h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

.....but now I need more.

Not to burst anybody's bubble of happiness. But I am going to two weddings this year and already my bf is upset at the fact that me and him aren't coupled up with a wedding and the happy ever after treatment. How can I save my relationship and how will we survive these weddings?

Hope you don't mind my little rant feel free to ignore if u wish

opti

hi hun tell him there is no need to rush into marriage we didnt get married till we were 25 my brother is on his third marriage so tell him your time will come there is no rush as long as you love each other ive even met ppl who have lived together for twenty odd yeasr not married and a few kids a lotta ppl say its only a bit of paper but tell him you love him but will marry when ready hope this helped ok hubn

Thankyou

read and understood

hope it helped

I'm certainly too young to settle down but when i do it'll hopefully be forever I can wait - Im sure my bf can wait too

im sure if you talk to him he will understand

yep communication is the key as they say

so have you tackled the issue yet with ur bf??

Well I have talked to him about everything but I wonder whether its a case of all talk and no action.

hmm maybe hun

If we are meant to be together and want it so bad then it should happen

youve lost me now hun

I got lost a while back

but is eveything ok on the bf front ???

Yep

We are thinking of moving in together come Autumn. By then I hope to have found a job and passed my driving test. While he wishes to have started building his mini empire.

well thats a start me and sonya moved in together before we got engaged i suppose you can see if you can live together found out each others bad habits then we got engaged and about four years later we married so its all part of the big plan

The thing that makes it more frustrating is wondering whether if we'd continued living together after University whether we would be better off with jobs and everything going for us.

nobody knows whats gonna happen i just take each day as it comes and just enjoy life and take the rough with the smooth

'nobody knows whats gonna happen'

Thats what makes for an interesting life right?

'rough with the smooth'

I wish I had more smooth than rough just realised I missed my appointment at the Jobcentre on Friday. In total I count about four rough and perhaps one smooth.

nah nobody knowsw whats gonna happen we shape our own destiny