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*floating in, in her usual vague elf-like manner*

I saw your message - is it OK if I add you to my friends?

Most welcome, Titania

Of course you can add me as friend, if you like! . I will too. You, I mean, as a friend. *shakes head to clear thoughts*

I would like to add you as my friend, and you are welcome to add me to your list.

Not much better, but will have to do...

QN

In case you feel like chatting, Korallhavet has an IRC channel at
130.243.87.40

Then join channel 'Korallhavet'

I'm on there as Titania

It's possible to have 1-1 chats

Ah sorry - the channel name should have been #Korallhavet

I know nothing of irc... is there a beginners guide?

I've recently joined www.borderline.nu

Many things in the definition of borderline coincide with x's behaviour. But the people there don't seem to think so.

QN

IRC is available with Trillian, but don't ask me how to set it up - I've long forgotten...

So are the people at the borderline site those who have borderline behaviour, or friends and relatives of those who have?

Both people having BPD and "anhöriga" (family, friends, lovers) and "vårdpersonal" (staff at hospitals, psych institutes etc.)

I'll direct them to my journal here and see if it makes sense to them.

Or not. I can't make up my mind.

In one way, a diagnosis of him would make things easier - because it's less of a guilt on me, I'm not the mad one (I know I shouldn't call him mad, it's not PC, but I still feel something's not right).
But on the other hand, it's not going to change him.

Oh, and I'm not on Trillian at w*rk - not allowed to...

I'm probably not allowed to be here at work even. But it's bbc, how can they stop it... Unless they decide to watch my account...