h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

i'm sorry
i know how much she meant to you and just how happy you were. the messages you typed in this conversation left no doubt as to how you felt.
then to loose your property on top of it all just makes things that much sadder
i wish i could say something to make you feel better but i know that only time will help.

Monsy

Thanks Monsy. It really means a lot to see people are dropping by.

Drug habbits are the bane of human exsistance. And it was methamphetimine that was the culprit in the loss of my relationship. That and a lack of honesty.

sorry for the 3 day delay in my response but we had a rather full holiday weekend over here. my son was over and with everything else going on time just seemed to slip by.
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i do hope that eventually she learns to live without the drugs...the experience i've had with people and drugs has taught me that it is a hard thing to recover from. some people are stronger than others. i mean marijke did really good at stopping and not starting again but a girl i work with has a husband that seems to fall off the wagon every month. i feel sorry for people with drug problems because they can't see how they are destroying their lives and what they loose by choosing the drugs .
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how are you doing this week? i know it is a hard blow for you but just remember that you do have friends
Monsy

During the day I am fine. I have trouble at night when i am alone. My friends have done a good job of keeping me occupied, but I am still very hurt. I feel nothing but betrayal and I am not used to being betrayed. Time alone will tell how I handle it.

I hope she cleans up, but even if she does I can never go back to her. This was just too much. She was lying for the entire course of the relationship. And I cannot think that things can change.

Thanks again Monsy.

i am glad that you have friends there trying to help you get through this. just don't let what has happened tarnish you when it comes to your next relationship. right now my stepson is spending so much time on what happened with his last relationship that his current one is suffering. everytime the poor girl goes somewhere without him or is 5 minutes late getting back he is all over her about things he has stirred up in his mind that she has been doing because that is what the last person did. i am hoping in time he gets out of this phase, if not he might find himself loosing someone that, from what i can see, is the best thing that ever happened to him.
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on another note, tell me about your memorial day weekend? lots of grillling?
Monsy

Alas no grilling this weekend. Saturday I hung out with Gw7en and some other friends. G and I went to a scifi convention that was being held downtown. Sunday was a total wash, just sat at home for the most part. Yesterday I went to another friends house and we played computer games all day. Not a lot done, but it was restfull.

i took a personal day from work monday so i could spend time with the family (yes, they actually wanted us to work monday ).
the weekend was quite busy and i'm not sure what all went on...not due to drinking or anything just one of those weekends. we grilled out yesterday...ribs and such. it was a nice 3 day weekend at home. it is strange though because i have to keep reminding myself it isn't monday. not bad right now but come tomorrow when i am supposed to upload payroll it could be a problem. here i will be thinking it is tuesday when it is really weds
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speaking of scifi...mark, keith and i wanted to go see the new star wars but things did not go our way this weekend. did you get a chance to see it yet? is it good? hard to tell over here, everyone i work with are anti-scifi freaks
Monsy

Remember, my friend, I have been in a similar situation (relationship-wise) recently. I know what you are going through. You have a shoulder to lean on here (though I guess doubling over wouldn't be very helpful, would it?).

Monsy, SW II was good, I have seen it twice, better than episode 1.

Z, call me... Liz has burned this bridge for the last time. Gotta talk to someone who knows the whole story.

Will do my friend, sorry about what happened. Anything I can do, let me know.