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Effers;England. Started conversation Dec 3, 2007
The ongoing harassement is really getting to me.
Yes she does have me on her friends list. Though knowing her she'll read this and promptly remove me, and you'll think I'm maybe mad. And I do think she's been yikesing things to make it look like I'm doing it. Yesterday she left a pathetic message in the lovely thread I'd started with anhaga, and he then he felt he had to unsubscribe because of it. So that's over.
This woman is really screwing with my head, because I do have a degree of mental vulnerability to mind games. And after everything that happened with Dogster going after me, I'm generally feeling quite depressed about what to do.
I have started ignoring her, after I'd been accused of bullying her, but now she's making a fuss about that. Yes so what to do???
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azahar Posted Dec 3, 2007
What to do?
Just keep ignoring her.
Yeah, I've been on her friends list for ages. All of her favourite 'enemies' are there. It's just another way of annoying people, except I don't actually care one way or the other.
I had a look at your chat thread with anhaga. Frankly I would have just ignored her comment and gone on as if she hadn't posted anything, which is the tried and true method of dealing with trolls. Don't feed them, even by unsubbing from a thread, as this gives them delusions of self importance.
It's trollish behaviour to show up on a thread where you know you are not wanted and leave a comment. Plain and simple. I'll bet she's thrilled that anhaga appears to run from every thread she shows up on and that you get so upset. And yeah, of course she is reading this too. Difference is, I don't give a shit anymore and she knows it, so it's very unlikely she'd bother posting here.
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Because you let her. Why on earth does anything she says or does matter in the slightest? Look, I used to get upset by her too until I stopped. And yes, it was as easy as that. Just ignore her, walk away from her rude comments and pretend like she doesn't exist. You have to have noticed by now that her only 'power' is that which others give her, because she does have a gift for figuring out what will particularly annoy someone and/or get them het up.
So next time she shows up on your PS just yikes her comment and let the Eds deal with it.
az
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DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me! Posted Dec 4, 2007
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Yes, I am reading this, no I haven't yikesed anything! You've fallen victim to your own anger with me, if you think that...
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I am hurt that you have ignored my apology, it makes me feel a complete fool for making it.
VL
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DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me! Posted Dec 4, 2007
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Wow, azahar, you're going to split your sides at this, but the reason you've been on my friends list, is because I think of you as a friend despite everything. I know different now! And yes, you'll laugh even harder at this, but I am really hurt. That must really make you clutch your sides!
VL
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Omongkosong Posted Dec 4, 2007
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Does the fact that you are universally despised, held in utter contempt by anyone with any intelligence at all not suggest something to you, Della?
How about just going away...dropping off the face of the earth. It would be a less bleak and disgusting place without you. Just a suggestion.
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badger party tony party green party Posted Dec 4, 2007
Della currently you have SoRB on your friends list, is that because you think of him as a friend too?
az happens to be a very dear frriend of mine I tend to remember when someone is mean to her. Back when she was holding out the olive branch to you, you snatched it away and swiched her in the face with it because she dared to give an honest but less than glowing acount of some of you actions.
You both made it clear a long time ago that there was no friendship between you dont try to make it look like she is the one throwing you friendship back in your face.
Your lies are not only pathetic and predictable but what undermines you ever being regarded with anything approaching the respect you so clearly crave give them up stop trying to re-write the past. You have buggered it up, just move on. You are capable of redeeming yourself by doing better so why keep up the same old shit which has got you nowhere you want to be.
one love
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DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me! Posted Dec 4, 2007
Blicky, as usual, you're going off half-cocked.
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You don't know everything, Blicky. (It's tempting to say you don't know very much at all, but that wouldn't be helpful.) Things had changed, I thought. Azahar and I had had a few conversations, in what I thought was a friendly manner. So, yes, I am hurt, very hurt, and even more so that she has enlisted you and some anonymous berk, to defend her/ attack me...
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I've done nothing. You and that pathetic old man SorB, have done it all - including getting my sons banned. Do me a giant favour Blicky. Stay away from my space. Please, I beg you.
Vicky
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Effers;England. Posted Dec 4, 2007
Hi all, I'm worried that this is just going to lead to the usual scenario that she so clearly gets off on. I should not have been so lazy, and have emailed az. I'm unsubbing. If others want to continue it's your decision.
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badger party tony party green party Posted Dec 4, 2007
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when was that then? Before or after she set up the website attacking me?
Clearly it was *before* that.
"You don't know everything, Blicky. (It's tempting to say you don't know very much at all, but that wouldn't be helpful.)
Just like the famous homsexualist Wilde, you can resist everything except tempationThings had changed, I thought. Azahar and I had had a few conversations, in what I thought was a friendly manner. So, yes, I am hurt, very hurt, and even more so that she has enlisted you and some anonymous berk, to defend her/ attack me...
As it happens I have seen you having some firendly enough conversations with people that's why 18 moths ago I remarked on the improvement in your demeanour and behaviour. Doesnt mean you are instantly friends again with people who you pee'ed of big style previously.
SWL and I can be in the same threads without there being fireworks and even have jokey chats but it doenst make us chums all of a sudden.
Have you noticed that everytime i stick up for someone I like or even simply make a comment other people dont jump to the conclusion that someone else put me up to doing what ever Im doing.
Its just you who comes up with that conclusion. For the record no one has asked me to post here *its what I do*.
"I've done nothing. You and that pathetic old man SorB, have done it all - including getting my sons banned. Do me a giant favour Blicky. Stay away from my space. Please, I beg you.
Im part saint aprt satyr.
I often talk to you in the hope the you give your views and interact like most of the people do around here. I prefer to disagree with people to be honest, it makes things nmore interesting. I like a good argument. I prefer it when it doenst get nasty but I can deal with both.
With you Im always a winner I do try to get things going well but when you come out with rubbish like this I win aswell.
Please tell me how, with SoRBs unorchestrated help,I got your two sons banned.
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DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me! Posted Dec 4, 2007
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You know it. False accusations. 'Nuff said.
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badger party tony party green party Posted Dec 4, 2007
What false accusations?
That one of them duplicated my PS in some kind of bizzare attempt at identity theft or that one of them posted two death threats.
There is nothing false about those facts i cant think what you are talking about.
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azahar Posted Dec 4, 2007
You emailed me, Effers? At which address?
It wasn't a website, blicky, it was a satirical photo album started and created by six7s. You oughtta know this since you're in it.
So, whose sock puppet are you, Omongkosong?
az
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- 1: Effers;England. (Dec 3, 2007)
- 2: azahar (Dec 3, 2007)
- 3: DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me! (Dec 4, 2007)
- 4: DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me! (Dec 4, 2007)
- 5: Omongkosong (Dec 4, 2007)
- 6: badger party tony party green party (Dec 4, 2007)
- 7: DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me! (Dec 4, 2007)
- 8: Effers;England. (Dec 4, 2007)
- 9: badger party tony party green party (Dec 4, 2007)
- 10: DA ; Simply Vicky: Don't get pithy with me! (Dec 4, 2007)
- 11: badger party tony party green party (Dec 4, 2007)
- 12: azahar (Dec 4, 2007)
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