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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

Howdy people, I have returned from the depths of the interwebs. A lot has happened since I've been gone. I had a few more brief relationships (note: dating crack ho's isn't fun, especially when you didn't know they were addicts before that), a few flings, did a number of things I shouldn't have, got a tatt, and somehow have survived to halfway through my third year of my four year degree. I've starting dating someone who is a good person, instead of my normal choice of, for lack of a better word, bitches who just want to use me. She makes my depression not so bad, and I do the same for her, so I am much happier than I have been in a long time. So, what have you guys been up to?


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


Good to have you back!! smiley - smoochsmiley - hug


Nice to know there are still some 'nice girls' out there smiley - winkeye


lil x


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

yeah. She's a real sweetie, I love her so much

. We were watching a thing about the new wave of anti-feminists which is growing faster and faster. Its so annoying, they interviewed a group of fashionistas who were so annoyingly vapid. But then they had Germaine Greer presenting her side of the story. She's fantastic. She got soooo angry when one of the vapid ones claimed that feminism set them up for a fall, because "how were we to know how hard working was?" I don't know eh. I believe in true equality, I don't treat people differently based on race, sex, religion etc, just if they are my friend or not.


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


Germaine Greer always had very strong beliefs... as for those other 'ladies', they are the original 'Trolley Dollies' of the airline ads smiley - winkeye

You are a gentle man - just continue treating others with respect and then you know they can't really say anything bad about you.They are the ones with the problems smiley - hug


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

Mm. People keep judging me on what I do when I'm alone which is stupid. I mean so I slept around a bit, it made me feel not so alone. I don't do it when I have a partner. My main problem at the moment is that there's a big group of lesbians at UniQ who keep accusing me of not being bi. They've convinced nearly all the gay guys too, and some of the other bi's. Just because I prefer girls and have a girlfriend doesn't mean I'm straight, but I don't know what to do about it because it's against my beliefs to have to defend myself against people like that. I've done a lot of things in my life, I know for sure that I prefer women, but I'm willing to be with guys if they're cute. Idk eh. I'm happy to be with my Jacinta, so not much else matters, but it's really annoying that these people would accuse me of pretending to be bi. I can't even begin to understand why


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


Oh, just ignore them!

What has you sexuality got to do with anyone else? Except your choice of partner, of course smiley - smiley


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

I have no idea. it got political though, at the start of the year I was elected as Social Events Executive for UniQ, and the president (the lesbian who originally accused me of not being bi) stripped my title from me for spurious reasons. Which is also against the human rights thingy, because its biased action against me based on sexuality. She's the sort to claim that it isn't because she's lesbian, but I know my rights. Not that I can be bothered to take action, but still..


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

Pheloxi is dead? smiley - wah He was such a nice person...


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


Yes, sweetheart.. It was all rather sudden smiley - crysmiley - hug

We were fortunate that his brother is IT savvy and was able to leave us a message smiley - cuddle


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

That's really sad... Has anyone else? *needs smiley - choc* I get paid at midnight >__> He was one of the good people...


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


I don't think we've lost anyone else.. other than those who decided to leave that it smiley - hug

smiley - chocsmiley - choc


Yes, Pheloxi was truly one of the best. I miss him a lot smiley - smiley


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

I don't like losing my friends, especially to something as final as death. It makes me feel so helpless..


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


It was a huge shock to us all... The site was very quiet for a long while as people began to come to terms with the news.

Pheloxi's family have made a scrap book of some his works in Hootoo.. and also kept copies of our messages, which they have passed on to other family members. Some were read out at his service by his brother.

Sweetheart, I need to go and rest now, I am just recovering from an operation and it's still making me very tired. I look forward to hearing from you again soon... smiley - smoochsmiley - cuddle


lil x


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

Ok. I know how much of a strain that is on your body. Sweet dreams lil. When you get back, what operation did you have?


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


I had a hysterectomy.. which is a pretty major operation.

That's stopped me dancing for a while smiley - diva


Bye for now love smiley - smoochsmiley - hug


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

that would have been painful. So far I've only had an appendectomy when my appendix exploded, and that was bad enough


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lil ~ Auntie Giggles with added login ~ returned


I certainly wouldn't want to experience that, hunny smiley - hug


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Navigatorblack of the EAN Blackheart

So, how have you been lately apart from the surgery?


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