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Post 81

aka Bel - A87832164

I've just had a look at that thread and now I've forgotten what I meant to say.


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Post 82

fluffykerfuffle

smiley - space
OP I so wish I wasn't so sensible at times. But I usually am. So I won't ask on Ask what you think the review forums here are for. Are they exclusive? Should only those comment who have intimate knowledge of the subject? I think not. I understood that everybody is welcome to comment as long as they are nice. Am I wrong?

so, unless i have lost my mind, it did not start out being about why people who do not want criticism submit something to a review forum.

and actually, i am glad you brought up the OP
it made me realise something
you have been here a long time bel
and written alot of stuff
amazingly prolific
and experienced

experienced in peer review i bet
and what its like to have someone come in, first posting of the review,
to say that something you did wrote grated on them...

grated

i see around here on h2g2 how most folks use the word 'grated'
it means they have been offended, annoyed, that the thing hurts

you could have said the reiteration just didnt sit right with you
but what do you know, youre not too experienced with poetry stuff
you could have been gentler

others know what i mean


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Post 83

fluffykerfuffle

which thread, bel? this http://h2g2.com/dna/h2g2/brunel/F74130?thread=8286619 one? or this one?


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Post 84

aka Bel - A87832164

Well, if you are quoting me, do it at least correctly. I said it grated a bit. You know what a bit is, don't you? smiley - smiley


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Post 85

Fizzymouse- no place like home



Oh come on, to say something grates a bit is no big deal.

I find people who post without capitals grating on my eyes but it's not that big a deal that I won't try to read what they've written.

I really do think you're stirring a virtual pot here, yanking a chain or taking the pi$$.

You are fully aware that English is not Bel's first language but surprisingly that isn't an issue in this case because the word she chose wasn't harsh. She said what she said in a very polite way and in a nicer way than many would have said it. It 'grates a bit' on Bel, many others have said it doesn't grate on them. What's the problem?


smiley - mouse



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Post 86

fluffykerfuffle

smiley - space
the problem?
read my first post here
the one you replied to with your first poem
(btw the second one was nice too)

the problem is this thread
that started
and slowly has built
through four pages
some sort of CASE against effers

read by many
acting on everyone's subconsciouses, at least
the influence to be acted on later
by others to her
with attitude or words
or, worse yet, this thread pointed to
or remarks made like "many think this"
as evidence of what trouble effers causes here
in a CASE building to get her banned

i saw it happen at least twice before
and dont say i wasnt here
i can read


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Post 87

fluffykerfuffle

smiley - space
oh and another thing
i am NOT fully aware that english is not Bel's first language
and it would behoove you
and the rest of hootoo
to realise that we do not all know everything about all a youse guys


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Post 88

aka Bel - A87832164

Nobody built a case against anybody.

And I think it is a misconstruction to say that others will get a person banned. There isn't anything at all YOU could do to get somebody banned bar yourself. Or that I could do or any of my friends. Nobody ever was or will be banned because others would like to see it. People have been banned because of THEIR OWN behaviour. They've broken the rules again and again and again and again. Then they got banned.
To imply that my journal and anybody in here are out to get somebody banned is WRONG! There is no CASE against anybody on site. people abide by the house rules, or they don't. It's up to them, not to anybody else.


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Post 89

Fizzymouse- no place like home



Oh I'll call your bluff there fluffykerfuffle.

There is no CASE being made against anybody. End of. Except maybe in your imagination.

Effers is more than capable of making her own case - as she did in the review thread, rather rudely in my opinion. Should that reflect on Bel? I don't think so.

You are here for one reason and one reason only. To cause trouble. That's it in a nutshell.

I'm calling you on it.

I'm not one of 'youse guys' and very much on the outer arm of this new hootoo universe but some things never change and your feelings about Bel probably won't ever change but there's no need for you to create hostility where none exists.

I'm glad you like my poetry - you are one of very few.smiley - winkeye


smiley - mouse


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Post 90

aka Bel - A87832164

Beat you to it, Fizzy. smiley - tongueout And I'm a great fan of your poems. They're witty and funny.


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Post 91

fluffykerfuffle

smiley - space
look, i did go over to Bel's PS and see she mentions being german
and i also noticed her huge friends list
now, you dont know me
so i will tell you i am not an idiot
who goes around creating hostility against popular people
that is suicidal
and i do realise i walked into a thread where there were few people who would welcome my opinion
but that old litany of me trying to start trouble
i would laugh if i wasnt crying so hard
thats part of the CASE against me

where i notice something
and point it out
and voice my opinion about it

nevermind the something is bad
bad bad bad
hurtful and destructive
what matters to alla youse
is that I brought it into the light
and darkness hates the light

unlike effers and lord wolfden and maybe some of those others
i am not losing it when you all gang up on me
(good example: anarchy thread)
the reason i am not losing it is because pretty early on
i realised how not worth it it is to react to attacks

so smiley - shrug i pointed out what i see going on here in this thread
and now its just fighting so i probably dont have anything else constructive to say


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Post 92

Fizzymouse- no place like home



Awww, thank you.smiley - smooch

Bel and Fluffy like my verse
Though others think it is a curse
But I'm a witch; it's what I do
Visit pomes on both of you
It's nice to see you pair agree
That pomes from me are nice to see
So we'll let the others hide their eyes
And I'll write pomes 'til the peace arrives.



smiley - mouse


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Post 93

Fizzymouse- no place like home



I suspect you had nothing constructive to say from the start, Fluffy.

I don't believe I've ever been part of any gang that ever did gang up on anybody on site (or off site) so you must have me mistaken for someone else. Easy to do there are a lot of mice about at this time of year.

Nothing bad happened, nothing dark, nothing sinister. A poem was submitted for review. It was reviewed (by a few people) one of the reviews caused the author to 'go off on one'. It's happened plenty of times and it'll probably happen plenty more times.

Now as I recall there is a conspiracy theory thread somewhere about, perhaps you meant to make that last post there?


smiley - mouse


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Post 94

fluffykerfuffle

smiley - space
(sits on hands)


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Post 95

Fizzymouse- no place like home



Fluffy sits upon her hands
The keyboard heaves a sigh
It wonders if the break will last
Or another thrashing's nigh

Sometimes a break is what we need
I've done it in the past
A bit of distance; things look sweet
And peace shall reign at last.


smiley - mouse


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Post 96

aka Bel - A87832164

>>and i do realise i walked into a thread where there were few people who would welcome my opinion
but that old litany of me trying to start trouble
i would laugh if i wasnt crying so hard
thats part of the CASE against me<<

I think I mentioned that you are entitled to your opinion even if I said it elsewhere). I specifically mentioned here that to me it is important to get the whole picture, which I cannot get if people thought they had to say what they think I'd want to hear.

I do not see anybody ganging up on you here or 'building' a CASE against you. smiley - huh

None of us sought you out. You came here - whatever motif you had I do not know. I do not care, either. Everybody was polite. Nobody attacked you.

>>nevermind the something is bad
bad bad bad
hurtful and destructive
what matters to alla youse
is that I brought it into the light
and darkness hates the light<<

We heard you. So far, nobody has agreed with you. Do you really think just because you repeat it people will agree?

I do not attend any anarchy thread. I unsubscribe from lots and lots of threads. Normally, I would have unsubscribed immediately after your first post to avoid conflict, but this happens to be MY journal.


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Post 97

Icy North

When Fizzymouse writes poetry
She asks not for critique
She simply shares what she prepares
For those who choose to seek

I really love her poetry
In fact it's quite unique
Her flowing style makes readers smile
While other mice just squeak smiley - mouse


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Post 98

aka Bel - A87832164

Come quick, Solnushka, and adore
The witty Poems here galore
By Fizzymouse and Icy North.
If you ask nicely they'll go forth
And spill them over to Create
I'm sure you'd find that great.

smiley - biggrin


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Post 99

Fizzymouse- no place like home



smiley - rofl

Did you mis-spell great?



smiley - rofl


smiley - mouse


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Post 100

Researcher 14993127


Ooh ooh, miss, miss, I know a rude limerick, can do that? Can I? Can I? smiley - boingsmiley - spacesmiley - boing


smiley - cat


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