h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

My name's Sean.Am 34 from Shropshire.Thought i would post you a message to ask if you would care to chat sometime.If you do then please do post me back.Hope to hear from you soon.Best wishes,Sean.

hi there persistant aint ya!!! well go on then chat to me....but i warn ya now i aint good company...i've had my life pulled out from underneath me, if u can talk me out of ending it all then ur worth ur weight in gold...good luck!!!

You are not the only one that feels the way you do.As i feel the same way too at the moment!So there is nothing you can say that i am not feeling already myself!May i ask why you feel like you do??Or is that such a personal question to answer.Me,lost the best friend i had for eleven years!

Me too, i've lost my lover and best friend, now i feel so lost that i dont know where or how to start rebuilding my life, right now i dont know if i even want to. All the plans for the future all my happines, all my dreams GONE!!!! what happened to ur best friend?

Been there myself.Me and my fiancee broke up a month or so ago.Is hard when you lose someone you care about the most.My best friend was my beloved(strange as that may seem!)He was my life.He gave me a reason to do things.Now he is not here anymore,i am finding it hard to cope.I like you wonder if life is worth living.I have no-one in my life either.So i know how you feel believe me!

Its no comfort is it? My partner had an ex, mother to his kids. She was violent and had a drink problem, for the last couple of months she's been "playing up" using the kids as ammunition, well she played her Ace card, now he's gone back to live there, not as a couple, but to take the punishment instead of the kids.aid when he walked out was "I love u too bits" we agreed we wud allways stay in touch n be friends, but so far he's just been hostile towards me....and it hurts so much i want to die!!!

Been there myself too(so i know how that feels!)The mother of my son was like that.She threatened to have our child aborted if i did not stand by her.Thankfully,she did not do it(as i havea son of 13 now!)As hard as it gets,you must not give in to how you feel.I am trying so hard not to do it myself(although i see no point in living)But if you want help to get you through it,i am here for you.Should you need me to be

thanx, thats really sweet of you . Have you got ne other family? my parents are both dead, no brothers or sisters, i've got a daughter 25 and 2 grandchildren....and NO i'm not old..44 yrs my partner was 35 but we were so close and shared everything. I did'nt even see this comming, he was meant to b comming for the w/end and instead turned up with my things and collected his...we never argued in all the time we were together, it just does'nt make ne sense in my head, how u can love someone then just walk away!!!

Have five sisters and two brothers but we are not a close family.My mum is still alive.But on the whole i do feel so ALONE!It is hard when you are in love with someone.But maybe he did what he did because of his children!I don't know the answer to why he did what he did.I am only too sorry you feel the way that you do.May i ask what your name is please??Mine is Sean.

Oh i know he did it for his kids...the problem is she made a condidtion ( one of many) that i was out of the picture and he agreed to it!!! no one likes her, she does'nt have ne friends because of what she's like.. he's left the kids with no escape now,. His son was meant to b comming to live wiht us, i was all set to move to London and set up home. his mum and sister were gutted when they found out what happened...btw my names jennie and i live in essex, wheres shropshire?

Pleased to meet you Jennie!Shropshire is near Birmingham(Telford where i live is about an half an hour or so away by train from Birmingham)It is such a very hard situation to be in i can well imagine!But you must not give her the satisfaction of seeing how hurt you are(as people like her do not give a stuff about people's feelings)You have your own children to think about hun.And be strong for them if not for yourself

theres no way she can see how hurt i am, she's the other side of london, and i'm here!!! right now i cant think of being strong for ne one, least of all myself... i've lost so much, i promised myslef when i met hin, that if it did'nt work out i was'nt going to bother again, i never expected it to turn out like this and i never expected to feel like this, i was allways so strong, but he let me trust him, said he wud never hurt me, sed he wud always love me, we had our future all planned....now i have nothing to aim for, no goal to set my sights on... why the hell would i want to stay around for an empty life and a broken heart???

I was taught that good allways conquers over evil... well what a load of crap that is. I'm good and she's EVIL.. whos the loser eh??? not her

I have had my heart broken so many times,i have lost count hun,and i am still here.Yes,i still hurt,but never going to give anyone the satisfaction of them knowing how much i hurt.I wonder why i fall in love.Only to see my dreams and hopes shattered.Especially when you trust in someone,and they stab you in the back.

And that is how you have got to see it like Jennie.She is not worth the tears you have cried over him!.

I wish it was that simple... i've sobbed my heart out everyday for 2 weeks now, just when i think i'm going to have a day without tears something starts me off again. i've lost over half a stone in wieght and i was only 9 stone to start with, i cant sleep, i cant eat, i cant talk to ppl face on as i just lose it again, i cant even get angry!! if i got angry then maybe i could start getting over it

OH and heres summat really funny. I've been doing the lottery ever since it started, never won a bean. the day i get dumped i win £45 on the lottery....talk about kick a person when thier down!!!

It isn't easy by any means Jennie.I know as i have been where you are so many times.I get with someone,only to find that it has not worked out yet again.I did wonder if it was me.That was why i felt the way i did.But all i ever was was myself.And yes,it is bound to be hard.But you must be strong hun!Find it within you.I believe you can.But you will get there in the end i am sure

Quite ironic really isn't it Jennie??

maybe! do you beleive in divine retribution? well i do and i reckon i'm being paid back for soemthing i did. in which case i could be paying alot more yet
I keep doing my cards in the hope that it will give me some answers, but it has'nt helped and as i'm not religeous that wont help either.
i have to say ur a very patient sort, i've been going on for ages now and thats only the tip of the iceberg...had enough yet??