h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

to our next Kangaroo Court in Session here:

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Bel

Hello love..

Let's keep things together, rather than having threads all over the place.

I know what you mean about feeling vulnerable. Unfortunately, the Mods are an outside agency. They don't get to see the entire thread, only the one that is yikes'd. Which is why they don't comment on individual decisions, other to uphold, or not.

If a yikesing is dismissed, you need to ask them to send it to the Editors for adjudication. Or say the Editors are aware of the problem. Whatever the Eds decide will stand. It gives you the opportunity to talk to them directly, giving your reasons. Just remember, the Eds have to abide by the House Rules too. So you won't get a long correspondence from them about their decisions.


lil xx

Yes but I do think they need to take it seriously when someone feels threatened psychologically. If someone behaved like that to me IRL, I dread to think what might happen. I'd feel so threatened I'd have to call the police. I know this might sound crazy to any 'normal' person. But I'm *not* totally normal even with medication. And you just shouldn't be allowed to seriously start messing with peoples' heads and psyche.

This pathetic unsubbing and then resubbing. And now this fluffy person.

I HATE IT.

Sssh... It's okay.. You are not alone in this

Yeah, I didn't know what the hell to make of that weird message he left on B'Elana's space. For all I know he might start going to my 'friends' and saying all sorts.

I find such behaviour as his incomprehensible. Even a couple of weeks ago I made some silly joke about the pontiff pontificating, and he left a message saying he didn't believe I meant the joke. Is he mad? Or is he trying to make me feel mad?

To mind he's a total weirdo. He's far worse than Vicky for me. As much to do with a few things I've heard, and all this unsubbing and resubbing on my PS. He will have picked up no doubt how imporatnt my PS feels, and 'enjoy' his pleasure in upsetting me, over and over.

I've got to the point now, that I don't care if other people don't understand why I'm so upset, I shall just react in a way to make myself feel most safe and less like one of his pathetic victims. I doubt very much he would behave like this to a man. Pathetic.

The only thing you can do, is give the Editors a record of his behaviour. Hit that yikes button for anything that breaks the <./>HouseRules</.>.

For others to help you, you have to help yourself, hunny


lil xx

>>For others to help you, you have to help yourself<<

Yes I will yikes now. I've never felt like I needed to before, but now I do. And I'll be more than happy to explain to the Eds why it upsets me, and now this fluffy person weighing in.

It's funny, in real life to. I can often deal with quite upfront and healthily agressive people, but various types of *inadequates* seem to be my achilles heel.

Thanks once again for your help.

You are welcome, hunny

It is time I was away to decorate my tree.. I will catch up with you here, if you prefer.

Or, you could leave a message on:

lil_h2g2ATyahooDOTcoDOTuk

Have a little patience with that addy, I only check it a couple of times a day..