h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Nick has started again with the barbed remarks. Its always to do with attacking my intelligence, cultural interests or art.

He had stopped which was a relief.

I came back at him on the 2 types thread.

But I don't want to get sucked in.

But I'm utterly sick of it.

Just so you know.

He won't be happy until he's got me seething. Why are such endlessly destructive people tolerated here?

And its always barbed snidery.

Sweetheart, you need to yikes, and follow through if the Mods don't uphold your complaint. Just follow the links in their replies.

The Eds cannot do anything if you don't give them something to build a case on your behalf.

lil x


Yes, Nick! We know you are reading the <./>Info</.> page

And its always women he goes after.

Its too subtle to yikes.

Anyway just so you know.

I'll be going offline now though.

In hootoo, yes...

... In other wires, that is not always the case.

Subtle as a bloody brick!

Others can see it for what it is, as will the Eds.

Yikes if you want something done about it.


Have a break, and think on what you want to do, hunny


lil x

hey thanks I'm glad you see it. Because its always connected to things most precious in my life.

If Taff was around he'd be looking out for me.

I'm trying hard to really face things about my own bad behaviour. I will do my utmost to do that.

Its just I'm not really a yikeser.. and the first time I did that in 3 years annoyed kea..but of course I see that was a mistake now. But I'm scared he will try to destroy any slim chances of vague reconciliation between her and me at some point. He already posted about her on my ps which lanza yikesed in the past.

I really am psychologically vulnerable at present..and he will sense that.

And I'm not emailing you about it..stuff like this should be in the open. He tries to undermine me in the open after all.

But its a relief to talk to you. Thanks.

I'll go off line again now and back to the garden.

Next time absolutely I will yikes. But its hard psychologically to start thinking of yikesing..but I shall...but it'll be very depressing if his obvious debilitating snideness gets re-instated. That will wind me up even more.

Its because he goes for the stuff that is most precious to me.

But its good to start talking to you. Its a bit like dealing with a pressure cooker of myself...cos I know you are an important and well respected member of this community.

It's because I know how depressing all this prodding and goading makes anybody feel that I'm advising you to take control of the situation and yikes.

Even after the noohootoo takes over, if it hasn't been sorted by then, you can still yikes.


lil x

Yes i shall yikes. It had stopped..but it started again today..and there is no doubt in my mind that its a calculated attempt to undermine someone..that someone always being a woman.

There was a woman who used to be here who said she got a load of email sht from him..but asked me not to say.

Everyone knows what he's like...but if you're a woman on the receiving end and you're already feeling stressed and worried what he might do next destructively its not nice.

Some of us try to face up to our behaviour and want to change..even if we fail sometimes...others are serial abusers...you see it in real life all the time.

There is only so much ignoring I can manage..so yes I'll yikes.

Emails are a different problem, because of them occurring offline.

You have it easier here because it is all there to be seen


lil x

Yeah everything will be open to do with him. I am so sick of it.

Try to keep calm. You have been doing brilliantly under so much pressure from him

There is nothing to stop you looking at older stuff to build up your case.

lil x

I simply can't face raking over the past.

But talking to you has really helped.

Thank you so much



I'm hugely calm

No really I feel loads better for talking to you.

And in future I might burden you with other problems You can always burden me as well with yours as well.

You can always offload here, love


lil x