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Effers;England. Started conversation Sep 4, 2011
I'm wondering how much tolerance will be given to them on noohootoo.
I was subject to some yesterday after posting honestly and with good faith..and then realising I was being wound up. I've found it extremely psychologically disturbing. Just as I was getting consistently happier on this site and posting in a variety of places and making good relationships.
I can imagine some people maybe sick of some of these journals. Its for the best they remove me from their friends' lists then..because nothing is going to change.
I'm going to carry on posting the truth as I see it in journals.
I had wanted to make a journal about a frog I saw jump into my pond yesterday evening. The first apparently normalish thing I have in the pond which has been beset with backswimmers. It was a pretty special thing to see for me. Wondering how it had found my pond..and maybe meaning next spring I'll get frog spawn and tadpoles.
But I am so upset by the WUM and the fact it involved me mentioning my cat who was so special and died last year after 20 years..that it got crowded out.
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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned Posted Sep 4, 2011
Hello hunny,
I was actually reading that thread last night. I honestly cannot say he was winding you up. You were both having a lovely conversation and having a bit of fun together. You brought up about your cat, and it is something that tends to make others go quiet on the subject. In this instance another party entered the conversation, which is probably why the thread continued. Until you decided to unsub I cannot see anything that was wrong. Try reading it again from another perspective, it really was a lovely little chat. I think the 'other party' might have unsettled you, even though he hadn't said anything wrong either
lil x
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2legs - Hey, babe, take a walk on the wild side... Posted Sep 4, 2011
I like reading your journals, especially about the garden, pond etc you have... makes up for my not having any garden here to read about it
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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned Posted Sep 4, 2011
We had a lawn, until next door's rabbits dug under the fence. Now we have lots of clover, which the cats love
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2legs - Hey, babe, take a walk on the wild side... Posted Sep 4, 2011
We have a toad in my Dad's garden, which really lives next door, by their pond, but just through the fence, into my Fathers garden, takes it to his compost heaps... and that seems to be a good hunting ground for the toad to visit to get its lunch...
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Effers;England. Posted Sep 4, 2011
i beg to differ lil I've known him for years on the Dawkins thread. Its a pattern...happened many times before. You're taking it in isolation.
I know the truth. But if in noohootoo people aren't going to spot it. I'll simply leave.
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Effers;England. Posted Sep 4, 2011
No well all sorts of nasty stuff has gone on on that thread over the years..you could write a book on it. And people know its the most hidden away part of h2g2 because most sane people avoid it like the plague.
Anyway I'm completely clear in my mind about the game going on..whether or not others see it.
Taff always sees these things however. Shame he can't be a mod.
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Effers;England. Posted Sep 4, 2011
But the main thing is that this is a writing site. And no-one can stop me writing stuff provided its within house rules.
And I know a lot of people here are angry about hurt they've suffered but nothing is done.
Well they dam well ought to get writing about it then.
Why should people have to bottle up stuff on a ing writing site?
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Effers;England. Posted Sep 4, 2011
And still Nick carries on..again and again and again he will post straight after me with some quirky remark..it is out and out harassement.
But this site is all about sending people mad
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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned Posted Sep 4, 2011
Have you tried just emailing the Eds about your problem?
I know you don't want to yikes on principle.
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Effers;England. Posted Sep 5, 2011
I won't be having that problem for a while now. As in my mind there will be no conflict. I don't want him on my journal..and will immediately yikes if he does post there..and explain reasons...and to do with his past behaviour of repeatedly unsubbing and resubbing on my ps.
What sickens me though in general is that so much low grade harassement goes on here, but if you draw attention to it and the effect on you..people don't take you seriously or realise a whole history that has gone on that leads you to conclude what you do.
I'm sick to death of people not seeing stuff I do here. it hurts sometimes having a brain.
But for now I've sorted things in my own way.
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