h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

hi citty,
nice to meet you here too.. texan huh..hows it going
sarla
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Here too?
*kinda confuzzled*

Do I know you from somewhere else?

(don't be offended I'm kinda stupid)

but yep, I'm Texan, mostly... I was born in Lakenheath, England, lived in Texas for 15 years, moved to arkansas for 1 year, then back to texas for what will be holidays and summer breaks for the next 4 years when I will be at uni in Arkansas simply because they gave me a full scholarship.

Hope you're having fun! and hope to hear a response soon.

-Kat

hi got your profile when you were online at one point in time..

me am english, working as a software programmer at a us company in scotland.. things are going well hre. have a special someone!!!.(what abt you)..

have you ever been to england?
sarla

Well I was born in england, does that count?

OOOhhh Scotland, what's it like their?, which US company?
and special someone, yes I do, a researcher on this site Crazy Man, this is one of the only ways I can keep in contact with him. He's a super sweetie and kinda a softie.
What's your sweetie like hon?

Bye for now,
Kat

nice..
so u havent dated him yet?
i am in ibm..
what ya do?
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I've dated him, sorta, but I moved and we kept up on this site and e mail, but so much of our relationship has been spent on the internet, now that I'm talking to him in real life, it's like he's a completely different person. I guess it'll be ok though.


kewl, ibm, I"m just a student, I'm a music education major at UCA, but it's fun.

hi,
didnt get your name,or if its on the page, didnt read it..
am a wee bit interested in your relationship , if you dont mind my being nosy..
since you dated him over the net, and now you are seeing him in real life, have the expectations matched?

i never dated online and find it interesting when people date online..

do tell
you got a chat id somewhere? on yahoo or msn?
sarla
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I've a chat ID on Aim and Yahoo:cittykat555 and an email box on yahoo, unfortunatly, I only get on when my son takes a nap between 12 and 3 pm.

Well the thing is, is I dated him in real life first, sorta, we weren't really that serious before we moved. We've talked (IM), I guess not seeing him took away all expectations and doubts. But for the last year I haven't so much as heard his voice. I've had outdated pictures and constant e mails. He just seems different now, everything about him, but it's like nothings changed. I guess It's because we have. I dunno, it's hard to explain. He's still sweet and all, he just seems different, I can't pin it.

BTW, my name is Kat.

hi Kat,
mine is sarla,
my yahoo id is sarlabates75 shall add you..

do you still have feelings for him?or you dont know wha you feel for him.. seeing anyone else..

i think i am as confused. live with someone for the last 6 months.. but am also attracted to someone else..
life is weird aint it..
will add you and we can chat online
love
sarla
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ooh, I hate those situations, I get into them a lot, you think you love someone, then boom, you think you also love someone else, and it is always so hard to choose. poor hon, I don't envy you.

I still have feelings for him of course, I know I love him. He just seems different, it's hard to imagine being with him forever, course that could just be my age. This wouldn't be so weird if I had know I loved him before I moved and not shortly afterwards. I'm not seeing anyone else, just hang out with a few diff guys, go to the movies (hey I'm a chic I deserve to be spoiled), but there's no spark like the one me and him share, no tingle you know. I dunno.

I'll try to be online more to try and catch you but that may not happen till I go back to school.


Kat

hi Kat,
i know what you mean..these guys you casually go out with?have a physical relationship with them?

how have you handled those occassions when you were going out with someone yet fell for another..

need some advice..

btw am intensely physical and earthy, so dont be alarmed if i talk downright abt sex, love, relationships etc...

love sarla

Nope no physical relationships, almost once, but all I can think about is my guy, and then I leave.

Two relationships, that's tricky. I don't handle them well, I can tell you that much. once I didn't have to decide, my family moved (that happens a lot), the other one, I was on the same level with both, when the one found I was pregnant by the other guy he made the choice to leave, course right after the one who got me pregnant left me for my best friend, then her best friend, this dude named ryan. Course I did make a decision, before i was rejected. I did it based on my religion (druid wiccanism, at the time celtic) and how well the lived through their lives. suprise suprise it was my baby's daddy, but oh well. when you do choose though, do it and don't look back, don't think about it for a second, you will change your mind several times if you do. Just pick and stick with it.

About being physical and earthy, I won't be alarmed just happy someone has come to terms with themself and talks openly of it like i do.

-Kat

so kat,
you must be wanting this new one to work..?new relationship i mean.
i might take a decision on one of the two sometime...but as of now enjoying too much if you know what i mean..

do tell hows yours
sarla
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yeah, I guess it's new, been going on for nearly two years. But I mostly want it to work out because I love him so much, It would break my heart to let him go, even for a little while...

I know what you mean to have fun like that. enjoy hon! Do they know about each other?


my relationship's going fine. we're soo close and so far apart. It's driving me crazy. Like I said, he's a researcher on here:Crazy Man. He's a super cutie and sooo sweet, a bit paranoid though, like he's afraid I'm going to leave him or something...I never would though. I just want to hug him and hold him so I would know everything is ok.
sorry I'm rambling again. I suppose I'll go for now.

-Kat

hi kat,
yeah i know what u mean..
so u become physical or not.. i think it wld be better if we chatted on email, since it wld be private?
mine is [email protected]

okey

hi,
hows it going.. when are you online usually?
love
sarla

usually in the window of 1-3pm when my son takes his nap, in the fall, as much as humanly possible.


-Kat

hi kat,
wheres you
sarla