensive about it...

I didn't realise why until much later - by mentioning this, I'd invalidated something she believed in - part of her self-image. I, of all peoples, should have been able to recognise that. *sigh*

So I'm still no empath. What else is new?
-Martin


Invalidation...

Post 2

pikachurinpoche

She can have a two year old memory flash. Especially related to an achievement. It is much rarer before 3 but not impossible.

Revalidate any of her insecurities and become an empath that counts. Be an empath for God. I'm very serious. You've been around long enough to have an opinion. If you were God, how would you feel?

How would you feel about a supernova? Do you feel that explosion? Do you feel Earth? Do you feel every human? Are we hurting you?

How can we help you? Do you need anything?

My father laughed at me when I said we are God's immune system. He doesn't believe God 'needs' man.

I however, look at the splendid workmanship on the brain and the thumb. I notice that we are the 'little tiny smart things' with hands and eyes capable of doing jobs for God.

So, could you empath the Big Guy for awhile and tell me what's up? I love fresh insites and opinions.

Still, Pika


Invalidation...

Post 3

Martin Harper

Like I say - I'm no empath. I can barely 'path other humans, let alone figure out what the universe might want... smiley - bigeyes

'sides, I don't believe in God.
-Martin (atheist)


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