h2g2 The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy: Earth Edition

That's it. I'm through with pining for Heather. Last night I talked to her on the phone, and I happened to ask when we might be able to hang out again. I know she's past some big test of hers, and she's done with her job, so all she's got is her school and student teaching. You'd think that would mean she would allocate some time for me, but no.

She tells me about her plans for her birthday. Apparently, she was supposed to have some nice camping/drinking trip with her girlfriends, but that fell through. She had no plans for a while, and then just suddenly got the opportunity to go on a weekend trip with another friend of hers.

And then the following weekend she has other plans to go hang out with another group of friends. What angers me is that in the midst of all this planning, she hasn't made any effort to put aside time for me and her to hang out. Between her telling me how busy she is all the time, and then telling me that she's hanging out with friends every weekend, I have to conclude that I'm pretty far down on her priorities list.

I've deleted all contact information I have for her. I'm not going to call, IM, e-mail, or snail mail her any more. Next time she calls, I'm going to be too busy to talk to her. F$#@ her.

Good for you!!! I hate that feeling when people are planning things and they don't bother to ask you if you want to be included. *Especially* if it is someone you have feelings for. She should make time for you, if not, f**k her. Go find a sleazy bar to hang out at, and drink bad whisky, and talk to the smelly old man in the corner with a brown coat and no teeth...

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Awww Wampus. Don't feel . She'll probably come crawling back soon enough...

Well, I'm noticing a pattern. A year and a half ago, I decided to start a relationship with her. But when I asked her out, she told me she was completely booked for the next 2 weeks.

This happedn so much that I eventually forgot about her. 3 months later I found out she had a new boyfriend.

Sounds like a right cow to me. My advice? Forget her. Use her for sex if the chance arises, but nothing more. Don't ruin your life waiting for her to get her act together. When she's older, she'll regret it.

And much ing from my side fo the sea

Perhaps.

Or maybe you should just go back on everything you have done, and remain miserable that she's not contacting you? I don't know what to say m'dear. Doesn't sound like she's treating you very well to me. Ergo : she doesn't sound like she is worth getting all upset about. Don't be

I honestly don't know. I had too much hope pinned on her, so now it feels like I have no one to talk to IRL.

I'm debating whether to contact her and tell her what I'm thinking. Doing that will either make her take notice that I'm being neglected, or it will burn the bridge between us. Whichever it is depends on whether she's neglecting me intentionally or not.

Well. It would be a pinnacle moment. Can't do any harm...

Just don't stress so much over it. People that treat you like you are worth less than you are, deserve to be kicked in the stomach and laughed at. Ok. You know what I mean.

Well, actually, it could do harm. That's why I'm spending so much brain cells thinking about it.

I think I'm stressing over it because I was hoping that she could fill a void in my heart left when I had a falling out with my best friend. Now that I'm thinking that she's not going to be willing to fill that void, I have the same abandoned feeling that I had that last time, albeit not as severe.

You shouldn't let yourself think that other people can solve your emotional problems. T'is a bad thing, and it eventually drives others away.