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just who do you thinnk you are

Post 1

Researcher 242292

what gives you the right to come into our gang rooms and say things like that, you think youre better than us just because you were the first on here well we dont care abvout being better or even being the first all we care about is appreciation for Buffy and ssharing that with are friends. You say that you chose youre name based on your personalities well your nothing like Willow, she nice sweet and friendly and she does not talk like THAT! and we did choose our characters based on our personalties everyone gets to choose a character based on what their like. oh and also we did not just assume we couldnt be part of your gang Giles was told to go away and leave you alone by your very own xander. So we would appreciate it if you would stop looking down on us and treating us as if we dont have a clue about Buffy and refrain from posting offensive remarks in either our chat room or our members pages. Oh and nobody was ever rude to you until you posting that mean remark. If you'd have just come in and been friendly like Xander and Faith then we'd have no problems whatsoever!


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 2

semper_paratus

Hi Buffy,

I don't really want to make this into an arguement, as I'm sure you don't either, but I feel I need to say something on this subject.

You said that Black Eyed Girl is nothing like Willow, how can you say that when you don't know her. I can assure you that I have had many mates/friends in my 35 years and all of them have let me down in some way or another, yet in the 6 months I have known Willow, I have found her to be the most kind, considerate, funniest and generous friend that I have ever had and I trust her alot more than many of my own family.

In conclusion, if you don't like her and don't appreciate her coming into your chat rooms, then you have every right to ask her to stop, but please I would appreciate it if I didn't see you posting messages that included assassinations of her character.

If this message is concieved as harsh, then I'm sorry, but I felt compelled to say something, as she is my best friend.

smiley - biggrin Xander


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 3

Researcher 242292

no your right i dont want to turn this into an argument but the simple fact is she has come into our room and been just damn right rude and basically remarked that we are beneath you guys and I just find that very hurtful. I dont dislike her as you said I dont know her but i do dislike her remarks and I wish that she could have just treated us with kindness and respect like you and Faith have done when youve visited us. I mean have you read her messages to us, they are not nice, we are deffinatley getting the dark willow at are end lol. We would have no problems getting along with her if she didbt treat us like idiots. Like I said yourself and Faith have always been kind and treated us like fellow Buffy fans where as Willow treats us like Buffy treats Andrew y'know. Oh well Ill leave it at that. Sorry Xander but I had to say something that remark she made in Dawns page just made me very angry. Merry Christmas.

smiley - love Buffy xx


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 4

LittleMissAlexandriaNicolaHassett

buffy

will is a lovely girl can u not say these things

xander
ur a goo good friend to her keep it up


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 5

Black-Eyed Girl... Sometimes the only sane answer to an insane world is insanity!

Right,
I have said one thing i your space and thats the way I talk, if you dont like it tell me to go away! Its very simple!

And how the hell dare you come into my space and attack me? I went into Dawn's area to clear up some confusion Xander said there was. Its YOUR cordelia who came in a started being rude to me!!! But I guess as far as your concerned thats absolutly fine coz she's one of yours!
As far as I can see from your attitude, you can do what the hell you want, go where you want and be as damn rude as you want and thats fine!

As far as the joining of our gang went, Xander explained the story to me on the phone so I had absolutely nothing to do with it online at all, so dont you come to me losing your rag in one post then saying your not looking for an arguement immediatly after!!!
As far as I can see, all you are is a 'flaming troll'. I never wanted anything to do with you which is exactly why I've never spoken to you!

If you dont like the way I speak, ask me to leave and I will, thats fine. But do NOT come into my damn space and attack me when Ive not said a damn thing to you!
If you cant sort through an issue like an adult, as your cordelia seemed to, why even bother coming online, unless the only reason you're here is to cause trouble!

Im sick to damn death of you lot all bursting into a conversation and screaming like children. Why not raise an issue like a civilised adult, then everyone can enjoy the site!?

I will tell you now, if you come in here invading my personal space just to verbally attack me, I will be reporting you as that is a huge contradiction to the house rules, and I just want to come on here to chat to my friends, who all seem to be able to sort through any issues like mature and level headed adults!!

If you dont like me... fine, I couldn't give a monkeys!

Oh, and I have NEVER treated you like an idiot, but if this is how you try to resolve an issue, Im starting to think I was wrong!

I posted a message to your DAWN, that, unless Im greatly mistaken, is not you and your cordelia but you have both verbally attacked me when all Ive done is make a clear and valid point. If I were her, Id be rather insulted that you have burst into one of her pprivate conversations and started insulting and being damn right rude when in all fairness, the message itself had nothing to do with you!
So before you start disrespecting me, maybe you should get all your facts straight.
Bring up the gang issue with either my Xander or even your Giles... maybe then you'll get the full story!

Oh, and thank you so much for stopping by, please dont come again!

WILLOW


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 6

Black-Eyed Girl... Sometimes the only sane answer to an insane world is insanity!

Hi Alex,
not wasting anymore of my time in here!

Thanks tho hun... and you know me when Im harsh and rude... they think Ive displayed it on here! How wrong could they be!!?? smiley - biggrin

Chat somewhere else

Will


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 7

LittleMissAlexandriaNicolaHassett

i fully on the side of of black eyed girl as as she is wonderful and a friend but id rather some people would grow up


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 8

THE SCOOBIES (Giles) "Could it possibly get uglier, I used to be a highly respected watcher, now I'm a wounded dwarf with the my

ok lets clear the air like adults ok you were being rude black eyed girl in our chat room...i've got nothing against hun...ok but plzz don't call my buffy a flameing troll pllzzz...i've known buffy a very long time and she is the most friendly, kind, loving caring person i know so plzzz don't put my buffy down like that plzzzz....just can't we get along with each other and just chat and be friendly with each other....but black eyed girl u don't know buffy like i do so plzzz don't call her names


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 9

semper_paratus

Okay Giles, she's not calling Buffy names, trolling is a valid H2G2 term, you can check out it's meaning in the house rules.

This is what is causing alot of this arguement, people seem to be misunderstanding alot of what is being said and it has all been blown out of context, I have read all of the posts that Black Eyed Girl has written and knowing her as I do, I see nothing wrong with them, I can assure you that there was absolutely no malicious intent, or an attempt to start an arguement with anyone.

As much as this maybe upsetting your members, I can tell you that Black Eyed Girl is just as upset by all of this. You can take me at my word or not, I don't mind either way, I'm just starting to get annoyed because all of this is stopping my friend from coming online.

smiley - biggrin Xander


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 10

Researcher 242292

I honestly cant see how you say there is nothing wrong with the things she has said to and about us, but I understand that she is your friend and you dont like to see arguments or heated discussions involving your friends, neither do i and she may very well be upset but i am extremley upset about it all ive never been spoken to like that before in my life and it has really hurt me. Everytime she has posted a conversation about us she has made me out to be petty and childish when i certaily am not belive me if I wanted to be nasty I really could but i will not lower myself to that. I am very upset and I wish she would just leave us all alone and stop putting me down. I simply cant understand why she couldnt have just been nice and friendly to us like she is to you before this all started myself nor any other member of our group had ever been unkind to her so i cant understand what we did to deserve all this. Well im going now because i know longer feel welcome on here, i though this site was a friendly place and now i feel like its the last place i want to be. smiley - cry

smiley - love Buffy xx


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 11

semper_paratus

I and black eyed girl would like to know exactly what posts she has put up, that have specifically targeted you or Giles, if I remember correctly, the only message to specifically be targeted at either of you, was my original posting to Giles.

I don't want anyone to have to leave H2G2 because of this, lets just say that we will agree to disagree, it is obvious that you don't like each other, so why don't you not talk to her and I can assure you that black eyed girl will not talk to you.

smiley - biggrin Xander


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 12

Researcher 242292

fine it obvious that youre never gonna see our point of veiw so well just leave it at that. and also as long as were being adult about all this I will apologise to both you and willow for getting angry and airing my feelings in her personal page. i shouldnt have let it get to me so much smiley - sorry

smiley - love Buffy smiley - vampire


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 13

LittleMissAlexandriaNicolaHassett

then thats soughted


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 14

THE SCOOBIES (Giles) "Could it possibly get uglier, I used to be a highly respected watcher, now I'm a wounded dwarf with the my

Lets all try and get along with each other and be friends and chat

merry christmas xander & anya smiley - smiley
merry christmas black eyed girl smiley - smiley

lets all get along with each other

Giles smiley - book


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 15

semper_paratus

As I have mentioned in a conversation and in conversations to me, it is very difficult to tell the mood of a posting just by reading the words, as we all have different ways of making our point and what is conceived as harsh by one person, can be seen as quite reasonable by another and as I have mentioned, I can assure you that there was no intent on the part of Black Eyed Girl, to cause any arguement.

I also appologise if I have caused any animosity between our two groups, as this was entirely not my intention.

Merry Christmas to Buffy & Giles and for that matter, Merry Christmas to ALL.

'AVE A GOOD UN'

smiley - biggrin Xander


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 16

Researcher 242292

you have absolutely nothing to apologise for Xander you have caused no animosity between us, you have been very reasonable in helping us two bring this discussion to an end. So I shall leave it at that and wish you a very merry christams also smiley - santa

smiley - love Buffy smiley - vampire


just who do you thinnk you are

Post 17

LittleMissAlexandriaNicolaHassett

Merry Christistmas to both sets of scoobies


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