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Serephina

If you feel the need to insult me can I ask that you have the decency to do it to my face in future? Not that I've given you any reason to the best of my knowledge to insult me in the first place. I'm sure supposed gentleman that you are this will not pose a problem. smiley - smiley


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Rev Nick { Only the dead are without fear }

Lady, if I felt a wish to insult or offend you, I would be decent enough to approach you directly. If you take a general, off-the-cuff comment, days old already and in a one-to-one thread as something personal, ... There is nothing that I can do about that.


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Serephina

really? which other researcher on the site is prominently wiccan? I only know of a handful who share my beliefs fullstop. If you wish your conversations to be private I suggest you find a forum where everything isn't in the public domain n therefore not private. I was far from the onlyperson to take offence at your posting, nor connect it to me.


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Rev Nick { Only the dead are without fear }

To be honest, when I posted that, I hadn't even remembered you and any tie to Wicca. It has to be 2 years easily since I last spoke to you. I might just as readily have referred to a Druid or any of a half-dozen other Pagan ways that have been revised and revisited as 'new age'. Whether you are the only one on h2g2 or there are hundreds, I do not know. h2g2 is a negligible part of my day-to-day life.

So once more, if you, or dozens of others, happen to wander through my conversations and are personally offended, there's nought that I can do.


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Post 5

Serephina

ok, fair enough.


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Rev Nick { Only the dead are without fear }

Just a little curious ...

Since your journals do pop-up in the INFO page often enough. I do congratulate you on your engagement, and wish the three of you much happiness. But I thought you were more of the earthy nature. Waiting for a sparkler seems a bit of a contradiction.


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Post 7

Serephina

Thank you smiley - biggrin


was just using common terms to say its not 'quite' offical yet smiley - smiley as i dont have a ring or anything yet. The tradition of given a ring is rather pagan though as it symbolises the eternal circle of life, but i'll prolly go for a nice rose quartz necklace or something instead.


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Rev Nick { Only the dead are without fear }

Something subtle yet pretty, as Venus wears daily ... You might have seen it at a couple of Meets.

Also, because the journals appear ... I wish you luck with the hypnosis on the week-end. I tried the magnetic/accupuncture combination a few years ago. I've now got perhaps 34 or 35 years of smoking habit. But I also have a trade, weather and genealogical tough hide. And half of the little magnetic stickies dropped out as I was driving home. smiley - erm


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Post 9

Serephina

seems i need to repeat post one of this thread.


if you havesomething to say about me kindly hve the decency annd manners to say it to my face


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Post 10

Serephina

ah, as I expected, no manners what so ever then


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Rev Nick { Only the dead are without fear }

Sorry, didn't see this down in the Message centre.

I don't know how much of what you were shown. Probably not where I started by showing concern, and suggesting that some friends might be truly helpful. Just the usual escalation of stuff that follows.

It doesn't matter. Believe what you will ...


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Post 12

Serephina

I saw everything..including you so called 'concern'. As i said, speak to me ,not about me, thats downright rude. And for someone who complains so much about lurkers n people sticking their noses in ..well..
only those who know my full s-ituation have any right at all to make judgements about me, my journals dont say the half of it , or anywhere near.


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Rev Nick { Only the dead are without fear }

From the "for someone who complains so much about lurkers n people sticking their noses in", I can only assume you are thinking of someone else. Or also being fed mis-information. Either way, ...

I don't make judgements on anyone except those who I have direct and specific contact with. Obviously, that doesn't mean you, as we barely pass in any common threads. I expressed an opinion based on what I saw in black and white. So I'm humane, ... that's life. Sometimes you will see someone who might care, and not have any stake or expectations. Stuff happens, eh?

Anyway, no worries about me. I'll try to not pay any attention or feel concerns.

Good bye.


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Post 14

Serephina

really, there must be someone else using your name in these parts then becuse im not nor do i need to bed 'fed' anything, I have eyes and my own mind. don't make me post links to you clearly saying such things

And you make a judgement, that friends of mine werent being supportive in problems you have all wrong anyway..n to make any assertions as tothe welfare of my son, well, that was too far. What was to stop you addressing any xoncerns to me n getting facts straight first? nothing but simple good manners.


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Post 15

Serephina

oh n by the way.. my sheer quantities of booze you refer to in the post lil yiksed about me? I don't drink at all apart from the very rare social occasion such as meets! thats what i mean by getting fact straight..you know very very little about me and what you assume to think you know is all wrong.


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