h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

Part one took part over a week ago. Some of you might have already worked out what happened next, It's similar to what happened when one person got a call from a close friend who said he was about to kill himself and nobody was going to stop him:
Callee: Okay then, pass the phone to whoever made this call.
Caller: What are you on? There's only me here, I've already told you I'm alone in the flat.
Callee: Whoever rang me wanted me to stop you or they wouldn't have called at this hour.

To join up the dots, I talked to my husband, and he talked to me, for a couple of hours, and we listened to each other. Not all of it was calm, not all of it was quiet, and some of it hurt, on both sides.

"Who with" wasn't discussed (it would be irrelevant), "why" was. The air's been cleared, for now. "Sorry" wouldn't have been enough on its own, but there's been some noticeable improvement as well. How long will that last? We'll see.

But it's a start.

*breathes a sigh of relief*

I'm really lost, not being able to join up the dots. Whatever is going on I get it is heavy duty, so any time you want someone to listen, or any support, I'll do what I can

Peanut, thanks for the offer, I really do appreciate it. I won't be taking you up on it just yet, though.

The main problem was caused by a lack of communication. We're usually pretty good at that, but it's been a lot more difficult recently.

No worries, an open and standing invitation

wishing you both well