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A public apology
Ancient Brit Started conversation Nov 13, 2011
Effers I am totally sorry for any hurt that I have caused you. Believe me that damn post was never intended as a threat to you in your real life, nor as any threat to you in your virtual life for that matter. There is only one person who posts here that I know in real life and he directed me here in the first place. I love it for for its anonimity and *character building*
However I should say that as I understand it your continued reference to this issue is outside house rules. I just wish that you had posted a message to me on my personal space.
Ten years ago I had quite a time introducing Ancient Brit to this Weird and Wonderful World. I chose the name because that is what I was at the time and that is what I have been through the whole of my virtual life.
In real life I have many friends and a loving family, I know a great deal about them, just as I know quite a bit about some here on h2g2. I always try to make sure that I understand relationship I form in real life and I have done and will continue to do that same thing here.
Again I am sorry and I beg of you to get things into perspective.
A public apology
Effers;England. Posted Nov 13, 2011
Thank you deeply for that Ancient Brit.
It is such a relief when people spell it out really clearly. I am all at 6s and 7s about this change and dealing with it because h2g2 is so very dear to my heart
I really wish people could all just front up more about absolutely everything.
You've helped me totally by posting good and friendly communication.
Yes I should have posted on your ps but I'm nervous about everything here and how people will treat me for months and months. So many absolutely horrible things have happened to me here emotionally....I start to expect that's the *norm* now. And I start to misinterpret stuff as very negative and persecutary.
Good clear communication is the *best medicine*.
Once again any thanks for posting here.
A public apology
Ancient Brit Posted Nov 13, 2011
Effers. On more than one occasion you have put it to me in no uncertain terms that you do not understand what I am saying. My post 6 was a direct reply to your post 4. copied below.
< You can't have transparancy AB..what are you on about? This isn't real life..People can be as creative with the truth as they want.
I prefer to trust people to say what they want or not. One of the joys of h2g2 you mostly don't get other places. >
Please look at it it and read it. It is hardly an opening to a thread started with the best of intentions.
There are two ways leading to any misunderstanding.
Let's just leave there.
A public apology
Effers;England. Posted Nov 13, 2011
Absolutely leave it there. I always have the highest respect for *honesty and fronting up* even if it means I look like an idiot. I have to face the reality of the honesty put to me.
It's always my road to sanity.
See you around the hoo..
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